How to check one loves his wife or mistress more?

There is a saying in Taiwan about the nature of man-- "Nine out of ten men cheat.  The 10th man is impotent."

While this may be a sweeping generalization, but it is pretty close to the truth or world population would have been much smaller.

In this article, we utilize the power of Bazi or 4-pillars astrology to find out if a man loves his wife or mistress/ girl friend more by examining certain feature in his birth chart.  "Mistress or girl friend" here is defined as a woman who have repeated sexual relationship with a married man.  This does NOT include the one-night stand affairs.

BAZI FEATURES OF MAN WITH MISTRESS/ GIRL FRIEND

1.  Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) stronger than +wealth star (zheng-cai):  -Wealth star represents mistress and +wealth star wife for a male chart.  When -wealth star is stronger than +wealth, it implies his mistress is more capable than wife.  Hence this man tends to prefer or love the mistress more.

2.  Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) exposed in stem level and  +wealth star (zheng-cai) hidden in branch level:  -Wealth star showing up in stem level means mistress is visually seen in public with this man. This also means husband interacts with mistress more in public.  This may also be a type of showing off.   +Wealth star is hidden in stem level means husband rarely goes out with wife.  He may be uncomfortable to show off wife in public with him.  In short, this implies mistress has higher priority or status in this man's mind.

3.  Chart with  +wealth star (zheng-cai) "gaining position" 妻星得位 and strong:   In Bazi, "gaining position" happens when a +wealth star sits in spouse palace or day-branch.  If a husband chart with +wealth wife star gaining position or with nurturing by other star or with multiple +wealth stars,  this means wife is strong, capable and intolerant of a mistress.  This husband is also likely a "wife-fearing" person or even bullied by his wife.

4.  Chart with multiple -wealth stars (pian-cai):  This means -wealth mistress star is strong and with stronger karma connection with husband.  He is likely to love the mistress more than the wife.  He may even have no love or feeling for wife.

The above info is useful for any woman to weed out potential unfaithful partner before investing too much energy and resources on the guy.

Bazi can also predicts who will win in a love triangle like 2 women fight for a husband, 2 men fight for a wife, who will cheat in a marriage plus many other life events and even Feng Shui and date-selection!  

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Identify unfaithful males from their birthday charts 花心男人

Hi sisters!  Today is your lucky day to find out if your male pals have unfaithful potential using Bazi astrology.

Below factors contribute to the "unfaithfulness" of a male:

1.  Strong metal and water elements in a male chart:  Water stands for IQ, cunningness, desire and also promiscuity in Bazi.  Metal will further strengthen water or his desire.

2.  Strong output (shang-guan/ shi-shen) stars in birth chart:  Output elements also represent desire.  Shang-guan also stands for the sex organ.  Strong output elements in chart means this guy has strong drive to fulfil his desires.

3.  Chart has -wealth (pian-cai) or mixing of + or -wealth stars:  +wealth star (zheng-cai) stands for wife and -wealth mistress if the chart is above average (prostitutes or one-night stand if below average chart).

4.  Chart has symbolic stars like peach-blossom, affair sha and bath:  while these stars help interactions with the opposite sex, they do not necessarily represent promiscuity unless strong output stars also present in the chart.

If a man has two plus of the above, you may want to think twice before going steady with him.

"Ken, does the above also applicable to unfaithful females?"

Yes, except #3 needs to switch to "-power (qi-sha) or mixing of + (zheng-guan) and -power stars" because power stars stand for husband and lover for females.

If you want to know more about Bazi, the following course gives you the most for your money:

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How to check if a man loves his wife OR mistress more?

There are many one-woman man in this world.  But there are also multiple-women man too.  How can we know if one is a one-woman or multiple-women man?  How can we figure out if he loves his wife or mistress more?  This sounds like a soap opera but gets your attention.

ONE-WOMAN VS. MULTIPLE WOMEN MAN
We can quickly find out if one is a loyal or "play the field" man by check his Bazi natal chart.  In Bazi, +wealth (zheng-cai) star represents formally married wife and -wealth (pian-cai) stands for mistress or lover.  Hence if -wealth star shows up in a male chart, the chance of this person has mistress is higher.

Note:  You can check if someone is a one-woman or multiple-women man by keying in his birthday and hour in this www.bazicalculator.com website.   However, this calculator uses  "direct wealth" to represent +wealth and "indirect wealth" for -wealth.  Look at the chart at left hand side only and check if there is any "indirect wealth"-- sign of mistress.

Characteristics of a multiple-woman male chart: 

• contains both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian cai)
• may have "hidden" wealth star/s in the branch/es
• if there is no -wealth star in his natal chart, but luck period/s bring in -wealth star

WIFE VS. MISTRESS
By the same token,  through analyzing the relative strength and locations of +wealth and -wealth stars, we can deduce if this man favors his wife or mistress more.  

Man loves mistress more scenarios:

• -wealth star is stronger than +wealth star:  this means mistress is more capable than the wife or has qualities that wife does not possess.
• -wealth star/s show up in stem level and +wealth star is hidden in branch level:  whatever in stem level means "visible" to public whereas in branch level is not seen by the public.  This man is brazenly showing off his mistress in public and rarely taking wife out socializing.
• multiple -wealth stars in the chart:  this means -wealth star or mistress is strong and keeping the attention of the man.
• proximity to the daymaster (man):  "proximity" here means -wealth star sits next or below the daymaster like in the day-stem (strongest), month-stem or hour-stem.  Being "close" means deeper relationship with the man.

Man loves wife more scenarios:

1. +wealth star is stronger than -wealth star:  this means mistress is less capable than his wife and may have some undesirable qualities.
2. +wealth star/s show up in stem level and -wealth star is hidden in branch level:  whatever in stem level means "visible" to public whereas in branch level is not seen by the public.  This man is "hiding" or keeping the mistress in secret.
3. multiple +wealth stars in the chart:  this means +wealth star or wife is strong and may not tolerate taking a mistress in.
4. +wealth or wife star "gains position":  "gains position" here means wife star sitting in spouse palace and becomes very powerful.  This man is likely "afraid" or "dominated" by wife and dares not getting a mistress.
5. proximity to the daymaster (man):  "proximity" here means +wealth star sits next or below the daymaster like in the day-stem (strongest), month-stem or hour-stem. 

"Ken, how do we check one-man woman and multiple-men woman?

This is a BOGO article.  The answer for your question is embedded in the article by changing six words.  I give you the first four: change wife to husband, man to woman, mistress to lover, +wealth to ????? and -wealth to ?????

Here we keep things simple without considering the scenario that a man or woman unintentionally becomes a multiple-women or men person due to jinxing the spouse to death (and marrying again).  This is another story.

You can see Bazi or 4-pillars is fun and practical.  It is also the stepping stone for learning other Chinese metaphysical subjects.  If you want to know more, please take this course:
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Husband Affairs Feng Shui 老公偷情风水

The Feng Shui arrangements below may give rise to husband affairs:

1.  Putting flowers in NW sector of house:  NW is Qian palace in Feng Shui and stands for husband.  Flowers can represent females.

2.  Dry and empty flower vase:  This item may attract husband affair especially when it is put in NW (Qian) or east (Zhen) sector of the house. 

3.  Wealth positions exposed to light:  Wealth also represents woman.  When the wealth position of a house is exposed to light, it means the position is near a window, door or hallway.  The husband likes to show off his wealth and attracts other females.  

4.  Fish-tank put in ESE (Mao mountain):  Mao is one of the 4 peach-blossom elements and also part of Zhen palace (East) sector.  Zhen represents male sex organ and water for lust. Your hubby can have "fun" when all these items are in the right places.


5.  Water tap faces door:  Water tap is the imagery of a male sex organ and door for female.  House with water tap facing door or water tap outside the house is prone to affairs or husband does not returns home at night.  

6.  Bed sits on west sector or Dui palace:  In terms of marriage, Dui stands for mistress, concubine or lover.  If a couple's bed is located on Dui palace, husband may think about extra-marital activities.

7.  Lust or sexual object in left side of bed:  Left side represents green dragon or husband and right side white tiger or wife in Feng Shui.  If left side of bed has art objects or pictures that are sexual in nature, the sexual energy may steer husband to affairs.

8.  Bedroom has "room within a room":  This is the image of a concubine or second wife.  This room within a room can be a study or any room. 

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How to check out your husband's lover from your own Bazi chart

Today is your lucky or unlucky day if you need the knowledge of your husband's lover.  The info is hidden in your own Bazi chart!

Power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represents the husband of a female Bazi chart.  By checking the interactions of your husband star within the chart and during luck periods, you can figure out some specific information of your "competition".

Here are the secrets:

1. If your power star is combined away by a resource star ("yin"), your hubby's lover is older than you.
2. If your power star is combined away by an output star ("shi-shen/ shang-guan"), your hubby's lover is younger than you or about the age of your children!
3. If the power star is combined away by a peer star ("bi-jian/ jie-cai"), your hubby's lover is about the same age as you and she is likely your close friend!
4. If the power star is combined away by a wealth star ("zheng-cai/ pian-cai"), your hubby's lover runs into his life due to work or yourself.
5. If the power star is combined away by the favorable element of your chart, your hubby's lover is better than you in terms of economic, academic and work performance.

With this knowledge, you can narrow down the potential competition and keep an eye on her (and your hubby) before she becomes your real competition!  Bazi knowledge is very practical.

Ken Lai

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Bazi: How to check the cheating potential of your husband

Will your husband cheat?  Believe it or not, the answer may be found in your own Bazi chart!

In Bazi, power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represent husband/ boy friend for women.  To check if your husband will cheat or not, you look at the interactions of power stars with your peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in your own Bazi chart.  If there is/ are interactions would mean potential signs of cheating husbands or boy friends.  It could also mean long courtship/ cohabitation with separations as ending.

If your natal chart meets any one of the following conditions, your husband is a potential cheater:
1.  "Peer star snatches power star"(比劫夺官 ):  Peer stars are daymaster's (DM) sisters, friends of same gender and colleagues.  Power star is husband.  When peer star snatching power star happens, it means close friend or even sister has "snatched" DM's husband away or simply having affair with DM's husband.  The likelihood is higher when peer and power star are in the same pillar.  If peer star and power star show up in stem level, it means they have the affair openly without fear.  If both stars are in the branch level, the affair is going on in secret.
2.   Power star is combined away (官杀被合 ):  Power star represents a woman DM's husband.  When it is combined away means her husband is taken away .  For example, bing-fire is the power star of xin-metal female DM.  If there is another xin-metal in the chart, especially if it is next to bing-fire, the probability of xin-metal DM losing her husband to another female will be high.
3.  Peer star in day-branch (日支见比劫星 ):  Day-branch is the location of spouse palace or husband in a chart.  This palace prefers seeing wealth or power but not peer star.  If peer star is unfavorable in the chart, mistress may likely show up.

For example:  female chart 
YEAR:  Geng-wu
DAY:   Yi-you
MONTH:  Geng-yin
HOUR:  Geng-chen

Female Geng-metal DM's husband is wu-fire.  Wu-fire is in the year pillar.  This means her husband is likely from far away or out of state/ province.  Wu-fire is surrounded by metal (this means peer stars snatching him away).  This women had many unsuccessful romances with out-of-state boy friends.

If your chart does not see any power star, never mind if your husband will cheat or not, worry about how to get a husband first.  Usually this means you may have problem getting a husband or lacking relationship with husband if getting one.

Male readers may find a new explanation for cheating-- "wife's chart shows that I will cheat".  Female readers can tell their hubbies why they keep following them or put a male chastity belt on them in certain periods.  However, there are subtle and low profile Bazi remedies than these in-your-face fixes.

For possible Bazi remedies, you may take these courses:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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With Bazi knowledge, one can predict when the cheating episode may happen and do preventive measures.  It is also possible to check if your boy friend or husband will cheat or not by reading his Bazi chart too (equal opportunity Bazi reading here).  This may be a future post.

Ken Lai

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Will someone "steal" your spouse or lover ?

How do you check if your spouse is prone to be "snatched" away by another person or a "cheating heart"?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or "spouse-snatcher" showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai)
-- Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man.  Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love.  This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren.  If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your wife or lover.  For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period. 

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen)
-- Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one's love.  This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch.   It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui
-- if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your husband or lover.  For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one's spouse palace (day-branch)
-- assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship.  This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another woman coming into the system.  Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another man coming into the system.  Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE
Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut.  It could be the "script" or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart.  The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going "steady".  If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period.  There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my "Destiny and Luck management" courses (see below for details).

Ken Lai

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Bazi: Secret Dating Guide for Women

The "Secret dating guide for men" post is one of the top 3 most popular posts in this blog month after month.  Being an equal opportunity discriminator, I write up the corresponding guide for women.

Similar to the "Secret dating guide for men", this guide is a negative guide-- what not to pick.  It will help women identify unfaithful men, horny dogs and wife-beaters with Bazi.

Don't worry about not knowing anything about Bazi (or 4-Pillars).  The appendix below will show you how to calculate the "day branch" of your potential partner.

This dating guide shows you a list of male daymasters (DM or your potential mate) born in certain days of the year. Women may want to think twice before taking the marriage vow with these men.  Men born in the days listed below are likely to be unfaithful husbands/ partners or simply jinxing their wives (not in absolute sense, still need to see other elements in his chart or consult a Bazi reader).  

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF UNDESIRABLE MALE PARTNER
Match the "day pillar" (birth day) of your potential mate to see if his chart has any of the following characteristics.  
 
1.  Male chart with numerous or strong pian-cai (-wealth) elements
-- "Pian-cai" (-wealth) stands for unstable love or affairs and mistress/lover.  Chart with numerous "pian-cai" means this man (DM) is likely fickle in love, lusty and disloyal.   If you find 2 or more "pian-cai" elements in a man's chart, you probably should walk away.  Table below shows you how to spot "pian-cai" in a chart. 

• Jia-wood DM with wu- and/ or chen-/xu-earth in chart 
• Yi -wood DM with ji- and/ or chou-/wei-earth in chart
• Bing-fire DM with geng- and/ or shen-metal in chart
• Ding-fire DM with xin- and/ or you-metal in chart
• Wu-earth DM with ren- and/ or zi-water in chart
• Ji-earth DM with gui- and/ or hai-water in chart
• Geng-metal DM with jia- and/ or yin-wood in chart
• Xin-metal DM with yi- and/ or mao-wood in chart
• Ren-water DM with bing- and/ or si-fire in chart
• Gui-water DM with ding- and/ or wu-fire in chart

2.  Chart with strong output star/s chasing wealth stars

-- Output stars means "shang-guan" and "shi-shen".  They represent DM's desire and impulses (and also sex organ!).  Strong output stars in a chart means DM has strong sexual desire and is impulsive.  If the chart has weak or no power star to control this desire, DM is likely be a lustful person, especially if output star is with wealth star in the same pillar. 
Output stars for:

• Jia-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire 
• Yi-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire
• Bing-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth
• Ding-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
• Wu-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Ji-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Geng-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
• Xin-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
• Ren-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
• Gui-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood 

3.  DM with numerous peer stars
-- Peer stars means "bi-jian" and "jie-cai" which stand for friends, sibling and colleagues.  In Bazi, there is a saying of "peer stars snatch wealth".  Wealth means wife.  A strong male DM with numerous peer stars is likely "sharing" ("involuntarily" or unknowingly) a women with other men or simply jinxing wife (or wife runs away with another man!).  Besides, men with strong peer stars are likely have a impulsive personality and are possessive toward their spouses.  They are also potential wife-beaters if chart has no power star to control the peer stars.  Peer stars of:

• Jia-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
• Yi-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
• Ding-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire
• Bing-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire 
• Wu-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
• Ji-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
• Geng-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Xin-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Ren-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
• Gui-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water

4.  DM with "jie-cai" peer star in day branch or spouse palace
-- Day branch is the spouse palace of a person.  "Jie-cai " or peer star controls "cai" or wife and sits in spouse palace means jinxing wife.  This means divorce, disharmony, wife is chronically sick or wife dies prematurely.  Think twice if your potential husband has any one of the following day pillars:

• Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-chou, Ji-wei, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai days 

5.  Spouse palace is clashed in the natal chart
Day branch is the "spouse palace".  When it is clashed, it means unstable marriage or jinxing spouse.  This clash could be between month and day branch or day and hour branch.  Below are the six possible clashes:

• zi-wu  (rat and horse clash)
• mao-you  (rabbit and rooster clash)
• yin-shen  (tiger and monkey clash)
• si-hai  (snake and pig clash)
• chen-xu  (dragon and dog clash)
• chou-wei  (ox and ram clash)

The follow branch interactions are also unfavorable to marriage:
a.  self-penalties between day/month and day/hour (chen-chen, hai-hai, you-you, wu-wu (horse))
b.  3-penalties between branches and luck periods (yi-si-shen, xu-chou-wei, zi-mao)
c.  when 10-year-luck period clashing day-branch

6.  DM with strong metal and water
-- DM with strong metal and water implies strong kidney and sexual desire (and likely extra-marital activities).  This is especially likely to happen when DM is metal.  "Strong" means DM has 2+ metal and 2+ water elements in the chart.

7.  DM with strong fire and hot earth
This means a chart with mostly fire and hot earth (wei- and xu-earth).  DM has strong urge and hyperactive sexual desire that "normal" marital life may not satisfy his demands (and goes for extra-marital sex).  Generally speaking, people born in summer months of si, wu and wei have strong fire and earth in their charts.  

If your man hits one of the above, you may not need to dump him.  But if he hits 3+ of the above, consider yourself lucky for reading this post (and run away from the guy fast).  But you may want to consult a Bazi reader and take a Bazi course before dumping a guy.

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a person
1.  Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
3.  Click "CALCULATE" box
4.  Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
5.  The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is "Geng-shen" in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

Ken Lai 

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Equal Opportunity Affair Terminator

This article title sounds violent.  It is actually a very humane and peaceful way of terminating affairs.  Even Arnold Schwarzengger could have recommended Maria Shriver to use this "terminator".

Earlier this year I have posted an affair fix using a metal rooster.  But this fix is gender specific-- fixing males only.   In this post,  I will show you an equal opportunity affair terminator.

This fix is for those (male or female) who wants to keep the unfaithful partner for any reasons, like needing a meal ticket.  It will work for both male and female "offenders".

In Chinese metaphysics, affairs are attributed to one's "peach blossom" star.  Therefore, to fix affair problems, the logical step is to work on the offender's "peach blossom" location within his/ her residence.

"Peach blossom" is a pretty fragile star and dislikes plants with sharp needles sitting there.  Therefore, to eliminate an unfaithful spouse's affair or preventing affair from happening, is to put a plant with sharp needles, like a cactus plant,  on his/her peach blossom location.  This will weaken his/ her peach blossom luck.

Peach blossom location is calculated in terms of one's Chinese Zodiac animal sign.  Read below for details:

PEOPLE WHOSE CHINESE ANIMAL SIGNS ARE:

MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016,  2028, 2040)
RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044)
DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976,  1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036)
-- peach blossom location is in the  WEST sector of the house

PIG  (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )
RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023,  2035 )
RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )
-- peach blossom location is in the NORTH sector of the house

SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013,  2025, 2037)
ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981,  1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)
OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973,  1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045)
-- peach blossom location is in the SOUTH sector of the house

TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022,  2034, 2046)
HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)
DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970,  1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)
-- peach blossom location is in the EAST sector of the house

NOTE:  If a person was born between January 1 and February 3 of the year, his/ her animal sign would be the sign of previous year (due to the Chinese solar calendar).  For example, someone born in January 1 of 2016 (monkey year) should have the ram sign of 2015.

HOW TO SETUP YOUR AFFAIR TERMINATOR
1.  Find out the Chinese zodiac sign of your unfaithful or potentially unfaithful partner.  For example, monkey.  The peach blossom location of monkey is in the west sector of your house.
2.  Put a cactus plant in the west sector of your house (for this example only).

Ken Lai

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Feng Shui for attracting extra-marital affairs

If you want to have a stable marriage, make sure the follow Feng Shui conditions do not exist in your house:

1.  Empty flower vases in your house, especially worse if it is put in the "peach blossom" locations of the couple (please check past articles in this blog for these locations).

2.  House facing a "V-shaped" roads-- what does "V-shaped" look like?  Use your imagination.  The couple may have his or her own "extramarital" activities.

3.  Seeing bathroom upon opening main door-- attracts negative "peach blossom".

4.  Dragon side (left) is much bigger or has more stuff than tiger side of the house-- this makes the husband more powerful than the wife and ignores her feelings and needs.

5.  Water/ water items in west side-- this usually cause negative peach blossom for the females of the house.  West is the peach-blossom direction in Feng Shui.  (Note: If west is the right side of the house with a pond or big fountain, someone may die of severe illness or accident.  This is called "white tiger looks at mirror.")

Some of the above conditions are difficult to remedy yourself.  Get a competent Feng Shui practitioner to fix it for you.

Ken Lai
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