Ken's Cyber Cave: How to check one loves his wife or mistress more?

Tuesday, April 9, 2024

How to check one loves his wife or mistress more?

There is a saying in Taiwan about the nature of man-- "Nine out of ten men cheat. The 10th man is impotent."

While this may be a sweeping generalization, but it is pretty close to the truth or world population would have been much smaller.

In this article, we utilize the power of Bazi or 4-pillars astrology to find out if a man loves his wife or mistress/ girl friend more by examining certain feature in his birth chart. "Mistress or girl friend" here is defined as a woman who have repeated sexual relationship with a married man. This does NOT include the one-night stand affairs.

BAZI FEATURES OF MAN WITH MISTRESS/ GIRL FRIEND

1. Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) stronger than +wealth star (zheng-cai): -Wealth star represents mistress and +wealth star wife for a male chart. When -wealth star is stronger than +wealth, it implies his mistress is more capable than wife. Hence this man tends to prefer or love the mistress more.

2. Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) exposed in stem level and +wealth star (zheng-cai) hidden in branch level: -Wealth star showing up in stem level means mistress is visually seen in public with this man. This also means husband interacts with mistress more in public. This may also be a type of showing off. +Wealth star is hidden in stem level means husband rarely goes out with wife. He may be uncomfortable to show off wife in public with him. In short, this implies mistress has higher priority or status in this man's mind.

3. Chart with +wealth star (zheng-cai) "gaining position" 妻星得位 and strong: In Bazi, "gaining position" happens when a +wealth star sits in spouse palace or day-branch. If a husband chart with +wealth wife star gaining position or with nurturing by other star or with multiple +wealth stars, this means wife is strong, capable and intolerant of a mistress. This husband is also likely a "wife-fearing" person or even bullied by his wife.

4. Chart with multiple -wealth stars (pian-cai): This means -wealth mistress star is strong and with stronger karma connection with husband. He is likely to love the mistress more than the wife. He may even have no love or feeling for wife.

The above info is useful for any woman to weed out potential unfaithful partner before investing too much energy and resources on the guy.

Bazi can also predicts who will win in a love triangle like 2 women fight for a husband, 2 men fight for a wife, who will cheat in a marriage plus many other life events and even Feng Shui and date-selection!

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