Thursday, June 9, 2022

How to check if a man loves his wife OR mistress more?

There are many one-woman man in this world.  But there are also multiple-women man too.  How can we know if one is a one-woman or multiple-women man?  How can we figure out if he loves his wife or mistress more?  This sounds like a soap opera but gets your attention.

ONE-WOMAN VS. MULTIPLE WOMEN MAN
We can quickly find out if one is a loyal or "play the field" man by check his Bazi natal chart.  In Bazi, +wealth (zheng-cai) star represents formally married wife and -wealth (pian-cai) stands for mistress or lover.  Hence if -wealth star shows up in a male chart, the chance of this person has mistress is higher.

Note:  You can check if someone is a one-woman or multiple-women man by keying in his birthday and hour in this www.bazicalculator.com website.   However, this calculator uses  "direct wealth" to represent +wealth and "indirect wealth" for -wealth.  Look at the chart at left hand side only and check if there is any "indirect wealth"-- sign of mistress.

Characteristics of a multiple-woman male chart: 

  • contains both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian cai)
  • may have "hidden" wealth star/s in the branch/es
  • if there is no -wealth star in his natal chart, but luck period/s bring in -wealth star
WIFE VS. MISTRESS
By the same token,  through analyzing the relative strength and locations of +wealth and -wealth stars, we can deduce if this man favors his wife or mistress more.  

Man loves mistress more scenarios:
  • -wealth star is stronger than +wealth star:  this means mistress is more capable than the wife or has qualities that wife does not possess.
  • -wealth star/s show up in stem level and +wealth star is hidden in branch level:  whatever in stem level means "visible" to public whereas in branch level is not seen by the public.  This man is brazenly showing off his mistress in public and rarely taking wife out socializing.
  • multiple -wealth stars in the chart:  this means -wealth star or mistress is strong and keeping the attention of the man.
  • proximity to the daymaster (man):  "proximity" here means -wealth star sits next or below the daymaster like in the day-stem (strongest), month-stem or hour-stem.  Being "close" means deeper relationship with the man.
Man loves wife more scenarios:
  1. +wealth star is stronger than -wealth star:  this means mistress is less capable than his wife and may have some undesirable qualities.
  2. +wealth star/s show up in stem level and -wealth star is hidden in branch level:  whatever in stem level means "visible" to public whereas in branch level is not seen by the public.  This man is "hiding" or keeping the mistress in secret.
  3. multiple +wealth stars in the chart:  this means +wealth star or wife is strong and may not tolerate taking a mistress in.
  4. +wealth or wife star "gains position":  "gains position" here means wife star sitting in spouse palace and becomes very powerful.  This man is likely "afraid" or "dominated" by wife and dares not getting a mistress.
  5. proximity to the daymaster (man):  "proximity" here means +wealth star sits next or below the daymaster like in the day-stem (strongest), month-stem or hour-stem. 
"Ken, how do we check one-man woman and multiple-men woman?

This is a BOGO article.  The answer for your question is embedded in the article by changing six words.  I give you the first four: change wife to husband, man to woman, mistress to lover, +wealth to ????? and -wealth to ?????

Here we keep things simple without considering the scenario that a man or woman unintentionally becomes a multiple-women or men person due to jinxing the spouse to death (and marrying again).  This is another story.

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