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Saturday, October 12, 2024

Marriage timing: Early or Late? 看早婚晚婚　

In the marital context of Bazi, wealth stars represent wife or mistress for male; power stars stand for husband or lover for female.

The enemy of wealth star is peer star because peer star "snatches" or steals wealth star in Bazi.

The enemy of power star is output star because output star "hurts" power star.

The above brief introduction may help you to understand the marriage timing summary below.

"Early marriage" means getting married before the age of 25.

"Late marriage" refers to marriage after age 30.

If you do not understand my version of Bazi terminology, please read the following article:

Ken's Cyber Cave: 4P/ Bazi Terminology Conventions (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

MARRIAGE TIMING: EARLY VS. LATE

1. Natal chart stem level has "jealous combination", chart owner (daymaster or DM) likely has early marriage ("Jealous combination" is when two identical stems or branches combine with ONE stem or branch),

2. Natal chart has 3-meetings (San-Hui 三会) or 3-unities (San-He 三合), DM has early marriage tendency.

3. If the stem and branch of luck periods formed has 6-combinations 六合 or 3-unities with natal chart, DM will have higher probability of getting married during this 10-years-luck or annual luck period.

4. Strong male DM with strong wealth stars (Zheng-cai/ Pian-cai) but no peer stars (Bi-jian/ Jie-cai) in stem level, when running into wealth luck period (10YL or annual luck)-- marriage time.

5. Strong female DM with strong power stars but no output stars (Shi-shen/ Shang-guan) in stem level, when running into power luck period (Zheng-guan/ Qi-sha, 10YL or annual luck)-- marriage time.

6. Male DM with numerous peer stars but no wealth star (or wealth star is weak or imprisoned) and his first two 10-year-lucks are peer luck, he is prone to late marriage.

7. Female DM with numerous output stars but no power star (or power star is weak or imprisoned) and her first two 10-year-lucks are output luck, she is prone to late marriage.

8. Male DM has excessive strong wealth stars but is not qualify for "follow wealth" profile chart, is likely to marry late.

9. Female DM has excessive strong power stars but is not qualify for "follow power" profile chart, is likely to marry late.

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Thursday, October 3, 2024

All you can absorb vital energy-- FREE!

I have passed by my local supermarket Cub Food today. It has displayed many varieties of mums (chrysanthemum) at the entrance. The mums are blooming and emitting positive vital energy that could cheer anyone up on the spot.

I took out my old 2007 DSLR camera and shot the following photos. You can feel the vital energy by staring at these pictures and imagine these flowers are in front of you. Then absorb this energy to cheer yourself up.

These mum flowers look fantastic when enlarged on your computer screen.

May this vital energy stay with you!

Ken Lai

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"Rough destiny" or "Meng ying" 命硬

In traditional Chinese society, there is a saying of "meng ying 命硬". It literally means as "hard or rough destiny".

For examples, after someone has married, his or her spouse died unexpectedly soon after OR a new baby was born and his parents soon suffered major misfortune or even death. Consequently, this person or baby lives a miserable and lonely life. People may comment the person or baby involved as "meng ying". This implicitly accuses the person and baby "jinxing" their close relatives and themselves.

Another scenario would be: you may find some old people survive through wars, famines, severe illness/ injuries and misfortune, their family members are mostly dead, yet they still are alive but alone and may be even in destitute. Due to improvement of social welfare in modern societies, a modern version would be the same old people survive alone in institutions when all or most of their family members have died.

A more colloquial use of "meng ying" is to describe someone who escapes major disaster like being the the lone survivor of an airplane crash or battalion during wartime.

Strictly speaking, there is no such thing as "meng ying" in Bazi. The closest concept to "meng ying" is "strong daymaster with no support 身旺无依". This means a chart has a very strong daymaster (DM) with no wealth and power stars to drain it (but failing to become a special profile chart). This chart type usually associated with monk/nun/ Daoist or clergy people in traditional society and poor/ destitute people in modern society

CHARACTERISTICS OF "ROUGH DESTINY" CHART

1. The daymaster has relatively indomitable survival ability or "unsinkable"-- hard to die. S/he suffers frequent setbacks and misfortunes, but s/he usually can overcome or escape from death in catastrophes.

2. It implies "jinx", especially "loneliness jinx", jinxing self, parents and family members. DM is also likely a loner in nature. The "loneliness" here refers to the lacking of family relationship because DM's family members are either dead or separated.

There are two types of "rough destiny":

a. Solitary rough destiny (孤独命硬): This is the "strong daymaster with no support 身旺无依" type mentioned above. Summary meaning is: being poor and alone and likely with longevity.

b. Prosperous rough destiny (富贵命硬): This also has a strong DM chart but with good structure and/ or favorable luck periods. DM is alone eventually (jinxing family members) but s/he enjoys wealth and fame/ power with big ups and down in life. China's late Chairman Mao is an example of this type.

There are some methods to mitigate the negative effects of "rough destiny" Consult the course below for details:

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

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Sunday, September 22, 2024

Identify lazy people using only their birthday 懒人八字

Most people prefer not partner with or hiring lazy persons. This article discusses how to identify lazy people using only their date of birth with Chinese Bazi astrology. No probation or trial period needed.

BAZI CHART CHARACTERISTICS OF LAZY PERSONS

Chart with 3 or more resource stars (zheng-yin/ pian-yin): Resource stars represent senior generations, parental help, blessing and academic credentials. Chart with strong resource stars implies the chart owner ("daymaster", DM) is likely getting the blessing and support from his/ her seniors. S/he is prone to become dependent, lacking motivation to achieve more, conservative, traditional and physically weak. If annual luck comes another resource star, s/he is likely to be lazy and happy to keep "business as usual" and resistant to change.

Chart has NO wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai): In Bazi, wealth stars represent desires, abilities and persistence for goal attainment. People with no wealth star in their chart lacks motivation, willingness to work towards goals and look down on material gains and interests. This is like an engine without power and not moving much.

Chart with 3 or more -output stars (shi-shen): -Output star represents talent and enjoying life. People with strong -output stars in their chart thinks too much, fantasizes a lot but does little. They like enjoying life and good food. Many of them have big belly with a plump body. They are sloppy and careless at work and daily lives. This situation is especially worse if their chart has no wealth star. DM will fantasizes more and withdraw when running into difficulty.

The above situations are not absolute. We need to look at the whole natal chart to determine if this person is indeed a lazy one. For example, if a chart with excess resource stars but has at least one wealth star to control them, DM's laziness will be under control. Similar logic and interpretation for excess -output stars when resource star is presented in the chart.

Human laziness can be positive. People who are lazy but with a sense of responsibility would invent or create new methods or tools to make do things and tasks faster, so they can be "lazy" but still get the jobs done.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following course:

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Ken Lai

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Saturday, September 14, 2024

Top secret weight-loss Feng Shui 减肥风水秘中秘

Exercise can help weight-loss, but one may lack the perseverance to do it.

There may be many miracle weight-loss drugs available to control our weight, but these drugs may have unknown side-effects.

Dieting helps weight-loss too, but we may succumb to the temptation of yummy food.

Can we find a method that avoids the above problems of persistence, drug side effects and food temptation?

Today is your lucky day or my bonehead day to release these weight-loss Feng Shui secrets. However, I shall not explain why and how it works. It is based on Chinese Feng Shui, Bazi and even Traditional Chinese Medicine theories. The why and how are posted in the online forum for my retirement fund contributors-- my students.

You may want to save this article before I remove it from this blog on Oct. 31, 2024.

FENG SHUI MEASURES FOR WEIGHT-CONTROL

1. Declutter the SW side of your home. You may put wooden furniture and/or bigger green plants there.

2. Put refrigerator, clock and metal utensils/ decorations in NE side of your home.

3. Put your bedroom in the west side of your house. If not possible, put your bed in the west side of your bedroom.

4. Avoid putting the kitchen and red color stuff in SW or NE sector of your house.

5. Open the windows in the east side of your house (or your bedroom) to draw in eastern energy.

6. For food shopping, go to the shops located in the east and west side/ direction relative to your house.

7. For eating out, avoid noon lunch and go for evening dinner instead.

If you are into Chinese metaphysics, you should be able to figure out the rationale behind the above pointers.

There are more Feng Shui weight-loss method in the following course:

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Tuesday, September 3, 2024

"Tang Ping" Wealth-attracting Cat 躺平招財貓

Do you want to attract wealth without making much effort? If yes, today is your lucky day! No purchase necessarily, no soliciting phone call/ email and DON'T email me.

All you need is to print out the "Tang Ping" wealth-attracting cat (躺平招財貓) below and put it where you stay most of the time, like your desk. Then once or twice a day, you stare at this photo and visualize money rolling in.

"Tang Ping" (躺平) is a buzzword meaning "lying flat" originated in China recently. It refers to a new lifestyle trend of some Chinese young people. They give up materialism or "rat race", vow to not getting married, procreating no baby and buying no real estate. They make little or no effort for materialistic gains and fame or "lying flat". They live frugally or in surviving mode. This could be China's homebrew version of "hippie" or counter-culture.

"Tang Ping" in our case of wealth-attracting cat means getting wealth without making much effort!

The cat in this photo is my resident cat Lily, also known as Feng Shui Master Lily, Buddha's pet and Buddha's White Tiger (right guard). She demonstrates the secret posture of attracting wealth while lying down in the photo.

When you get your effortless money, Master Lily requests that you send her 10 cans of cat food or USD$10 or donate to your local animal humane society.

"Ken, what should I do if money does not show up after a month or two with this Tang Ping kitty?"

This means you do not have enough merit or good karma points to get this wealth. Simply go to your local animal humane society and adopt a real cat to pump up your merit. Do not buy this kitty from a pet shop.

Good Luck!

Ken Lai

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Monday, August 19, 2024

"Excess Code" in Bazi “多”字诀

The "Excess Code" in Bazi summarizes the potential consequence of an excessive transformation star or "10-gods" in a Bazi chart. "Excess" means three or more of a certain star showing up in a chart.

Below is the code:

财多愚，才多劳；

Excessive -wealth (pian-cai) = stupidity
Excessive +wealth (zheng-cai) = working hard for money

官多贱，杀多死；

Excessive +power (zheng-guan) = humble/low life
Excessive -power (qi-sha) = illness, injury or even death

印多孤，枭多凶；

Excessive +resource (zheng-zin) = loneliness/ alone
Excessive -resource (pian-zin) = ominous

食多愁，伤多害；

Excessive -output (shi-shen) = worrisome
Excessive +output (shang-guan) = troublesome/ harmful

刃多残，劫多败，

Excessive yang-knife/ -peer (jie-cai) = disability/ handicap
Excessive +peer (bi-jian) = failures

禄多贫；马多奔波，

Excessive +peer (bi-jian) = poverty
Excessive travelling horses (yin, shen, si or hai) = running about, toiling

冲多不安，合多热情；

Excessive clashes = instability, insecurity
Excessive combinations = warmth, passionate, sociable

阳多坦荡，阴多深沉；

More yang than yin pillars = open, honest and non-calculative
More yin than yang pillars = sullen and introvert personality

墓库多克六亲。

Numerous tombs/storages (chen, xu, chou and wei) = jinxing close relatives

Like most codes in Bazi and Feng Shui, this code does NOT give the context or conditions for application. But it is not difficult to figure out because there are likely only two possibilities-- whether the star is favorable or not favorable.

If you want to know more about Bazi reading, you may want to take the following Bazi course:

“4-Pi llars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Ken's Cyber Cave

Saturday, October 12, 2024

Marriage timing: Early or Late? 看早婚晚婚

Thursday, October 3, 2024

All you can absorb vital energy-- FREE!

"Rough destiny" or "Meng ying" 命硬

Sunday, September 22, 2024

Identify lazy people using only their birthday 懒人八字

Saturday, September 14, 2024

Top secret weight-loss Feng Shui 减肥风水秘中秘

Tuesday, September 3, 2024

"Tang Ping" Wealth-attracting Cat 躺平招財貓

Monday, August 19, 2024

"Excess Code" in Bazi “多”字诀

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