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Thursday, April 24, 2025

Bazi: Family Member Jinxing Bible 克六亲八字

This is another straight talk to find out if one jinxes his/ her family member-- father, mother, sibling, wife or children. "Jinxing" here means a person's qi or energy is antagonistic or does not get along with the energy of a certain family member.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FAMILY MEMBER JINXING

1. Jinxing father 克父: Regardless of gender, chart with strong daymaster (DM) due to strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when -wealth star (pian-cai, father) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes father.

2. Jinxing mother 克母: Regardless of gender, chart with strong wealth stars (zheng-cai, pian-cai), especially when +resource star ( zheng-yin, mother, use pian-yin if no zheng-yin available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes mother.

3. Jinxing wife 克妻: Male chart with strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when +wealth star (zheng-cai, wife) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes wife.

4. Jinxing husband 克夫: Female chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, husband; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes husband.

5. Male jinxing offspring 男克子女: Male chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, children for male DM; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his children.

6. Female jinxing offspring 女克子女: Female chart with strong resource stars (zheng-yin, pian-yin), especially when -output star ( shi-shen, children for female DM; use shang-guan if no shi-shen available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes her children.

7. Jinxing sibling 克手足: Regardless of gender, chart with strong +power stars (zheng-guan, qi-sha), especially when peer star (bi-jian, jie-cai) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his/ her sibling.

This "jinxing" may be manifested in poor communication/ relationship, low luck, chronic illness and even death to that family member if the jinx is serious.

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“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Tuesday, January 18, 2022

"5 breakages" in life 人生五破

What are the "five breakages" in life?

1. Peer breaks wealth star (比劫破財, Bi-jian/ jie-cai breaks zheng-cai/ pian-cai): problem keeping wealth, losing wealth, jinxing father/ wife, poverty

2. Wealth breaks resource star (財破印, Zheng-cai/ pian-cai break zheng-yin/ pian-yin): jinxing mother, low academic achievement, lust, too many desires, tainted reputation

3. Resource breaks output star (印破食傷, zheng-yin/ pian-yin break shang-guan/ shi-shen): jinxing children/ husband, lacking talent

4. Output breaks power star (食傷破官, Shang-guan/ shi-shen break zheng-guan/ qi-sha): jinxing husband, losing career, law violation

5. Power breaks peer star/ daymaster (官破比劫 / 日主, Zheng-guan/ qi-sha break bi-jian/ jie-cai or daymaster): weak health/ personality, feels suppressed

These "5 breakages" are major undesirable life events. When one has few of these breakages in his/ her Bazi chart, his/ her life is regarded as having a "good or smooth life."

However, under certain conditions, these "5 breakages" could be positive! For example, when #1 of the above occurs, it would be beneficial to have #5 showing up to neutralize the negative effect.

This is actually a BOGO article if you can think dynamically. Hint: luck periods. Members of my Bazi group will get the answers.

If you want to know the logic behind the above conditions, please take this:

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2021″ w/ 18 hr. video

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Wednesday, September 1, 2021

Bazi: "Jinx" secrets exposed

According to dictionary.com, jinx as a noun is defined as:

"a person, thing, or influence supposed to bring bad luck."

Jinx as a verb is someone who "brings bad luck to; places a jinx on...".

The Chinese word for jinx is "ke" (克) which literally means "to restraint, subdue or overcome".

However, even many Chinese readers have misunderstood the meaning of jinx and equated it to "jinxing someone to death". Many traditional Chinese tear-jerking black and white movies used this "jinx" topic-- like a woman's Bazi chart jinxing her husband or children got sent away or a child's chart jinxing parents and got mistreated or abandoned.

In reality, "jinx" does not mean a person's Bazi chart causing the death or bad luck of a close relative. It just reflects the "fate" of the person being "jinxed".

Today is your ultra-lucky day! It is very rare to have all the "jinxes" put in one short blog article for you to learn in a flash.

TYPES OF JINX IN BAZI

Jinxing father: chart with numerous/ strong peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) attacking wealth star (esp. pian-cai)-- this person will have poor relationship with father if the jinx is minor; father is chronically sick or has poor luck if medium serious and premature death if the jinx is serious.
Jinxing mother: chart with numerous/ strong wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) attacking resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin)-- this person will have poor relationship with mother if the jinx is minor; mother is chronically sick or has poor luck if medium serious and premature death if the jinx is serious.
Jinxing sibling: chart with numerous/ strong power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) attacking peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai)-- this person is likely the single child of the family.
Jinxing wife: chart with numerous/ strong peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) -- this person will either have problem getting a wife or poor relationship with wife or wife is chronically sick or died prematurely.
Jinxing husband: chart with numerous/ strong output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) -- this person will either have problem getting a husband or poor relationship with husband or husband is chronically sick or died prematurely.
Jinxing children: Male chart with numerous/ strong output stars (shang-guan/ shi-sen) overcoming all power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha); female chart with numerous/ strong resource stars (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) overcoming all output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) -- this person will suffer miscarriage or abortion if the jinx is minor; children is chronically sick or suffer disasters if medium serious and children die prematurely or no children if the jinx is serious.

"Jinx" in a chart does not reflect if the chart or the person is good or bad. It is just an indicator of the fate or future of his/ her close relatives.

"Ken, is there any remedy for these jinxes?"

The answer is both yes and no. There are some methods to reduce or ameliorate the effect of jinx through Bazi and Feng Shui. For details, consult the following courses:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai