Bazi: Family Member Jinxing Bible 克六亲八字

This is another straight talk to find out if one jinxes his/ her family member-- father, mother, sibling, wife or children.  "Jinxing" here means a person's qi or energy is antagonistic or does not get along with the energy of a certain family member.  

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FAMILY MEMBER JINXING

1.  Jinxing father 克父:  Regardless of gender, chart with strong daymaster (DM) due to strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when -wealth star (pian-cai, father) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes father.

2.  Jinxing mother 克母:  Regardless of gender, chart with strong wealth stars (zheng-cai, pian-cai), especially when +resource star ( zheng-yin, mother, use pian-yin if no zheng-yin available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes mother.

3.  Jinxing wife 克妻:  Male chart with strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when +wealth star (zheng-cai, wife) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes wife.

4.  Jinxing husband 克夫:  Female chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, husband; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes husband.

5.  Male jinxing offspring 男克子女:  Male chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, children for male DM; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his children.

6.  Female jinxing offspring 女克子女:  Female chart with strong resource stars (zheng-yin,  pian-yin), especially when -output star ( shi-shen, children for female DM; use shang-guan if no shi-shen available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes her children.

7.  Jinxing sibling 克手足:  Regardless of gender, chart with strong +power stars (zheng-guan, qi-sha), especially when peer star (bi-jian, jie-cai) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his/ her sibling.

This "jinxing" may be manifested in poor communication/ relationship, low luck, chronic illness and even death to that family member if the jinx is serious.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

Bazi: "Liu Hai" or "6-harms" secrets 六害

Today is your lucky day!  You will find the rarely published secrets of "6-harms 六害" (or "6-prosecutions").

"6-harms" are derived from "6-combinations".  "Harm" happens when a branch A stops another branch B from combining with branch C.  For example, Wei combines with Wu.  Zi clashes Wu.  Zi is considered "harming" Wei.  In short, "harm" stops the union of 2 other elements.

There are six pairs of "harms".  Below are the pairs and its corresponding "symptoms": 

1. Yin and Si (tiger-snake)--  chronic illness to DM, esp. if chart is strong in metal
2. Mao and Chen (rabbit-dragon)--  lack patience/ endurance, get angry easily if the daymaster (DM) is strong, if weak, may have disability
3. Wu and Chou (ox-horse)-- same as rabbit-dragon
4. Zi and Wei (rat-ram)--  jinxing children
5. Shen and Hai (monkey-pig)-- chronic illness to DM, especially if chart is strong in metal.
6. You and Xu (rooster-dog)--  face is easy to have pimples
7. Month branch "harm"--  lonely life, especially for female
8. Day/ hour pillar "harm"--  beware of injury/ disability during old age

The above 6 pairs of animals are also used for mate-selection--- avoid these "6-harms" animal pairs or the couples are likely living in disharmony (Chinese poem below listing undesirable animal pairs for marriage)

白馬怕金牛，羊鼠一旦休。

蛇虎如刀錯，免龍淚交流。

金雞怕玉犬，豬猴不到頭。

Classic Bazi texts do not give much coverage or importance to 6-harms.  They consider it is less powerful than 6-clashes.  Some schools even treat it as almost nothing to worry about.  However, we found that under certain conditions, 6-harms could cause serious damages than 6-clashes. 

 If the "harm" is within the natal chart, it usually related to DM and his/ her close relatives.

"Harm" comes from luck period can sometimes be worse than clash.  Many people who are sentenced to death are usually have "yang-knife" meets "harm" (from luck period).  So be careful with there is a "harm" element coming from luck period.

Generally speaking, DM with with "harm" in natal chart, usually lives a lonely life, separated from his/ her children and has shortage of money, especially for females.

A "harm" is positive when a combination is unfavorable.  Conversely speaking, a "harm" can cause serious problem when a combination is favorable.  The effect of a "harm" must be examined with the whole natal chart with luck periods to determine its overall effect.

Ken Lai

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2021 edition” with 18 hr. video

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"Single Ding-fire or lone Jia-wood implies blindness or lameness" 单丁独甲不瞎也跛

In traditional China, street Bazi readers, especially the blind ones, has a saying:

"Single Ding or lone Jia implies lameness or blindness."  (单丁独甲，脚跛眼瞎)

"Male is scare of single ding and female is afraid of lone jia." (男怕单丁, 女怕独甲)

What it means is:  when a Bazi birth chart has only one ding-fire and/ or one jia-wood, the chart owner ("daymaster" or DM) is likely blind or lame.  Further extended meanings are:  DM or DM's close relative is likely to have chronic or long term illness or disability.  

"Chronic or long term illness" refers to illnesses that have no cure but require long term care and medication like hypertension, heart diseases, stomach ulcer, asthma and the likes.

"Disability" here refers to missing a certain body parts like chopped finger, facial scars, broken limbs and the like.

If ding-fire or jia-wood represents +output star (shang-guan) or power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha), the disability or injury will be a major one.  If not, the effect will be minor.

This "single ding and lone jia" theory is not based on any logic but empirical observations.  People with this chart condition, they or their close relative are likely blind, lame or suffering long term illness.  If they have not run into this problem during their younger years, they are likely to suffer such event during middle or old age.

You can check if your Bazi birth chart has single ding or lone jia easily even if you know nothing about Bazi.  Simply log into www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birth day and birth hour and click the "calculate" box.  Then you check the Bazi chart in the left side of the screen for red box or green box like the ones shown here.  

If you have only one red ding-fire box or one green jia-wood box OR you have 1 red ding-fire and one green jia-wood box-- you hit the minor misfortune jackpot.  If you have 2 or more red ding-fire boxes or 2 or more green jia-wood boxes, you are OK.  

There are Bazi guidelines to decipher:

• who suffers (the chart owner or his/her close relative)?
• which type of illness?
• where in the body (organ or body part) suffers?

These guidelines are posted in my Bazi discussion lists.

If you want to know more about health/ sickness and Bazi, you may want to check this out:

“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2020 edition” with 18 hr. video

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