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Wednesday, August 6, 2025

Predicting marital blessing using day pillar 日柱看婚姻

In a Bazi chart, the day pillar represents the daymaster (DM) or chart owner and his/ her spouse palace. Hence, it is possible to get a quick prediction of marital blessing by simply checking the day pillar.

To find your day pillar, log into www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday, check the output "Birth chart", the second column from the left is your day pillar.

DAY PILLAR COMPOSITION AND MARITAL BLESSING

1. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai): Yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, wu-zi, ji-hai, geng-yin and ren-wu. Wealth star stands for wife for a male DM. It implies a good marriage when a wealth star sits in the spouse palace. This is called "matching star and palace 宫星同位". If wealth star is favorable, DM will get wife's wealth in addition to a happy marriage. If DM is a female, the marriage is still above average because wealth star can nurture power star (husband).

2. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha): Jia-shen, yi-you, ding-hai, ji-mao, geng-wu, xin-si, gui-chou, and gui-wei. Power star stands for husband for a female DM. It implies a good marriage when a power star sits in the spouse palace. If power star is favorable, DM will enjoy good status/ reputation and relationship due to husband. This is called "matching star and palace 宫星同位". If DM is a male, wife may boss him around because power star controls DM.

3. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) means DM is nurtured by the spouse palace: Jia-zi, yi-hai, bing-yin, ding-mao, wu-wu, ji-si, geng-chen, geng-xu, xin-chou, xin-wei, ren-shen and gui-you. Resource star stands for mother/ elder for both male and female DM. DM sits on a resource star implies DM's wife or husband will take care of him/ her like a mother. It is even better if resource star is favorable.

4. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by an output star (shang-guan/ shi-shen) means DM nurtures the spouse palace: Jia-wu, yi-hai, yi-si, bing-chen, bing-xu, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin, gui-mao and wu-shen. Different outcomes for male and female DM with output star in spouse palace:

Male DM: Though wealth or wife star does not sit in spouse palace, but output star will nurture wealth star. If DM is strong and wealth is favorable, DM will have good relationship/ marriage with wife. If weak and unfavorable, DM will have poor marital relationship.
Female DM: Power or husband star does not sit in spouse palace. Instead, output star, the arch-enemy of husband star, sits there to confront husband. This likely causes marital setbacks.

5. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a peer star (jie-cai/ bi-jian) means DM shares the same element with the the spouse palace: Jia-yin, yi-hai, yi-mao, bing-wu, ding-si, wu-xu, wu-chen, ji-wei, ji-si, geng-shen, xin-you, ren-zi and gui-hai. Peer star controls and "plunders" wealth star and sits in spouse palace, for male DM, this means marital disharmony and wife may be "snatched" by another man. For female DM, peer star steals wealth which is meant for nurturing husband star. In addition, peer star may combine or steal power star (husband). All this signifies marital disharmony.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Predicting your years with better romance or marriage luck 八字看情人姻缘

How do you find out which year that you may have better romance or marriage luck?

You can find the clues in your Bazi birth chart. If you do not know your own "daymaster" element, please go to www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday and find your "daymaster" in the top row of the day column.

In Bazi, annual luck (means current year) shows the possible events that might happen to a person. The year stem reflects what can be seen by the public. Hence if the year stem is the element representing wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai, wife/ lover for male) or power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha, husband/ lover for female), it means the likelihood of lover or marriage partner showing up in that year.

You don't need to know what is "year stem" as long as you can read the last digit of each year like the "5" in 2025-- simply read the tables below to find your years of better love luck.

The tables below summarize the exact year that lover or marriage partner is more likely to show up. For example, a Jia-wood male daymaster (person), will likely run into romance (if single) or affair (if married) when a year with last digit 0 (Geng-metal year, e.g., 2030). The same person may get married in a Xin-metal year (e.g., 2031) if he is single. Similar logic is applied for female daymasters too.

YEARS WITH BETTER LOVER AND MARRIAGE LUCK TABLE

SUPER BONUS: This is another BOGO article. You may use the year reference of these tables to keep an eye on your spouse or lover during his or her "love luck" years, followed by wife or husband luck years. For example, if your girl friend or wife is a Geng-metal person, you pay extra attention to her activities during Bing-fire (e.g. 2026) and Ding-fire years (2027). Bing-fire year is more "dangerous". If your boy friend or husband is a Geng-person, it would be years with the last digit 4 or 5.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Friday, March 28, 2025

How to check spouse quality from Bazi birth chart 八字看配偶吉凶

Below is a no BS and straight-talk list of how to check the marital quality of one's spouse:

1. Month pillar of a female chart has stem shang-guan (+output) and branch qi-sha (-power)-- She will marry multiple times.

2. Female daymaster sits on shang-guan (+output), regardless of its favorability ("yong-shen"), She likely has marital problems and/or jinxing husband.

3. Male daymaster sits on peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai)-- He has marital problems.

4. Female with Jia-yin or Wu-shen day pillar-- Her husband may die of unexpected disaster.

5. Male daymaster sits on pian-cai (-wealth) is amorous. He loves mistress more than wife.

6. Male daymaster sits resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) hindering wife. Wife does not get along with his mother.

7. Female chart with both zheng-guan and qi-sha (power stars) in stem level-- This is called "guan-sha mixing up". She will have marital disharmony, likely marry twice or has lover.

8. Male chart with both zheng-cai and pian-cai (wealth stars) in stem level-- he will have marital disharmony, likely marry twice or has mistress.

9. Female chart has strong shang-guan (+output) stars but no wealth star-- She jinxes her husband or marry again.

10. When day branch (spouse palace) is clashed-- This implies marital disharmony and separation is likely.

11. When day branch (spouse palace) is combined-- This implies spouse has affair.

12. When a male chart day branch has a wealth star (zheng-cai/ piain-cai), regardless the strength of this daymaster, gets a good/ helpful wife. This is called "wife palace stationed by a wife 妻宫妻守"

13. When a female chart day branch has a wealth star (zheng-cai/ piain-cai) and is favorable ("yong-shen"), gets a helpful and capable husband.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Thursday, December 19, 2024

Annual luck reading secrets 八字流年秘訣

How do you interpret the combinations between a Bazi chart and annual luck period? The following pointers should help you to do Bazi annual luck readings. This article assumes you have basic Bazi knowledge and will not explain the why and how.

While 10-years-luck put emphasis on the branches, annual luck reading focuses on the stems. It reflects the event types of the interactions between each pillar stem for the year.

1. Annual luck combines with the daymaster (DM, chart owner) 流年合日主: For example, Geng-metal DM combines with the annual luck Yi-wood of 2025. DM does not feel good emotionally, face obstacles and make wrong decisions. DM should be conservative and avoid new venture or take risk for the year.

2. Annual luck combines with the +wealth star (zheng-cai) of natal chart 流年合正财: For example, Geng-metal DM's +wealth star is Yi-wood, combines with the annual luck Geng-metal of 2030-- DM may suffer major wealth losses. If Yi-wood is in year pillar, DM may suffer total loss of ancestral wealth. DM's wife may have chronic illness. Single male is prone to romance failure, married male's wife may have affairs or high chance of getting divorced. Older male may become widower.

3. Annual luck combines with the -wealth star (pian-cai) of natal chart 流年合偏财: For example, Geng-metal DM's -wealth star is Jia-wood, combines with the annual luck Ji-earth of 2029-- DM's father suffers illness or DM faces major wealth losses. Young male DM may get caught with affair or losing money due to lust or sexual traps. Older DM should wary of his/ her father's health condition. He may not survive.

4. Annual luck combines with the +power star (zheng-guan) of natal chart 流年合正官: For example, Geng-metal DM's +power star is Ding-fire, combines with the annual luck Ren-water of 2032-- Male DM may suffer legal problems, single woman is prone to romance setback, married woman's husband may have affairs or high chance of getting divorced. Older woman may become widow.

5. Annual luck combines with the -power star (Qi-sha) of natal chart 流年合七杀: For example, Geng-metal DM's -power star is Bing-fire, combines with the annual luck Xin-metal of 2031-- is favorable for weak but not strong DM. Female DM with only -power and no +power star, should beware of marital problems.

6. Annual luck combines with the +resource star (zheng-yin) of natal chart 流年合正印: For example, Geng-metal DM's +resource star is Ji-earth, combines with the annual Jia-wood of 2024 -- DM should pay attention to the health of his/ her mother, including the in-law. Weak DM may have problem getting helpful mentors/ noblemen.

7. Annual luck combines with the -resource star (pian-yin) of natal chart 流年合偏印: For example, Geng-metal DM's -resource star is Wu-earth, combines with the annual Gui-water of 2033 -- DM should keep his/her idiosyncrasies or temperaments private. Weak DM is unable to get helpful mentors/ noblemen.

8. Annual luck combines with the + or -peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai) of natal chart 流年合比劫: For example, Geng-metal DM's +/- peer star are Geng- and Xin-metal combines with the annual Yi-wood of 2025 or Bing-fire of 2026-- DM should stay away from peers/ friends to block his/ her money leaking/losing channels.

9. Annual luck combines with the +output star (shang-guan) of natal chart 流年合伤官: For example, Geng-metal DM's +output star is Gui-water combines with the annual Wu-earth of 2028 -- single female DM will not be picky as before in mate-selection. Married couple would temporary stop bickering to fix marital relationship.

When there is no interaction between annual luck and the natal chart, DM will act out the characteristics of that annual luck. However, there are 3 scenarios meriting serious attention:

1. +Output star meeting +power star 伤官见官为祸百端: "Numerous disasters created when Shang-guan meets Zheng-guan". These disasters include predictable legal, wealth-losing, life-threatening and health problems.

2. -Resource star meeting -output star 枭印夺食: These disasters include unpredictable legal, wealth-losing, life-threatening and health problems.

3. Weak DM running into -power luck: DM suffers bloody event, lawsuits, backstabbing, losing wealth, divorce, accident and the likes.

The topic on how to interpret annual luck clashing the natal chart could be a possible future topic.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Wednesday, August 7, 2024

Street fortune-teller secret codes for marital predictions 江湖看婚姻秘诀

In traditional or ancient China, many street fortune tellers were illiterate or blind or both. How did they learn Bazi or 4-pillars reading?

They had learned the trade by reciting poems or "trick songs" like the ones presented below. The poems are mostly based on empirical experience in the field and not may not based on Bazi theory or logic.

These poems predict marital situations based on the day pillar of a client. The stem of a day pillar represents the daymaster or the chart owner. Day branch is the spouse palace representing the wife or husband of the daymaster.

BAZI POEM ON MARITAL SITUATIONS

男骑白马走天下，女骑白马犯桃花。Male riding a white horse travels the world. Female riding a white horse violates peach blossom. (White is metal color. This means Geng-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to peach blossom or affairs).

男骑红马犯重婚，女骑红马要三婚。Male riding a red horse commits bigamy. Female riding a red horse will marry thrice. (Red is fire color. This means Bing-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to marital disasters).

男骑黄马要离婚，女骑黄马犯多婚。Male riding a yellow horse will divorce. Female riding a yellow horse will marry multiple times. (Yellow is earth color. This means Wu-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to marital disasters).

男骑青马过朝庭，女骑青马挤破门。Male riding a green horse will become a government official. Female riding a green horse breaks the family door. (Green is wood color. This means Jia-wu day-pillar).

男见青牛想情人，女见青牛多郎人。Male with a green ox thinks mistress. Female with a green ox has many lovers. (This means Yi-chou day-pillar).

男捉黄蛇恋二婚，女捉黄蛇主重婚。Male catching a yellow snake will marry twice. Female catching a yellow snake commits bigamy. (This means Ji-si day-pillar).

男打黑鼠想女人，女打黑鼠爱别人。Male beating a black rat thinks about women. Female beating a black rat loves outside men. (Black is water color. This means Ren-zi day-pillar).

男养青狗克妻子，女养青狗克丈夫。Male raising a green dog jinxes wife. Female raising a green dog jinxes husband. ( This means Jia-xu day-pillar).

男养黑鸡防婚变，女养黑鸡再嫁人。Male raising a black rooster should beware of marriage upheavals. Female raising a black rooster will marry again. (This means Gui-you day-pillar).

男养白猪情人多，女养白猪婚变多。Male raising a white pig has many lovers/ mistresses. Female raising a white pig has many marriage upheavals. (This means Xin-hai day-pillar).

男养黄猴多情人，女养黄猴没郎人。Male raising a yellow monkey has many lovers/ mistresses. Female raising a yellow monkey has no husband. (This means Wu-shen day-pillar).

男养青兔要变婚，女养青兔要离婚。 Male raising a green rabbit has marriage upheavals. Female raising a green rabbit will divorce. (This means Yi-mao day-pillar).

男养白鸡爱别人，女养白鸡爱情人。Male raising a white rooster loves outside woman. Female raising a white rooster has lovers. (This means Xin-you day-pillar).

男捉黑蛇风流人，女捉黑蛇再嫁人。Male catching a black snake is flirtatious and romantic. Female catching a black snake will marry again. (This means Gui-si day-pillar).

男养白猴难成婚，女养白猴婚难成。Male raising a white monkey has problem getting married. Female raising a white monkey is difficult to get married. (This means Geng-shen day-pillar).

男打白鼠伤妻子，女打白鼠另嫁人。Male hitting a white/metal rat hurts/jinxes wife. Female hitting a white/metal rat is difficult to get married. (This means Geng-zi day-pillar).

男驾青龙妻克夫，女驾青龙夫克妻。Male riding a green dragon gets a husband-jinxing wife. Female riding a green dragon gets a wife-jinxing husband. (This means Jia-chen day-pillar).

In general, people born with the above day pillars are more "likely" suffering marital setbacks and problems. It will be more serious if their natal chart composition is less than satisfactory, with problems like bigamy, multiple marriages, divorce, life and death separation, affairs, dumping the spouse or being dumped.

The above 17 day-pillars out of a possible 60 are mostly involving Zi, Wu, Mao and You day-branch or rat, horse, rabbit and rooster animal signs. This is because Zi, Wu, Mao and You are the peach-blossom or romance elements in Bazi.

If you want to know more about relationship and marital predictions, you may want to take the following Bazi course:

“4-Pi llars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Wednesday, November 29, 2023

Day pillars that are prone to marital disharmony 婚姻不顺日柱

A Bazi natal chart consists of year, month, day and hour "pillars" derived from the birthday and birth hour of an individual. Each pillar has a "stem" and "branch". The stem of day pillar represents the "daymaster" (DM) or the chart owner. The branch of day pillar is the "spouse palace" which represents DM's spouse. Bazi reading sometimes uses only the day pillar to predict a person's marital blessing or problems.

Please check the Appendix below if you do not know how to calculate your day pillar.

There are 60 possible day pillars. The list below shows specific day pillars that tend to have more marital problems and disharmonies:

1. Day pillar with yang-ren (yang-knife): hurts or jinxes spouse

Male day-pillars with Ren-zi and Bing-wu; female with Ding-si and Gui-hai-- have unsettling marital relationship. If the branch element is unfavorable-- DM's spouse may be maimed or even died. If favorable, spouse is helpful but still prone to disability or chronic illness.

2. Day pillar sits on peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai): spouse is prone to affair

DM sits on peer star means someone similar to DM sitting in spouse palace with your spouse. This means spousal infidelity. Here are the day pillars sitting on peer star: Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Wu-chen, Wu-xu, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen and Xin-you.

However, if peer star is favorable, this means DM and spouse are united, helpful and sharing same ideals. If unfavorable, spouse likes to cheat and gives money to his/ her lover.

3. Day pillar with stem and branch battling each other: disharmony

Since day stem represent DM and day branch the spouse. When this stem and branch battle each other means disharmony and lacking effective communication. Here are the day pillars with battling stem and branch: Jia-shen, Jia-xu, Yi-you, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-yin, Geng-yin, Xin-mao, Ren-xu and Gui-wei.

Battling stem and branch with hidden combination: This means even the couple does not get along well, they nonetheless put up with each other due to this hidden combination. Here are the pillars with hidden combination between stem and branch: Ding-hai, Wu-zi, Xin-si, Ren-wu, Ji-hai and Gui-si.

4. Female Day pillar with +output (shang-guan) stem

+Power star (Zheng-guan) is the husband of a female DM. +Output star "hurts" +power star and sits in spouse palace means jinxing husband. Day pillar with +output branch are: Jia-wu, Yi-si, Geng-zi and Xin-hai.

Female DM with yang day-pillar stem sitting on -output star (shi-shen) is also considered as hurting husband star. Here are the yang day pillars with -output branch: Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Wu-shen and Ren-yin.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

APPENDIX: FIND A PERSON'S DAY-PILLAR AND DAYMASTER

1. Log in to www.bazi-calculator.com

2. In the right-side of the screen panel box, select "Ken Lai Method". No need to bother with anything else.3. Key in the guy's birthday and hour in the left side of the screen. Ignore the right side screen for "date to compare".
4. Click the "calculate" box to get results.
5. Scroll down the screen and see his Bazi chart in the left side with a table similar to the one here.
6. The first box of second column (the one with "day master" in it) shows the elemental nature of his daymaster (example here is geng-metal in grey color). Below are the colors of 5 elements:

Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color

Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color

Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color

Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color

Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video

“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video

“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor" w/ 14 hr. HD video

“Period 9 Feng Shui Survival Guide for P8 Houses" w/ 9 hr. HD video

“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video

“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video

“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video

“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD

“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video

“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video

“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video

“Period 9 Feng Shui Survival Guide for P8 Houses" w/ 9 hr. HD video

"4-Pi llars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Sunday, April 23, 2023

When annual luck clashing your natal chart 流年冲四柱

Below are some general observations when annual luck pillar clashes one's natal chart.

1. Annual luck pillar clashing year pillar: You should be more patient, tolerant and avoid argument/ dispute with supervisor or boss. If clashing wealth storage, be careful of losing ancestral/ family fortune overnight.

2. Annual luck pillar clashing month pillar: You may have the urge or motivation to do things that you normally will not do, such as investment, risky endeavor, divorce, affair, cohabitation and etc.. You need to pay attention to finance and marital relationship.

3. Annual luck pillar clashing day pillar: Single person may meet a potential partner and should secure this opportunity for marriage. Married person is prone to marital discord; your spouse may have affair.

4. Annual luck pillar clashing hour pillar: Female may get pregnant. Person with children should pay attention to their relationship with their children. There may be changes in work or career.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Friday, August 12, 2022

Identify unfaithful males from their birthday charts 花心男人

Hi sisters! Today is your lucky day to find out if your male pals have unfaithful potential using Bazi astrology.

Below factors contribute to the "unfaithfulness" of a male:

1. Strong metal and water elements in a male chart: Water stands for IQ, cunningness, desire and also promiscuity in Bazi. Metal will further strengthen water or his desire.

2. Strong output (shang-guan/ shi-shen) stars in birth chart: Output elements also represent desire. Shang-guan also stands for the sex organ. Strong output elements in chart means this guy has strong drive to fulfil his desires.

3. Chart has -wealth (pian-cai) or mixing of + or -wealth stars: +wealth star (zheng-cai) stands for wife and -wealth mistress if the chart is above average (prostitutes or one-night stand if below average chart).

4. Chart has symbolic stars like peach-blossom, affair sha and bath: while these stars help interactions with the opposite sex, they do not necessarily represent promiscuity unless strong output stars also present in the chart.

If a man has two plus of the above, you may want to think twice before going steady with him.

"Ken, does the above also applicable to unfaithful females?"

Yes, except #3 needs to switch to "-power (qi-sha) or mixing of + (zheng-guan) and -power stars" because power stars stand for husband and lover for females.

If you want to know more about Bazi, the following course gives you the most for your money:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2022″ w/ 18 hr. video

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2022 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
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How to check promiscuous charts 好色

Bazi chart characteristics of people who are promiscuous:

1. "Violating" peach-blossom star 犯桃花: Zi, wu, mao and you are the four "peach-blossom" stars. Peach-blossom star stands for romanticism, sentimental, sexual/ physical attraction and lust. The following conditions are "violating peach-blossom":

Day stem with shen or zi or chen and with you in another branch
Day stem with hai or mao or wei and with zi in another branch
Day stem with yin or wu or xu and with mao in another branch
Day stem with si or you or chou and with wu in another branch

Chart with more than one peach-blossom stars (zi, wu, mao and you) is very sociable and attractive to opposite sex.

2. Chart is too dry or too wet: When a chart is too dry, the chart looks for water. Water represents sex in Bazi. When a chart is too wet implies it has too much water and wet earth. Strong water means chart owner has strong kidneys and hence sex drive.

3. Chart has many combinations: Branch combinations like 3-meetings, 3-unities and 6-combinations, whether within the natal chart and/ or with luck period, means this person is very sociable and prone to affairs. Same logic for stem combinations.

4. Chart has mixing of zheng-cai and pian-cai (+/- wealth stars) for males: Zheng-cai stands for wife and pian-cai mistress for males. Chart with mixing of these two stars implies this male is likely to have extra-marital affairs if married and multiple sex partners if single.

5. Chart has mixing of zheng-guan and qi-sha (+/- power stars) for females: Zheng-guan stands for husband and qi-sha lover for females. Chart with mixing of these two stars implies this female is likely have extra-marital affairs if married and multiple sex partners if single.

6. Chart has numerous (2+) shi-shen and shang-guan (+/- output stars): Shi-shen and shang-guan are the "output" (excretions) of the person. Chart with strong output stars means chart owner is more self-directed and lacking self-control. Output stars also represent sex organ and sexuality.

You do not need to freak out if your partner meets one or two of the above conditions. If s/he meets 3 or more conditions, you probably should keep an eye on him/her or find a "backup" partner.

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