Quantifying level of husband-jinxing

Hi guys!  Today is your lucky day.  This article may save your happy or miserable life. It helps you determine if your potential wife will just irritating you or jinxing you to death.  This is done by reading the Bazi birth chart of your potential mate.

In Bazi, power star or zheng-guan stands for the husband in a female chart.  Shang-guan is the star that "hurts" or jinxes her husband.  To check the level of husband-jinxing is to look at the balance between power and output star in a female chart.

To help you understand the dynamics, here we use an earth female daymaster (DM) as example.  Her husband star is wood element and output star is metal.

LEVEL OF HUSBAND-JINXING
1. Both power and output stars are about equally weak:  This means both wood and metal are weak.  Metal can only pokes at metal from time to time.  Wife irritates husband with verbal attacks or behaviors  Husband puts up with it but dissatisfaction accumulates over time.
2. Output stars are weaker than power stars:  This means metal is weak and wood is relatively stronger.  Metal still instigates wood, but wood will not put up with the skirmishes and strike up.  Wife would irritates and picks on her husband.  Husband does not put up with her and result in quarrels and fights. 
3. Both powers and output stars are about equally strong:  Metal and wood are equally strong and in balance.  Wife has a good grasp of husband's weakness and can effectively keep husband at bay and no funny business.  This combination keeps the marriage stable.
4. Output stars are about above 100% but below 300% stronger than power stars:  This means metal is much stronger than wood.  The reality becomes:  husband is prone to illness, injuries, disasters, obstacles in life and the couple is prone to separation or divorce. 
5. Output stars are above 300% stronger than power star:  This means wood is very weak.  The reality becomes:  husband is prone to premature death.

If unfortunately your current wife falls into #4 or #5 of the above,  pray or run or hopefully you have a wife-jinxing chart to neutralize the other party's husband-jinxing.  If you do not have a wife-jinxing chart, you may take the courses below for help:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video



Ken Lai

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Do you suffer from "back-pointing sha" 指背煞

Note: The following article is written for my Bazi discussion groups after someone reported that her spouse suffers office politics and "backstabbing" at work.

People with "back-pointing sha" are likely to suffer backstabbing, gossiping, bad-mouthing from people around them.  Below are the characteristics of people with this sha in their Bazi:

1.  like to show off or high profile, hence attracting jealousy, gossiping, backstabbing and bad-mouthing

2.  do favor for people but do not get their appreciation

3.  have few or no close friends, being bullied by others

Here is the formula for finding back-pointing sha in a Bazi chart:

• Birth year monkey/ rat/ dragon (shen/ zi/ chen) with shen in any branch
• Birth year pig/ rabbit/ ram (hai/ mao/ wei) with hai in any branch
• Birth year snake/ rooster/ ox (si/ you/ chou) with si in any branch
• Birth year tiger/ horse/ dog (yin/ wu/ xu) with yin in any branch

EFFECT OF BACK-POINTING SHA LOCATIONS

• "Back-pointing sha" is less serious in year pillar, people just talk bad about you at your back.
• "Back-pointing sha" is most serious in hour pillar, people talk bad about you in your face.
• "Back-pointing sha" in month or day pillar-- people talk bad about you both in your face or at your back, but they can't do much to you or bully you.

If a chart has Tian-yi nobleman, the effect of "back-pointing sha" will be lessened. 

Ken Lai

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Feng Shui that affects the male head of the house

This article discusses common Feng Shui conditions that affect the well-being and luck of the male head of the household or business.

In Feng Shui theory, Qian or northwest sector represents the heaven, father or husband of a household.  Kun or southwest sector represents the earth, mother or wife.  Hence the NW environment and item placement reflect the luck and position of the oldest male of the house.

The items below affects the well-being of the the oldest male in a property or boss in a business:

1.  NW sector should not have a missing corner or the eldest male will have no status, being physically weak/ chronically sick, not staying home, low luck, or even die prematurely.
2.  There should be no toilet in NW sector or the oldest male will suffer illness/ low luck.  If this house has no male, woman owner will have hard time finding or keeping a man.   If this is a business, employees will not listen to the boss.
3.   Do not hammer nails or hooks in NW walls.  This may affect the health of the old male.
4.  Keep NW sector clean for health of the male head
5.  Do not put heavy objects in NW sector.  This may curtail his luck
6.  Put auspicious items or decorations related to status and power in NW sector to generate good qi / energy for the male head
7.  Kitchen must not be placed in NW or children will be rebellious.  This is called "fire burning heaven's gate" because NW is metal energy in nature.

For more info on interior Form Feng Shui, please consult:

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video

This article looks familiar to you because it is "recycled" from previous article with minor changes.  In fact, you can create your own Feng Shui school with the Bagua representations diagram shown here.  The "core engine" of most "new age" or "western" Feng Shui schools are generated from this bagua diagram.  So if you want to write about Feng Shui for the eldest son,  you just change the direction listed above from NW to east.

 Ken Lai

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Feng Shui that affects the female head of the house

This article discusses common Feng Shui conditions that affect the well-being and luck of the female head of the household or business.

In Feng Shui theory, Qian or northwest sector represents the heaven, father or husband of a household.  Kun or southwest sector represents the earth, mother or wife.  Hence the SW environment and item placement  reflect the luck and position of the oldest female of the house.

The items below affects the well-being of the female in a property:

1.  SW sector should not have a missing corner or the eldest female will have no status, being physically weak/ chronically sick, not staying home, low luck, or even die prematurely.
2.  There should be no toilet in SW sector or the female will suffer illness/ low luck or the man will have problem getting a wife
3.   Do not hammer nails or hooks in SW walls.  This may affect the health of the female.
4.  Keep SW sector clean for health of the female
5.  Do not put heavy objects in SW sector.  This may curtail her luck
6.  Put auspicious items or decorations in SW sector to generate good qi / energy for the female.
7.  Kitchen Feng Shui affects female of the house directly.  Check below:

• stove should not face toilet 
• stove should not face a door
• stove should not be above a beam
• stove should not face a sharp corner
• stove should not face a water tap 

For more info on interior Form Feng Shui, please consult:
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video

 Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

How to check out your husband's lover from your own Bazi chart

Today is your lucky or unlucky day if you need the knowledge of your husband's lover.  The info is hidden in your own Bazi chart!

Power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represents the husband of a female Bazi chart.  By checking the interactions of your husband star within the chart and during luck periods, you can figure out some specific information of your "competition".

Here are the secrets:

1. If your power star is combined away by a resource star ("yin"), your hubby's lover is older than you.
2. If your power star is combined away by an output star ("shi-shen/ shang-guan"), your hubby's lover is younger than you or about the age of your children!
3. If the power star is combined away by a peer star ("bi-jian/ jie-cai"), your hubby's lover is about the same age as you and she is likely your close friend!
4. If the power star is combined away by a wealth star ("zheng-cai/ pian-cai"), your hubby's lover runs into his life due to work or yourself.
5. If the power star is combined away by the favorable element of your chart, your hubby's lover is better than you in terms of economic, academic and work performance.

With this knowledge, you can narrow down the potential competition and keep an eye on her (and your hubby) before she becomes your real competition!  Bazi knowledge is very practical.

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com