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Thursday, April 24, 2025

Bazi: Family Member Jinxing Bible 克六亲八字

This is another straight talk to find out if one jinxes his/ her family member-- father, mother, sibling, wife or children. "Jinxing" here means a person's qi or energy is antagonistic or does not get along with the energy of a certain family member.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FAMILY MEMBER JINXING

1. Jinxing father 克父: Regardless of gender, chart with strong daymaster (DM) due to strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when -wealth star (pian-cai, father) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes father.

2. Jinxing mother 克母: Regardless of gender, chart with strong wealth stars (zheng-cai, pian-cai), especially when +resource star ( zheng-yin, mother, use pian-yin if no zheng-yin available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes mother.

3. Jinxing wife 克妻: Male chart with strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when +wealth star (zheng-cai, wife) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes wife.

4. Jinxing husband 克夫: Female chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, husband; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes husband.

5. Male jinxing offspring 男克子女: Male chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, children for male DM; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his children.

6. Female jinxing offspring 女克子女: Female chart with strong resource stars (zheng-yin, pian-yin), especially when -output star ( shi-shen, children for female DM; use shang-guan if no shi-shen available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes her children.

7. Jinxing sibling 克手足: Regardless of gender, chart with strong +power stars (zheng-guan, qi-sha), especially when peer star (bi-jian, jie-cai) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his/ her sibling.

This "jinxing" may be manifested in poor communication/ relationship, low luck, chronic illness and even death to that family member if the jinx is serious.

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
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“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
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“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Tuesday, January 18, 2022

"5 breakages" in life 人生五破

What are the "five breakages" in life?

1. Peer breaks wealth star (比劫破財, Bi-jian/ jie-cai breaks zheng-cai/ pian-cai): problem keeping wealth, losing wealth, jinxing father/ wife, poverty

2. Wealth breaks resource star (財破印, Zheng-cai/ pian-cai break zheng-yin/ pian-yin): jinxing mother, low academic achievement, lust, too many desires, tainted reputation

3. Resource breaks output star (印破食傷, zheng-yin/ pian-yin break shang-guan/ shi-shen): jinxing children/ husband, lacking talent

4. Output breaks power star (食傷破官, Shang-guan/ shi-shen break zheng-guan/ qi-sha): jinxing husband, losing career, law violation

5. Power breaks peer star/ daymaster (官破比劫 / 日主, Zheng-guan/ qi-sha break bi-jian/ jie-cai or daymaster): weak health/ personality, feels suppressed

These "5 breakages" are major undesirable life events. When one has few of these breakages in his/ her Bazi chart, his/ her life is regarded as having a "good or smooth life."

However, under certain conditions, these "5 breakages" could be positive! For example, when #1 of the above occurs, it would be beneficial to have #5 showing up to neutralize the negative effect.

This is actually a BOGO article if you can think dynamically. Hint: luck periods. Members of my Bazi group will get the answers.

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2021″ w/ 18 hr. video

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Sunday, September 3, 2017

Problems of excessive wealth elements in your chart

Previous post discusses about charts with little or no wealth star, the focus of this post is the opposite-- charts with too many or strong wealth stars.

Before we begin, a quick lesson on the relationship between wealth star and other elements is needed.

In Bazi, using the daymaster (DM, chart owner) as center of reference, there are 5 possible scenarios:

"what I control" is wealth element to the daymaster. Besides wealth, it also stands for wife and mistress for male. Wealth produces power and controls resource stars.
"what I produce" is output element to the daymaster. Besides talent/ IQ, it also stands for children. Output produces wealth and controls power stars.
"what produces me" is resource element to the daymaster. Besides reputation/ health, it also stands for mother or older generation. Resource produces peer (DM) and controls output stars.
"what controls me" is power element to the daymaster. Besides career, it also stands for authority, boss and husband/ lovers for female. Power produces resources and controls peer (DM) stars.
"same as me" is peer element to the daymaster. Besides sibling/peers, it also stands for competitions, coworkers and friends. Peer (DM) produces output and controls wealth stars.