Using Feng Shui to "manage" your husband 御夫风水

Originally, I want to use the word "control" instead of "manage".  But "control" sounds manipulative and politically incorrect....

Ladies!  Today is your lucky day if your husband drives you nuts or bosses you around.  The cavalry is coming to your rescue with this little taught husband management Feng Shui.  It is based on simple Form Feng Shui theory of green dragon and white tiger (not elaborated here, take my "Visual Form Feng Shui" course if you want to know more).

FENG SHUI FEATURES THAT MAKE YOUR HUSBAND DOMINANT
1.  Too many furniture is put in the left side of your house
Fix:  move some furniture to the right side of your house; make it a balance if you want an egalitarian relationship
2.  Most activities taking place in left side of your house
Fix:  arrange more activities to the right side of your house
3.  Bedroom door is in left side of bed
Fix:  move your bed so that the door is at the right side
4.  Bedroom location is close to a road with traffic
Fix:  relocate your bedroom
5.  Stove has no support mountain (back side of stove is a window)
Fix:  relocate your stove to place it with a wall at its back
6.  Husband sleeps close to window side or open side of the bed (this will increase his peach-blossom and authority)
Fix:  switching sleeping location with husband 
7.  Toilet in southwest side (SW represents woman of the house)
Fix:  stop using this toilet or at least keeping it clean

STRUCTURAL PROBLEMS FOR MALE-DOMINANT FENG SHUI
Below house features will contribute to male chauvinism to a marriage.  Avoid these features when buying a house.  If you already bought the house, consult a Feng Shui teacher or take my "Visual Form Feng Shui" course for remedies.

• Southwest side of your house is a missing corner
• Northwest side of your house has a big protrusion
• Left side of your house is much bigger than right side
• House on top of a hill (no support and makes husband more dogmatic)

"Ken, do you have "wife management Feng Shui"?  Woman can be bossy too."

Smart men can see this is a BOGO article with "wife management Feng Shui" already embedded.  Simple do the opposite of the list above, like change right back to left or northwest to southwest.

May the Auspicious Qi  be with you.

Ken Lai 

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Easy Dog and Cat Feng Shui

You may notice some people's pet get sick more often than others.  This may due to the main-door facing energy clashing the pet's energy.  The table below shows the best and worst main door-facing or pet nest location for raising dog and cats.  It is based on the Chinese 12 animals zodiac theory.

DOG/ CAT NEST LOCATION

door-facing/ nest location	DOG	CAT
EAST	Best	OK
SOUTH	Best	Best
WEST	Bad	Bad
NORTH	OK	OK
NORTH-EAST	Best	Best
SOUTH-EAST	Worst	OK
NORTH-WEST	Best	Best
SOUTH-WEST	OK	Worst

If the house main door facing of a dog-owner is in the southeast, the door energy will clash his dog.  His dog is likely to have health problems.  For cats, this will be the southwest direction. 

If your main door is not in the best direction or even worse, in the worst direction for your dog or cat, you can put the dog house or cat nest in the best or OK location inside or outside your house.

Ken Lai 

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Bazi: Will and When you buy a house?

Many people ask me when they will purchase a house as if I can see their future bank balances.

Believe it or not, your Bazi natal chart can tell you about your probability of owning properties and when will that happen.

Below are the Bazi characteristics of people who will eventually own properties:

Chart with power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) nurturing resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin)
-- Power star represents power, status, career and living standard.  Resource star represents reputation and resources.  People with charts that have power star nurturing resource star usually achieve their house ownership from their work/ career directly or indirectly.  When they run into power luck period nurturing resource star is the time when property is purchased.    

Chart with resource star sitting in month branch
-- In Bazi, resource stars represent house/ property, senior generation, cars, mentor (helpful people or "nobleman").  Chart owner ("daymaster" or DM) with resource star at the month branch is almost like to be "born with a house".  DM is likely to inherit a house or his/ her parents have already bought him/ her a house.  If not, s/he is likely to purchase a house at early age easily.  The house is likely bought when DM runs into resource or peer luck period.

Chart with 4-storages clashed
-- Chen, xu, chou and wei are the "4-storages" in Bazi.  It is earth in nature.  House is categorized under earth element in Bazi.  Charts with any of the 4-storages have a higher probability of owning a house.  DM is likely to purchase a property when the storage element in his/ her chart is "clashed" by a luck period.

Chart with wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) controlling resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin)
-- Resource star stands for real estate and wealth star for money.  Chart with wealth star controlling resource star means DM plans ahead to purchase a property but could not materialize due to various reasons.  DM will purchase a house when s/he DM running into wealth luck period or luck that enhances wealth star.  This could also happen when DM runs into a "nobleman" or unexpected income.

Chart with output (shang-guan/ shi-shen) nurturing wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) but no power star
-- Output star stands hardworking, consumption and using their talent to create wealth.  DM works hard to purchase his/ her own property.  S/he will purchase property when runs into peer and wealth luck periods. 

Chart with power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) controlling peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai)
-- Power star represents pressure, career and business.  Peer star represents competition and friends who take DM's resources.  DM will likely purchase property when running into power luck period when peer star is under control.

Above are some major Bazi characteristics of people who purchase properties.  However, you also need to consider other elements in the Bazi chart to determine if one will purchase a property and when it will happen.  This may help people to check when they will buy their dream house.  This info should be very helpful for real estate agents to budget their time for potential buyers instead of tire-kickers.

 Ken Lai 

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Baby-making Feng Shui Secrets

If you have problem conceiving or making babies, the follow Feng Shui method may help you to create one.  It is based on ancient Chinese medical theory about the variations of body temperature and moisture of a person throughout different seasons. 

This theory holds the head-pointing direction during sexual intercourse would affect the probability of conceiving a baby.  This pointing direction varies with seasons.

Modern medicine has also proven that the biological clock of human body has regular cycles in hormonal production and releases.

BEST HEAD-POINTING DIRECTION DURING INTERCOURSE FOR CONCEPTION

1. Spring:  east
2. Summer:  south
3. Autumn:  west
4. Winter:  north                 

If possible, find a Bazi reader to check if there is offspring in your Bazi chart.  If children are found in your chart and no baby shows up, it could be Feng Shui problem of your residence.

If you think outside the "box", by NOT using the best direction to conceive during sex, it could be your Feng Shui contraceptive or at least reducing the chance of producing a baby.  This is very helpful  when you and your partner suddenly getting hopelessly romantic with no access to contraceptive (like in a car).

Ken Lai 

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Have you enhanced the 4 major wealth positions?

Do you know that wealth enhancement is more than just enhancing the annual 8-star?  Some Feng Shui enhancement methods do not function well because they have neglected some other available wealth positions.

There are 4 major wealth positions that can affect your wealth luck. 

CURRENT PERIOD AUSPICIOUS LOCATION

According to "3-Cycles-9-Periods" Feng Shui, the dominant auspicious direction for the current Period 8 is Northeast.  This northeast direction is also considered as the "public wealth position" which lasts for 20 years (2004- 2023).  For Period 9 (2024- 2043), this direction will be the South.

If you want to have good wealth luck, you need to make sure there is no missing corner in the NE side of your house or business. Keep this corner clean and bright.  You may put plants and wealth symbols in NE to enhance the wealth energy there.

ANNUAL WEALTH POSITION
The annual wealth position is based on the annual location of current "timely" star.  For Period 8, the annual location of 8-star is the wealth position of current year.  Below is the annual wealth location of next 11 years:

This location should also be clean and bright without heavy objects here.  You may enhance this location with plants, moving water items and wealth symbols.  It is inauspicious if a toilet sits here.

FIXED WEALTH POSITION
The left and right corners diagonal to the main door are called "fixed wealth positions".  If you cannot use the previous wealth locations due to missing corner or heavy objects, you may use this fixed wealth locations to do your wealth enhancements.

You may enhance this location with plants, moving water items and wealth symbols.  There should not be any window in this fixed wealth location.
 
PERSONAL WEALTH POSITION
This wealth position is based on the Bazi birth chart of an individual.  So it is tailored to individual energy profile.  You need to find out the your own "daymaster" and then match it to the wealth position below.  Check the appendix below on how to calculate your daymaster. 


Like other wealth positions, this location should be clean/ bright and is not a missing corner.  You may enhanced it with plants and wealth symbols.  If this location overlaps with other wealth position, it will double the wealth effect.

However, if this location has window, door or is a missing corner, your personal wealth luck will suffer or cannot accumulate wealth.

If wealth element is unfavorable in your Bazi chart, then this location will not have effect on you.

REMARKS
Some Feng Shui wealth enhancement methods do not work well because they may have left out one or more of these wealth positions.

If you can maintain and enhance all these 4 major wealth positions, you may have better wealth luck.  If for any reason, you cannot enhance one or more of these positions, you at least try to enhance whatever is left.  You also need to pay attention to the annual locations of 5-yellow disaster star, Grand Duke, 3-Killings and year-breaker when doing your enhancement.  Consult a Feng Shui practitioner if you have problems sorting out these stars.

Finally, these wealth positions will help IF your Bazi chart shows that you are in good wealth luck period.  If not, it at most prevents you from losing more wealth.

 APPENDIX:  How to find out your day-master
1.  Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in his birthday
3.  Click "Calculate" button
4.  Check the "Day" column of the table in the left side
5.  The example here shows a Wu-earth daymaster.

Ken Lai

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