Marriage timing: Early or Late? 看早婚晚婚

In the marital context of Bazi, wealth stars represent wife or mistress for male; power stars stand for husband or lover for female.

The enemy of wealth star is peer star because peer star "snatches" or steals wealth star in Bazi.

The enemy of power star is output star because output star "hurts" power star.

The above brief introduction may help you to understand the marriage timing summary below.

"Early marriage" means getting married before the age of 25.

"Late marriage" refers to marriage after age 30.

If you do not understand my version of Bazi terminology, please read the following article:

Ken's Cyber Cave: 4P/ Bazi Terminology Conventions (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

MARRIAGE TIMING:  EARLY VS. LATE

1.  Natal chart stem level has "jealous combination", chart owner (daymaster or DM) likely has early marriage ("Jealous combination" is when two identical stems or branches combine with ONE stem or  branch),

2.  Natal chart has 3-meetings (San-Hui 三会) or 3-unities (San-He 三合), DM has early marriage tendency.

3.  If the stem and branch of luck periods formed has 6-combinations 六合 or 3-unities with natal chart, DM will have higher probability of getting married during this 10-years-luck or annual luck period.

4.  Strong male DM with strong wealth stars (Zheng-cai/ Pian-cai) but no peer stars (Bi-jian/ Jie-cai) in stem level, when running into wealth luck period (10YL or annual luck)-- marriage time.

5.  Strong female DM with strong power stars but no output stars (Shi-shen/ Shang-guan) in stem level, when running into power luck period (Zheng-guan/ Qi-sha, 10YL or annual luck)-- marriage time.

6.  Male DM with numerous peer stars but no wealth star (or wealth star is weak or imprisoned) and his first two 10-year-lucks are peer luck, he is prone to late marriage.

7.  Female DM with numerous output stars but no power star (or power star is weak or imprisoned) and her first two 10-year-lucks are output luck, she is prone to late marriage.

8.  Male DM has excessive strong wealth stars but is not qualify for "follow wealth" profile chart, is likely to marry late.

9.  Female DM has excessive strong power stars but is not qualify for "follow power" profile chart, is likely to marry late.

If you want to learn more about family, love and relationship in Bazi, you may want to take the following video corresponding course:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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Spouse palace and marriage timing

In Bazi, the location or "palace" below the day stem (a.k.a. "daymaster", the chart owner) is called "spouse palace" 配偶宫.  It contains information like physical appearance, personality and more of the  daymaster's spouse.  But today we focus only on marriage timing provided by this palace.

A.  The following scenarios likely result in early marriage (late teen/ early 20's) or marriage at appropriate age according to local norms 早婚适婚:

• Spouse palace is combined into spouse star (wealth star for male and power star for female) by another branch within the chart.
• Spouse palace is combined into spouse star or wealth (male)/ power (female) formation with other branches.
• Spouse star (+wealth/ zheng-cai for male; +power/ zheng-guan for female) sits in spouse palace.
• Favorable element or "useful god" sits in spouse palace with no penalty or clash. 

B.  The following scenarios likely result in delayed marriage (beyond the appropriate marrying age according to local norms) 迟婚:

• Spouse palace sits on void branch with no remedy
• Peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai) or female with +output (shang-guan) sitting in spouse palace

C.  The following scenarios likely result in late marriage (40+ or older) 晚婚:

• Spouse palace is combined into peer (bi-jian/ jie-cai for male) formation or +output (shang-guan for female) formation with other branches.
• Spouse palace is clashed or penalized by other branch with no combination to the rescue.

D.  The following scenario likely results in early marriage (late teen or early 20's) 早婚:

• Natal chart's Peach-blossom 桃花 or Celestial Celebration (tian-hei 天喜) or Celebration (hong luan 红鸾) star combines into spouse palace.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com 

Predicting when your marriage partner will show up

Will you meet Mr. or Mrs. Right in 2023, 2024 or .......?  The method below shows which year you may have the highest probability of getting married.

First, check the Appendix below to find out your birthday element or daymaster (DM).  Then check the following.

In Bazi, wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) stands for wife and wealth for male.   When annual luck brings a wealth star, a male is likely getting married.  

If you are a male, and your birthday element is:

1. Jia or yi-wood days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)
2. Bing or ding-fire days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 0 or 1 (like 2030, 2031) 
3. Wu or ji-earth days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 2 or 3 (like 2022, 2023) 
4. Geng or xin-metal days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 4 or 5 (like 2024, 2025)
5. Ren or gui-water days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 6 or 7 (like 2026, 2027)

In Bazi, power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) stands for husband for female.   When annual luck brings a power star, a female is likely getting married.  

If you are a female, and your birthday element is:

1. Jia or yi-wood days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 0 or 1 (like 2030, 2031) 
2. Bing or ding-fire days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 2 or 3 (like 2022, 2023) 
3. Wu or ji-earth days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)
4. Geng or xin-metal days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 6 or 7 (like 2026, 2027)
5. Ren or gui-water days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)

If you want to know more about Bazi or if your potential partner will be faithful or not, the following course gives you the most for your money:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

Ken Lai

© 2023 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

APPENDIX: FIND A PERSON'S DAY-PILLAR AND DAYMASTER

1.  Log in to www.bazi-calculator.com

2.  In the right-side of the screen panel box, select "Ken Lai Method".  No need to bother with anything else.3.  Key in the guy's birthday and hour in the left side of the screen.  Ignore the right side screen for "date to compare".
4.  Click the "calculate" box to get results.
5.  Scroll down the screen and see his Bazi chart in the left side with a table similar to the one here.
6.  The first box of second column (the one with "day master" in it) shows the elemental nature of his daymaster  (example here is geng-metal in grey color).  Below are the colors of 5 elements:

• Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color 

• Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color

• Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color

• Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color 

• Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color 

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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When will one get married? 婚缘何时到

When your Bazi chart runs into any one or more of the following scenarios, one will have a high probability of getting hitched or married:

1. When annual luck clashing your spouse palace (day-branch)
2. When annual luck combining with your spouse palace (day-branch)
3. When annual luck combining two of your chart branches to form 3-unities combination (San-he)
4. When annual luck stem combining with your day stem
5. When annual luck bringing a wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) for male or a power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) for female
6. When annual luck is your "peach-blossom" star  (you for shen, zi and chen day/ year branch;  wu for si, you and chou day/ year;  mao for yin, wu and xu day/ year; zi for hai, mao and wei)

While any one of the above could get you married, but for people with "difficult to marry" Bazi charts may need to fulfill two or more of the above conditions to get into the marriage chapel.

"Ken, what should I do if I have already married?"

You better reserve a high power divorce attorney OR be a good little boy/ girl and avoid interactions with opposite sex for the year.

If #1 to 5 of the above showing up in your spouse's chart--- you better keep an eye on his/ her whereabouts and activities during that luck period.

If you want to know the logic behind the above conditions, please take this:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2021″ w/ 18 hr. video 

If you want to improve your marriage luck, please take these:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

If you want to know if you will marry a rich husband or wife, please take this:

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Ken Lai

© 2021 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2021″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com