Thursday, April 18, 2024

Detecting mean woman from her birthday 泼妇八字

This article lists the Bazi characteristics of mean or difficult woman.   Chinese uses "pōfù" (泼妇) or "fierce and unreasonable woman" to denote this type of woman.  The closest English word to match this Chinese word is "bitch".  The contents here do not mean for strong and/ or career women.

This article enables you to check if someone is a mean woman by using her birthday without meeting her.  This is helpful in making hiring, partnership or dating decisions.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MEAN WOMAN
1.  Chart with strong +output star (shang-guan) in both stem and branch levels:
  • Jia-wood daymaster with strong Ding-fire
  • Yi-wood daymaster with strong Bing-fire
  • Bing-fire daymaster with strong Ji-earth
  • Ding-fire daymaster with strong Wu-earth
  • Wu-earth daymaster with strong Xin-metal
  • Ji-earth daymaster with strong Geng-metal
  • Geng-metal daymaster with strong Gui-water
  • Xin-metal daymaster with strong Ren-water
  • Ren-water daymaster with strong Yi-wood
  • Gui-water daymaster with strong Jia-wood
Woman with strong +output star has bad temperament, opinionated and likes to handle things HER ways.  Other people have extreme difficult to sway her decisions.  If this chart also have +power star, this stubborn and strong characters will be more evident.

2.  Chart with yang-knife (+peer/ jie-cai) in branch level:
  • Jia-wood daymaster with Mao-wood in any branch
  • Yi-wood daymaster with Yin-wood in any branch
  • Bing-fire daymaster with Wu-fire in any branch
  • Ding-fire daymaster with Si-fire in any branch
  • Wu-earth daymaster with Wu-fire in any branch
  • Ji-earth daymaster with  Si-fire in any branch
  • Geng-metal daymaster with You-metal in any branch
  • Xin-metal daymaster with Shen-metal in any branch
  • Ren-water daymaster with Zi-water in any branch
  • Gui-water daymaster with Hai-water in any branch
Woman with yang-knife in her chart has strong individuality/ personality.  If this yang-knife is penalized or clashed, she is even more bitchy, confrontative and resistant.  If chart has yang-knife, -power (qi-sha) and -resource (pian-yin), this woman is calculative, arbitrary and very difficult to interact with.

3.  Chart with mixing of + and - power stars (guan-sha mixing up) and DM is strong:
  • Jia- or yi-wood daymaster with Geng-metal and Xin-metal in stem level and Yin-wood and Mao-wood in branch level.   Birth month is Yin, Mao, Hai or Zi.
  • Bing- or Ding-fire daymaster with Ren-water and Gui-water in stem level and Si-fire and Wu-fire in branch level. Birth month is Yin, Mao, Si or Wu.
  • Wu- or Ji-earth daymaster with Jia-wood and Yi-wood in stem level and Chen-, Wei-, Xu-, Chou-earth,  Si-fire and Wu-fire in branch level. Birth month is Chen, Wei, Xu, or Chou.
  • Geng- or Xin-metal daymaster with Bing-fire and Ding-fire in stem level and Shen-metal and You-metal in branch level. Birth month is Chen, Shen, You, Xu or Chou.
  • Ren- or Gui-water daymaster with Wu-earth and Ji-earth in stem level and Hai-water and Zi-water in branch level. Birth month is Hai, Zi, Shen or You.
Woman with this "guan-sha mixing up" in her chart has no principle and plays tricks.  It is difficult to get rid of her once she "attaches" to you.

4.  Chart with numerous + and - peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai):
  • Jia- or yi-wood daymaster with numerous Jia-, Yi-, Yin- and Mao-wood 
  • Bing- or Ding-fire daymaster with numerous Bing-, Ding-, Si- and Wu-fire 
  • Wu- or Ji-earth daymaster with numerous Wu-, Ji-, Chen-, Xu-, Chou- and Wei-earth
  • Geng- or Xin-metal daymaster with numerous Geng-, Xin-, Shen- and You-metal
  • Ren- or Gui-water daymaster with numerous Ren-, Gui-, hai and Zi-water 
Woman with numerous peer stars in her chart lacks reasoning, thinking/ planning, is impulsive and likes to do things rashly.

Don't get mad if your chart matches one or more of the above features.  One should look at the WHOLE chart and not just the features above to determine DM is a mean person or not.  Very often, the presence of certain star can turn these mean features into advantages.  For example, a chart with numerous peer stars but also with at least a power star to keep peer star in check, DM can accomplish great feats.

Finally, women have no monopoly of being mean.  Men could also be mean and hideous. But the male version of Bazi characteristics are different to certain extent.

Ken Lai



Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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Tuesday, April 9, 2024

How to check one loves his wife or mistress more?

There is a saying in Taiwan about the nature of man-- "Nine out of ten men cheat.  The 10th man is impotent."

While this may be a sweeping generalization, but it is pretty close to the truth or world population would have been much smaller.

In this article, we utilize the power of Bazi or 4-pillars astrology to find out if a man loves his wife or mistress/ girl friend more by examining certain feature in his birth chart.  "Mistress or girl friend" here is defined as a woman who have repeated sexual relationship with a married man.  This does NOT include the one-night stand affairs.

BAZI FEATURES OF MAN WITH MISTRESS/ GIRL FRIEND

1.  Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) stronger than +wealth star (zheng-cai):  -Wealth star represents mistress and +wealth star wife for a male chart.  When -wealth star is stronger than +wealth, it implies his mistress is more capable than wife.  Hence this man tends to prefer or love the mistress more.

2.  Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) exposed in stem level and  +wealth star (zheng-cai) hidden in branch level:  -Wealth star showing up in stem level means mistress is visually seen in public with this man. This also means husband interacts with mistress more in public.  This may also be a type of showing off.   +Wealth star is hidden in stem level means husband rarely goes out with wife.  He may be uncomfortable to show off wife in public with him.  In short, this implies mistress has higher priority or status in this man's mind.

3.  Chart with  +wealth star (zheng-cai) "gaining position妻星得位 and strong:   In Bazi, "gaining position" happens when a +wealth star sits in spouse palace or day-branch.  If a husband chart with +wealth wife star gaining position or with nurturing by other star or with multiple +wealth stars,  this means wife is strong, capable and intolerant of a mistress.  This husband is also likely a "wife-fearing" person or even bullied by his wife.

4.  Chart with multiple -wealth stars (pian-cai):  This means -wealth mistress star is strong and with stronger karma connection with husband.  He is likely to love the mistress more than the wife.  He may even have no love or feeling for wife.

The above info is useful for any woman to weed out potential unfaithful partner before investing too much energy and resources on the guy.

Bazi can also predicts who will win in a love triangle like 2 women fight for a husband, 2 men fight for a wife, who will cheat in a marriage plus many other life events and even Feng Shui and date-selection!  

If you could only afford one Chinese metaphysics course, take the Bazi course below:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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Tuesday, April 2, 2024

Quick check of people with good temperament 速断好脾氣

Below is a quick way to identify people with good temperament based on the day of birth of their Bazi birth charts.  This info is helpful when dating a new person, making a new friend/ partner or hiring a new employee.

Before we go further, please note that "good temperament" is NOT equal to "good personality".  Although people with good personality are more likely to have good temperament.  Good tempered people could also be cunning, deceitful, lazy, mean and etc..

4 TYPES OF DAY-PILLARS WITH GOOD TEMPERAMENT

1.  Day-pillar with +power star (zheng-guan) at the branch (日支坐下正官):  geng-wu, bing-zi, xin-si and ding-hai days.

2.  Day-pillar with +resource star (zheng-yin) at the branch (日支坐下正印):  jia-zi, ji-si, yi-hai and wu-wu days.

3.  Day-pillar with -resource star (pian-yin) at the branch (日支坐下偏印):  bing-yin, ding-mao, geng-chen, xin-chou, ren-shen and gui-you days.

4.  Day-pillar with +wealth star (zheng-cai) at the branch (日支坐下正財):  wu-zi, ren-wu, ji-hai and gui-si days.  

3 TYPES OF DAY-PILLARS WITH GOOD TEMPERAMENT SOCIALLY BUT ARE RUDE/ IMPATIENT TO FAMILY MEMBERS

The following day pillars put up a facade of good temperament to outside world but are rude and even vicious to their own family members or people close to them .

1.  Day-pillar with -power star (qi-sha) at the branch (日支坐下七殺):   wu-yin, ji-mao, jia-shen, yi-you, ren-xu, ren-chen, gui-wei   and   gui-chou   days.

2.  Day-pillar with -wealth star (pian-cai) at the branch (日支坐下偏財): jia-xu, jia-chen, yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, geng-yin   and  xin-mao   days.

3.  Day-pillar with -output star (shi-shen) at the branch (日支坐下食神):   bing-chen, bing-xu, ding-chou, wu-shen, ji-you, ren-yin, gui-mao   and   ding-wei   days (these day-pillars are mostly impatient, anxious and not rude).

Please note that this is a "quick check" only.  A more accurate reading should be reading the whole birth chart and not just the day branch.  

If you want to learn more about 4-Pillars or Bazi, please check the course list below.

Ken Lai



Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com