Bazi: Spotting out wife-jinxer/ beater in a flash

Hi girls!  Today is your lucky day.  This article may save you from an abusive relationship or a trip to divorce court.  It shows you how to spot out a potential wife-jinxer/ beater using the birthday of your potential partner.

"Wife-jinxer" here means this man will unlikely bring good life/ blessing to his wife.  He may jinx his wife to death and is a potential wife-beater.

To check your potential mate before developing a relationship, first of all, you need the birthday of the potential partner.  Then follow the instructions in the appendix here to find out the data required for making the decision.

After you have found the "daymaster" of your potential mate, match it with the following table:

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For example, your potential partner is a Bing-fire daymaster.  You check his Bazi chart to see if there is any Ding-fire and/or Si-fire.  If there is one or more, check if there is any Ren-, Gui-, Zi- or Hai-water in the chart.  If you see NONE, you better stay away from this man.  But if you must have this man, consult a Bazi reader to see if this man has a special chart.  If so, then he could still be your potential partner.  The probability of someone has a special chart is about 20%.

What to do if this man does not have a special chart and you still want him? (beauty loves "bad boy" syndrome?)  Here is your last hope-- check your own Bazi chart to see if you are a husband-jinxer (consult a Bazi reader or wait till I write about how to spot a husband-jinxer).  When a wife-jinxer and a husband-jinxer marry, the jinxes between them will be neutralized.

If unfortunately or fortunately that you are not a husband-jinxer, the last resort is to consult the courses below to mitigate the possible jinxes through Bazi and Feng Shui techniques (click link for details):
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

For people who want to know the logic behind this wife-jinxer Bazi, the answers are posted in my  Bazi/ 4P groups.   You may want to take my 4P/ Bazi courses listed below if you are not a member of my groups.  However, if you have basic Bazi knowledge, you may easily figure out the dynamics behind.  After you have figured out the wife-jinxer logic, husband-jinxer logic will pop up in your mind in no time.

APPENDIX:  How to find the day-master of your boy friend:
1.  Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in his birthday
3.  Click "Calculate" button
4.  Check the "Day" column of the table in the left side
5.  The example here shows a Wu-earth DM with Chou-earth (not good!), BUT there is a Yi-wood here to control earth, so this guy is "salvageable".

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

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“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Bazi: More Penalty and 3-Penalties Secrets

My blog articles on penalties are consistently within the top-3 most read in this blog.  2018 is the year of dog.  Dog or Xu-earth is one of the 3-penalities elements in xu-chou-wei 3-penalties.  Many people are scared.  I get more "views" on this dog penalty keyword in the last few months.  There are few specific info on penalties even in Chinese sources.

Below are more penalty related secrets to feed your curiosity.  I do not repeat the info that I have posted before here.

3-PENALITIES

YIN-SI-SHEN
Derviatives: 
yin-si or si-shen penalty: prone to suffer traffic accidents
shen-yin penalty:  traffic accident or injury by metal objects

XU-CHOU-WEI
Derviatives: 
xu-chou or xu-wei penalty:  misfortune due to negative peach blossom (romance)
chou-wei:  facing obstacles/ obstructions in life

ZI-MAO PENALTY
Disharmony with people, difficult to conceive (baby)

SELF-PENALITY

you-you or wu-wu penalty:  hurt by negative romance
chen-chen penalty:  lawsuit and imprisonment
hai-hai penalty:  hurting legs or head

In general, don't wet your pants when seeing 3-penalties in your chart.  You need to read the whole chart with luck periods to determine if it is negative or not.  Sometimes, people suddenly becoming rich and famous when 3-penalties hit (but there are also people died too).  Time to hire a Bazi reader or take my Bazi courses.

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Goodbye Rooster, Welcome Year of Dog, Move your Feng Shui Monsters and Attract Wealth

The Year of Rooster will be finished soon.  People with Geng-metal Daymaster and/or rabbit sign in their charts will have a sigh of relief.

MUSICAL CHAIR TIME FOR YOUR FENG SHUI MONSTERS
2018 Year of Dog will start on February 4 @ 5:30 am.  Remember to move your Feng Shui monsters/ remedies before that time.  For example, if you forget to move your wealth-enhancing water fountain in the east, you may end up enhancing robbery and illicit affairs.  Read the following blog article if you need the data of exact locations:
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2018/01/minimalist-feng-shui-for-2018.html

Do a house-cleaning/ cleansing on Feb. 3 if you have suffered misfortunes during 2017 Rooster year-- to get rid of all unlucky energies.  But if you have a great year in 2017, you do not need to do the cleansing.  If you need help on how to do house-cleansing, read the following blog articles:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/12/church-bells-temple-bells-and-house.html  
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2009/01/year-end-house-cleaning-luck.html   

AUSPICIOUS SYMBOL FOR ATTRACTING WEALTH DURING NEW YEAR PERIOD
The inscription inside the symbol below means"attracting wealth and treasure".  This symbol is also used in wealth-attracting talismans.  Click on the image to enlarge it and then hold "Ctrl" and "S" keys at the same time to save the image into your computer.  You can print a copy (prefer printing in red color) and put it in your wealth position of your house to attract wealth and treasure.  To "activate" this lucky symbol, simply do an act of kindness like feeding a homeless cat/ dog or donate something to charity.  This will get an "exchange" of energies started.

HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS 

NEW YEAR OF DOG TO YOU!

 Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Bazi: Winners and Losers of 2018 Year of Dog- Part 2

This article is about what will happen to the "losers"  in terms of their Bazi natal chart and 2018 wu-xu earth-dog year.

Read the appendix of following link if you want to find out your natal chart info:
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2016/10/10-birthdays-that-attract-helpful.html

THE "LOSERS"-- earth is UNFAVORABLE to natal chart 
Wu-earth and xu-earth are both earth elements.  So 2018 wu-xu year is a year with strong earth energy.  If the unfavorable element or "ji-shen" ("annoying god") of your natal chart is earth,  2018 will be likely "bluer than blue" or not great for you.  Below is what earth luck means for different daymasters (DM).

1. Earth means peers  (bi-jian/ jie-cai) for Wu-earth and Ji-earth DM-- losing wealth, suffering backstabbing or being implicated to legal problems due to friends, siblings, partners, colleagues; health problems; also jinxing wife and father.
2. Earth means output/ talent  (shang-guan/ shi-shen) for Bing-fire and ding-fire DM-- illness, injury, problem with authority figures or legal problems for these DM.
3. Earth means wealth (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) for Jia-wood and Yi-wood DM-- with extra strong earth this year,  wood DMs may lose major wealth due to illness, being scammed or bad investment.  They also likely suffer illness and work problem.  Their father may get sick.  Men likely have marital problems or affairs.  
4. Earth means power  (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) for Ren-water and Gui-water DM-- bad career luck, lawsuit, tainted reputation, injuries and sickness and problems with authority figures for these people.  For females, this could also mean bad romance.
5. Earth means resource (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) for Geng-metal and Xin-metal DM-- tainting reputation, work/contract/ housing problems and sickness.

Charts with chen-xu clash may more negative because earth clashing earth resulting in more unfavorable earth!  This could mean illness or accident.

For the same reason, charts with chou-xu-wei 3-penalties will be more negative.  It could be major illness (involving digestive system or kidney), accident or even death.

As usual, you need to look at the whole natal chart with luck periods to see the "whole picture" and not just look at the earth factor alone.  Hopefully you have one of those "Telfon charts" that never sticks with bad luck elements because somehow other elements in the chart or luck period will always turn the negative element into neutral or even positive.  For example, if your chart has gui-water combining wu-earth into fire and wu-fire also turning (combining) xu-earth into fire---  suddenly your chart has more fire and not the bad earth!

If unfortunately you are in this "losers" group, you may consult a Bazi reader and Feng Shui teacher for advice to mitigate the negative effect of earth.  Or you can take my courses below (click for details):

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

HAPPY YEAR OF EARTH-DOG!

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Bazi: Winners and Losers of 2018 Year of Dog- Part 1

Wu-xu or year of earth-dog will arrive in less than 2 weeks.  People may be interested in finding out if this dog year is good or bad for them.  This article briefly explains who will be "winners" or "losers" in this dog year in terms of their Bazi natal chart.  Read the appendix of following link if you want to find out your natal chart info:
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2016/10/10-birthdays-that-attract-helpful.html

THE "WINNERS"-- earth is favorable to natal chart 
Wu-earth and xu-earth are both earth elements.  So 2018 wu-xu year is a year with strong earth energy.  If the favorable element or "yong-shen" of your natal chart is earth,  2018 will be likely "rock and roll" or great for you.  Below is what earth luck means for different daymasters (DM).

1. Earth means peers (bi-jian/ jie-cai) for Wu-earth and Ji-earth DM-- helpful friends, siblings, colleagues and wealth luck for these people.   
2. Earth means output/ talent (shang-guan/ shi-shen) for Bing-fire and ding-fire DM-- good creativity/ performance/investment luck and help from junior generation for these people. 
3. Earth means wealth (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) for Jia-wood and Yi-wood DM-- with extra strong earth this year,  very good wealth luck for these people.  For men, this could also mean good romance luck too.
4. Earth means power (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) for Ren-water and Gui-water DM-- good career luck for these people.  For females, this could also mean meeting Mr. Right.
5. Earth means resource  (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) for Geng-metal and Xin-metal DM-- good mentor/study luck, fame and help from older generation for these people.  

Charts with chen-xu clash may not be too negative because earth is favorable.  But dirty laundry like hidden affair or illegitimate child may be exposed in open.

For the same reason, charts with chou-xu-wei 3-penalties may not be negative.  It may be even positive like sudden fame or fortune showing up.

As usual, you need to look at the whole natal chart with luck periods to see the "whole picture" and not just look at the earth factor alone.  For example, if your chart has gui-water combining wu-earth into fire and wu-fire also turning (combining) xu-earth into fire---  suddenly your chart has more fire and not the good earth!

If unfortunately you are not in the "winners" group, you can read what may happen to the "losers" and what you can do in next blog.

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
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“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Garage Feng Shui

Parking with no roof is just "parking space".  Garage is defined as car parking space with "protection" or at least 3 sides protected except the exit.

Cars usually create movements when running in and out of a garage everyday.  Therefore, it affects the luck of residents significantly because it is movement that "activates" good or bad energies.

Followings are different approaches to garage Feng Shui:

Garage Feng Shui based on 5-elements
Garage is metal element in nature.  Therefore, the best locations for garage are: west, northwest, northeast and southwest.  Worst location is south because it is fire in nature.

Garage Feng Shui based on Flying Stars
Garage should be put in 1-white-water, 6-white-earth, 7-red-metal or 8-white-earth star locations.  It should not be put in 2-black-earth, 5-yellow-earth or 9-purple-fire locations.  Specifically, garage should not be located in regions with the following flying star combinations: 1-5, 2-5 (the worst!), 2-3, 3-5, 9-9, 7-9, 5-7 and 4-5.  Garage located in locations with these star combinations are prone to car accidents, bloody events and even deaths. 

Garage Feng Shui based on house and garage sitting/facing
House and garage sitting and facing should avoid the following mountains: gui/ ren, gui/ chou, yin/ jia, jia/ yin, yi/ chen, chen/ yi, si/ bing, bing/ si, ding/ wei, wei/ ding, shen/ geng, geng/ shen, xin/ xu and xu/ xin.  "Mountain" is based on Feng Shui's 24 mountains or directions (Google search for diagrams or see the one in previous blog on Minimalist Feng Shui).  You can figure out the rationale behind these mountain locations if you understand 5-elements theory and Bazi.

Master-bedroom or the office of owner/ manager should not be on top of a garage.  It is not good for health and wealth.  

Ken Lai 

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Minimalist Feng Shui for 2018

This is a "green" article recycled from last year with updates.  If you are darn lazy, simply read the following picture and go back to your sweet dream.

No digging/ movements in regions with blue arrows:

• Region between 142.5- 217.5 degrees  (San Sha and 5-yellow locations)
• 247.5- 292.5 degrees (2-black star)-- use metal cure
• 292.5- 307.5 degrees (Grand Duke)
• 112.5- 127.5 degrees (Sui-Po or year-breaker)

"Minimalist Feng Shui"  here fixes only 2-5, 5-5, and 9-5 star combinations in regions with activities.  You don't need to put up remedies or Feng Shui monsters in all 9-palaces of your house, especially in region with no activity like storage room or guest room.

This year Sui-po (year-breaker) is in the 8-wealth star region.  Be very careful with the location where you put your water-fountain or other wealth-enhancement monsters.

You should do a good date-selection if you need to do construction in any of the above locations with blue arrow (mountains/ palace).  San-sha and 5-Yellow star share the same location this year.  Make sure you do not provoke their "anger" by digging and movements there.

People with dragon and dog zodiac signs should avoid seeing corpse being put into a coffin or burial for this year if they don't want bad luck and sickness.

Yang nobleman sign for this year is Chou (ox).  Yin nobleman is Wei (ram).

2018 Wu-xu Feng Shui year will start on February 4 @ 5:30 am.  Remember to move your Feng Shui monsters/ remedies before that time.  Do a house-cleaning/ cleansing on Feb. 3 if you have suffered misfortunes during 2017 ding-you year.

Ken Lai 

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com