Tuesday, May 1, 2018

How to check marital bliss: mate-selection guide

In previous article, the star inside day-branch or marital palace is used to rate the marital bliss of the individual's birth chart.  It is from the self-interest perspective of that individual.

This article is 3x more complicated that requires at least an hour of live seminar time to explain.  However, with my data-reduction techniques, I have summarized the data in a little table below that you can use in a flash.

Below is a summary of previous article.  It is put here so that you do not need to scroll up and down to read previous blog: 

MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-PILLAR

1.  Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai  (wealth star)
Day Pillars:  Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and Ren-wu.  乙丑,乙未,丙申,丁酉,戊子,己亥,庚寅,壬午 (Rating: Best)
2.  Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)
Day Pillars:  Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and Gui-wei. 甲申,乙酉,丁亥,己卯,庚午,辛巳,癸丑,癸未 (Rating: Best) 
3.  Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star) 
Day Pillars:  Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and Gui-you 甲子,乙亥,丙寅,丁卯,戊午,己巳,庚辰,庚戌,辛丑,辛未,壬申,癸酉  (Rating: Good)
4.  Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)
Day Pillars:  Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and Gui-mao. 甲午,乙巳,丙辰,丙戌,己酉,庚子,辛亥,壬寅,癸卯
  • For male  (Rating: OK)
  • For female (Rating: Bad)
5.  Daymaster sitting on  Bi-jian or Jie-cai (peer star)
Day Pillars:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai. 甲寅,乙卯,丙午,丁巳,戊戌,戊辰,己未,己丑,庚申,辛酉,壬子,癸亥
  • For male DM (Rating: Bad)
  • For female DM (Rating: OK)

MATE-SELECTION GUIDE BASED ON DAY-BRANCH  
The table below cross-tabulated 5 different combinations of day-branches between a male and female match from 3 perspectives:
from male partner  (the "M" rating, e.g.: M5 is the best, M1 the worst)
from female partner (the "F" rating, e.g.: F5 is the best, F1 the worst)
independent overall rating (the "T" rating, e.g.: T5 is the best, T1 the worst)  
There are a total of 75 different ratings for this guide.

RATING SCALE:
5 = BEST
4 = GOOD
3 = OK
2 = BAD
1 = WORST 

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EXAMPLE OF HOW TO USE THIS SELECTION GUIDE

For example, a man has "power star" (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch is dating a woman with "resource star" (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in hers.  This man wants to check if this is a good match before taking a plunge into the relationship.  He checks the intersection of blue resource column and the red power row and find these data:  

SAMPLE RATING:  M3 F4 T3.   The meaning of these ratings are:
  • M3 = From the man's personal interest, it is a 3 or "OK" rating
  • F4 = From the woman's personal interest, it is a 4 or "GOOD" rating
  • T3 = From an unbiased rating for the match,  it is a 3 or "OK" rating

In general, if T-rating is less than 3, this is not a good match unless there are other advantages come with this potential partner, like pretty/ handsome face, wealth and the like to even out the low rating.

 Ken Lai

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