Ken's Cyber Cave: Mate-selection Bazi: Male horse wanted, may win apartments

Sunday, October 22, 2017

Mate-selection Bazi: Male horse wanted, may win apartments

I saw the this picture of

a mother showing a poster-sized note about getting a man for her daughter in a Chinese website. Here is the translation of the poster:

Female, born in November of 1991, ram sign, Beijing resident, 172 cm height, 52 kg weight, university graduate, owns 5 apartments; one of the apartments can be assigned to the potential husband. Bazi of the girl: (Nov. 21, 1991, Chen hour)

Year: xin-wei
Month: ji-hai
Day: yi-wei
Hour: geng-chen

Requirement of potential mate:

OK if he does not have property and/or car; must have horse animal sign and the following Bazi: (Nov. 20, 1990, Chen hour)

Year: geng-wu
Month: ding-hai
Day: ji-chou
Hour: wu-chen

Apparently this mother has a Bazi reader done a marriage Bazi matching before searching a man for her daughter.

The woman's zodiac animal sign is ram and the potential target man is horse. Horse and ram "combine" or getting along in Bazi astrology.

Can you figure out the reason for the male's specific Bazi, especially you can see male's ji-chou day-pillar clashing (fan-yin) female's yi-wei day-pillar? This could result in quarreling and fighting between the couple.

Click picture to enlarge (chart generated by bazi-calculator.com)

From the charts, you can see earth is the wealth element of this yi-wood daymaster girl. She has very strong wealth elements derived from older generations (owns 5 apartment at age 26). Metal is the husband for a wood daymaster. There are two metal elements in the stem level with a condition called "guan-sha mixing up" (numerous husbands and lovers). Her mother does not need to help her find a husband. Her daughter attracts men like flies. She probably is a nosy mother to make sure her daughter gets the type of son-in-law that she wants.

What type of son-in-law does this "concerned" mother want? A quick hint is from the poster-- "owns 5 apartments". There is no mentioning of any personal or intangible qualities of the girl nor required personal quality from the man. Her concern for material things is very evident here. This is even more evident when you look at the composition of the natal chart of the potential suitor.

The potential male is a ji-earth daymaster with strong peer (bi-jian/ jie-cai) elements and strong strong resource ("yin" or fire) to nurture earth. Chart with strong peer elements but little or no power element ("guan" or wood here) to control them, the person will be someone with the personality of pharma bro Martin Shkreli (obnoxious), jinxing wife and father. I guess this mother primarily focusing on the strong earth elements in the chart (means wealth to her daughter). She hopes her wood daymaster daughter will be able to boss or control this man. Wood is the power element to an earth daymaster.

Incidentally, both girl and potential man are likely becoming obese and problem conceiving children in the future.

From the man's Bazi chart, we can deduce that the Bazi reader that this mother hired considered earth or wealth is the favorable element ("yong-shen") of this girl. After matching the animal sign of the potential couple, this Bazi reader simply searches for chart with strong earth for the girl and never minding any possible side effects.

Most Bazi readers in China laugh at the choice. Upon looking beyond these natal charts, some important discoveries that could unlock a million dollar question in Bazi are found hidden in this marriage Bazi matching. I let you figure it out yourself. Hint: check the 10-years-luck periods.