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Wednesday, August 6, 2025

Predicting marital blessing using day pillar 日柱看婚姻

In a Bazi chart, the day pillar represents the daymaster (DM) or chart owner and his/ her spouse palace. Hence, it is possible to get a quick prediction of marital blessing by simply checking the day pillar.

To find your day pillar, log into www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday, check the output "Birth chart", the second column from the left is your day pillar.

DAY PILLAR COMPOSITION AND MARITAL BLESSING

1. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai): Yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, wu-zi, ji-hai, geng-yin and ren-wu. Wealth star stands for wife for a male DM. It implies a good marriage when a wealth star sits in the spouse palace. This is called "matching star and palace 宫星同位". If wealth star is favorable, DM will get wife's wealth in addition to a happy marriage. If DM is a female, the marriage is still above average because wealth star can nurture power star (husband).

2. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha): Jia-shen, yi-you, ding-hai, ji-mao, geng-wu, xin-si, gui-chou, and gui-wei. Power star stands for husband for a female DM. It implies a good marriage when a power star sits in the spouse palace. If power star is favorable, DM will enjoy good status/ reputation and relationship due to husband. This is called "matching star and palace 宫星同位". If DM is a male, wife may boss him around because power star controls DM.

3. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) means DM is nurtured by the spouse palace: Jia-zi, yi-hai, bing-yin, ding-mao, wu-wu, ji-si, geng-chen, geng-xu, xin-chou, xin-wei, ren-shen and gui-you. Resource star stands for mother/ elder for both male and female DM. DM sits on a resource star implies DM's wife or husband will take care of him/ her like a mother. It is even better if resource star is favorable.

4. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by an output star (shang-guan/ shi-shen) means DM nurtures the spouse palace: Jia-wu, yi-hai, yi-si, bing-chen, bing-xu, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin, gui-mao and wu-shen. Different outcomes for male and female DM with output star in spouse palace:

Male DM: Though wealth or wife star does not sit in spouse palace, but output star will nurture wealth star. If DM is strong and wealth is favorable, DM will have good relationship/ marriage with wife. If weak and unfavorable, DM will have poor marital relationship.
Female DM: Power or husband star does not sit in spouse palace. Instead, output star, the arch-enemy of husband star, sits there to confront husband. This likely causes marital setbacks.

5. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a peer star (jie-cai/ bi-jian) means DM shares the same element with the the spouse palace: Jia-yin, yi-hai, yi-mao, bing-wu, ding-si, wu-xu, wu-chen, ji-wei, ji-si, geng-shen, xin-you, ren-zi and gui-hai. Peer star controls and "plunders" wealth star and sits in spouse palace, for male DM, this means marital disharmony and wife may be "snatched" by another man. For female DM, peer star steals wealth which is meant for nurturing husband star. In addition, peer star may combine or steal power star (husband). All this signifies marital disharmony.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Tuesday, April 9, 2024

How to check one loves his wife or mistress more?

There is a saying in Taiwan about the nature of man-- "Nine out of ten men cheat. The 10th man is impotent."

While this may be a sweeping generalization, but it is pretty close to the truth or world population would have been much smaller.

In this article, we utilize the power of Bazi or 4-pillars astrology to find out if a man loves his wife or mistress/ girl friend more by examining certain feature in his birth chart. "Mistress or girl friend" here is defined as a woman who have repeated sexual relationship with a married man. This does NOT include the one-night stand affairs.

BAZI FEATURES OF MAN WITH MISTRESS/ GIRL FRIEND

1. Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) stronger than +wealth star (zheng-cai): -Wealth star represents mistress and +wealth star wife for a male chart. When -wealth star is stronger than +wealth, it implies his mistress is more capable than wife. Hence this man tends to prefer or love the mistress more.

2. Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) exposed in stem level and +wealth star (zheng-cai) hidden in branch level: -Wealth star showing up in stem level means mistress is visually seen in public with this man. This also means husband interacts with mistress more in public. This may also be a type of showing off. +Wealth star is hidden in stem level means husband rarely goes out with wife. He may be uncomfortable to show off wife in public with him. In short, this implies mistress has higher priority or status in this man's mind.

3. Chart with +wealth star (zheng-cai) "gaining position" 妻星得位 and strong: In Bazi, "gaining position" happens when a +wealth star sits in spouse palace or day-branch. If a husband chart with +wealth wife star gaining position or with nurturing by other star or with multiple +wealth stars, this means wife is strong, capable and intolerant of a mistress. This husband is also likely a "wife-fearing" person or even bullied by his wife.

4. Chart with multiple -wealth stars (pian-cai): This means -wealth mistress star is strong and with stronger karma connection with husband. He is likely to love the mistress more than the wife. He may even have no love or feeling for wife.

The above info is useful for any woman to weed out potential unfaithful partner before investing too much energy and resources on the guy.

Bazi can also predicts who will win in a love triangle like 2 women fight for a husband, 2 men fight for a wife, who will cheat in a marriage plus many other life events and even Feng Shui and date-selection!

If you could only afford one Chinese metaphysics course, take the Bazi course below:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Wednesday, December 18, 2019

Years of loving dangerously-- predicting love rivals 预测情敌

Last month the "20/20" news program of the ABC TV network here in USA had re-examined the Amy Fisher love triangle story. This incident is also known as the "Long Island Lolita" in which a 17 years old high schooler shot the wife of her lover in 1991.
https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/tv/abc-2020-joey-buttafuoco-mary-amy-fisher-1.38309535

Would the world be safer if we can predict:

who are likely to have more love rivals than others
when our love rivals will show up (and be prepared to guard your love property in advance)

"Love rivals" here refers to people who try to snatch your husband/ boy-friend or wife/ girl friend.

Today is your lucky day! These rarely shared Bazi secrets are put here for your eyes only.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS

1. Bazi charts with numerous (3+) peer stars (jie-cai, bi-jian): Peer stars represent competitions to steal your wealth. "Wealth" means material things and also wife in Bazi. Male chart with numerous peer stars also means this man is stubborn and egoistic if not chauvinistic. His wife or girl-friend is more likely to "jump ship" when someone better showing up.
2. Male charts with yang daymasters (DM) Jia, Bing, Wu, Geng and Ren: This is because yang male DM combines with a wealth or wife element. For example, Jia-wood will combine with Ji-earth. When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the wealth or wife star in the chart. It means an outside man taking his girl-friend or wife away.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FEMALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS

1. Bazi charts with numerous (3+) output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan): Output stars represent talents and temperament in Bazi. Female chart with strong output stars, especially shang-guan, is demanding and exerts too much pressure to her husband or boy-friend. The guy is likely to pick up a kinder and gentler woman if given the chance.

2. Female charts with yin daymasters (DM) Yi, Ding, Ji, Xin and Gui: This is because yin female DM combines with a power or husband element. For example, Yi-wood will combine with Geng-metal. When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the power or husband star in the chart. It means an outside woman taking her boy-friend or husband away.

PEOPLE WITH STABLE MARRIAGE/LOVE: WHEN LOVE RIVALS SHOW UP

when day-stem and branch are clashed by 10-year-luck and/or annual luck
when day-branch or spouse palace is clashed by luck period/s
when day-branch or spouse palace is combined by luck period/s
when wealth star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for male
when power star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for female

Now you know your ABC or when your love rival will knock at your door. What are the next steps? Here are some suggestions:
1. try to be nicer to your spouse
2. keep an eye on his/ her interactions with any opposite sex friends
3. take the courses below for Bazi and Feng Shui remedies:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
© 2019 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”2019 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2019 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Friday, December 8, 2017

Bazi: How to check the cheating potential of your husband

Will your husband cheat? Believe it or not, the answer may be found in your own Bazi chart!

In Bazi, power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represent husband/ boy friend for women. To check if your husband will cheat or not, you look at the interactions of power stars with your peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in your own Bazi chart. If there is/ are interactions would mean potential signs of cheating husbands or boy friends. It could also mean long courtship/ cohabitation with separations as ending.

If your natal chart meets any one of the following conditions, your husband is a potential cheater:
1. "Peer star snatches power star"(比劫夺官 ): Peer stars are daymaster's (DM) sisters, friends of same gender and colleagues. Power star is husband. When peer star snatching power star happens, it means close friend or even sister has "snatched" DM's husband away or simply having affair with DM's husband. The likelihood is higher when peer and power star are in the same pillar. If peer star and power star show up in stem level, it means they have the affair openly without fear. If both stars are in the branch level, the affair is going on in secret.
2. Power star is combined away (官杀被合 ): Power star represents a woman DM's husband. When it is combined away means her husband is taken away . For example, bing-fire is the power star of xin-metal female DM. If there is another xin-metal in the chart, especially if it is next to bing-fire, the probability of xin-metal DM losing her husband to another female will be high.
3. Peer star in day-branch (日支见比劫星 ): Day-branch is the location of spouse palace or husband in a chart. This palace prefers seeing wealth or power but not peer star. If peer star is unfavorable in the chart, mistress may likely show up.

For example: female chart
YEAR: Geng-wu
DAY: Yi-you
MONTH: Geng-yin
HOUR: Geng-chen

Female Geng-metal DM's husband is wu-fire. Wu-fire is in the year pillar. This means her husband is likely from far away or out of state/ province. Wu-fire is surrounded by metal (this means peer stars snatching him away). This women had many unsuccessful romances with out-of-state boy friends.

If your chart does not see any power star, never mind if your husband will cheat or not, worry about how to get a husband first. Usually this means you may have problem getting a husband or lacking relationship with husband if getting one.