Showing posts with label love competition. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love competition. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 18, 2019

Years of loving dangerously-- predicting love rivals 预测情敌

Last month the "20/20" news program of the ABC TV network here in USA had re-examined the Amy Fisher love triangle story.  This incident is also known as the "Long Island Lolita" in which a 17 years old high schooler shot the wife of her lover in 1991.
https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/tv/abc-2020-joey-buttafuoco-mary-amy-fisher-1.38309535

Would the world be safer if we can predict:
  • who are likely to have more love rivals than others
  • when our love rivals will show up (and be prepared to guard your love property in advance)
"Love rivals" here refers to people who try to snatch your husband/ boy-friend or wife/ girl friend.

Today is your lucky day!  These rarely shared Bazi secrets are put here for your eyes only.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS
1.  Bazi charts with numerous (3+) peer stars (jie-cai, bi-jian):  Peer stars represent competitions to steal your wealth.  "Wealth" means material things and also wife in Bazi.  Male chart with numerous peer stars also means this man is stubborn and egoistic if not chauvinistic.  His wife or girl-friend is more likely to "jump ship" when someone better showing up.
2.  Male charts with yang daymasters (DM) Jia, Bing, Wu, Geng and Ren:  This is because yang male DM combines with a wealth or wife element.  For example, Jia-wood will combine with Ji-earth. When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the wealth or wife star in the chart.  It means an outside man taking his girl-friend or wife away.

 BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FEMALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS
1.  Bazi charts with numerous (3+) output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan):  Output stars represent talents and temperament in Bazi.  Female chart with strong output stars, especially shang-guan, is demanding and exerts too much pressure to her husband or boy-friend.   The guy is likely to pick up a kinder and gentler woman if given the chance.

2.  Female charts with yin daymasters (DM) Yi, Ding, Ji, Xin and Gui:   This is because yin female DM combines with a power or husband element.  For example, Yi-wood will combine with Geng-metal.  When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the power or husband star in the chart.  It means an outside woman taking her boy-friend or husband away.

PEOPLE WITH STABLE MARRIAGE/LOVE: WHEN LOVE RIVALS SHOW UP
  1. when day-stem and branch are clashed by 10-year-luck and/or annual luck
  2. when day-branch or spouse palace is clashed by luck period/s
  3. when day-branch or spouse palace is combined by luck period/s
  4. when wealth star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for male 
  5. when power star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for female

Now you know your ABC or when your love rival will knock at your door.  What are the next steps?  Here are some suggestions:
1.   try to be nicer to your spouse
2.   keep an eye on his/ her interactions with any opposite sex friends
3.   take the courses below for Bazi and Feng Shui remedies:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

 Ken Lai
© 2019 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.
 
Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”2019 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2019 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Friday, October 27, 2017

Bazi: Free soap opera writer training?

NOTE:   Below is a "Reality Bazi" exercise that I give to my Bazi students today.  It is the real life version of "The Graduate" movie.

There is a soap opera going on in Taiwan that grabs TV and people's attention.  Here are the characters:
  1. Mother-in-law:  36 years old  (1981 xin-you)
  2. Daughter:  20 years old  (1997 ding-chou)
  3. Son-in-law ("Sing"):  18 years old (1999 ji-mao)
  4. The young couple has one kid, age and gender not reported.
This "incident" has happened in 2017 ding-you year (likely in metal months, September - October).

This mother-in-law has seduced Sing the son-in-law and has sex.  She claims that Sing loves her and tells people that Sing will divorce her daughter.  She said her current husband does not care as long as she returns home at night.

Her daughter is mad and spills out this in-laws affair in the social media.  The daughter says that she would have filed a lawsuit for damages if the mistress is not her own mother.  Mother and daughter have public "cat-fights" in the internet.  Local TV news are busy with this event to push up rating.

Most "netizens" sympathize with the daughter.  Some comment that the incident looks like a Japanese AV (adult video). 

Friends of this son-in-law said he had relationship with 2 females simultaneously for a while.

Based on the limited information from the media, can you create ("guesstimate") the possible composition of daughter's natal Bazi chart  (incomplete chart OK, just need the critical elements)?

If you can read Chinese, here are the links for more juicy details.



Ken Lai

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Friday, September 8, 2017

Will someone "steal" your spouse or lover ?

How do you check if your spouse is prone to be "snatched" away by another person or a "cheating heart"?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or "spouse-snatcher" showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai)
-- Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man.  Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love.  This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren.  If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your wife or lover.  For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period. 

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen)
-- Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one's love.  This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch.   It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui
-- if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your husband or lover.  For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one's spouse palace (day-branch)
-- assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship.  This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another woman coming into the system.  Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another man coming into the system.  Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE
Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut.  It could be the "script" or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart.  The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going "steady".  If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period.  There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my "Destiny and Luck management" courses (see below for details).

Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.
Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
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Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Will and When you have Love Rival?

This article shows the characteristics of Bazi charts that are likely to have "love rival" or competition and when this rival will show up.  Rival also means spousal affair if you are married.

If you are not familiar with Bazi terms, log into bazi-calculator.com and key in your birthday to find out your daymaster (in the day column) and the terms listed below.

Male natal chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) is prone to love rival.  Peer stars stand for competitions for your girl friend or wife.  This is especially likely to happen for yang daymasters like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren (i.e. male born in these days).  The chance of rivalry increases if this is also a strong male DM.  This rivalry is likely to happen during DM's peer luck  (bi-jian/ jie-cai) periods.

Female natal chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) is prone to love rival.  Output stars stand for pressure and jinx for boy friend or husband, resulting in him running away or going for other women or affairs (if not jinxed to death in extreme case).   This is especially likely to happen for women with strong +output stars (shang-guan) due to her strong personality.  Female yin daymasters like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui are more likely to have love rivalry.  The chance of rivalry increases if this is also a weak female DM.  This rivalry is likely to happen during DM's output luck  (shang-guan/ shi-shen) periods.

Love rivalry or affair can happen to people who are do not fit the above parameters, even with stable love or marriage.  This may happen when 10-years-luck or annual luck pillar clashing DM's day branch (spouse palace) or peer star combining with this branch.

Another possibility of love rivalry happens when a male DM's wealth star (i.e. zheng-cai/ pian-cai; wife) or female DM's power star (i.e. zheng-guan/ qi-sha; husband) is combined away by luck pillar.

"Ken, is there any remedy or prevention measure available?"

Yes, consult your teacher or take these courses:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video


Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com


 
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