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Monday, September 3, 2018

How to check out your husband's lover from your own Bazi chart

Today is your lucky or unlucky day if you need the knowledge of your husband's lover. The info is hidden in your own Bazi chart!

Power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represents the husband of a female Bazi chart. By checking the interactions of your husband star within the chart and during luck periods, you can figure out some specific information of your "competition".

Here are the secrets:

If your power star is combined away by a resource star ("yin"), your hubby's lover is older than you.
If your power star is combined away by an output star ("shi-shen/ shang-guan"), your hubby's lover is younger than you or about the age of your children!
If the power star is combined away by a peer star ("bi-jian/ jie-cai"), your hubby's lover is about the same age as you and she is likely your close friend!
If the power star is combined away by a wealth star ("zheng-cai/ pian-cai"), your hubby's lover runs into his life due to work or yourself.
If the power star is combined away by the favorable element of your chart, your hubby's lover is better than you in terms of economic, academic and work performance.

With this knowledge, you can narrow down the potential competition and keep an eye on her (and your hubby) before she becomes your real competition! Bazi knowledge is very practical.

Ken Lai

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“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Friday, September 8, 2017

Will someone "steal" your spouse or lover ?

How do you check if your spouse is prone to be "snatched" away by another person or a "cheating heart"?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or "spouse-snatcher" showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai)
-- Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man. Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love. This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren. If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian), someone is preying on your wife or lover. For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period.

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen)
-- Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one's love. This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch. It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui
-- if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian), someone is preying on your husband or lover. For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one's spouse palace (day-branch)
-- assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship. This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another woman coming into the system. Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another man coming into the system. Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE
Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut. It could be the "script" or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart. The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going "steady". If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period. There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my "Destiny and Luck management" courses (see below for details).

Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.
Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Friday, April 15, 2016

Mistress or "become a mistress" Feng Shui

Most women do not want their husbands have mistresses or a "third party" (called "Little Third" (小三) in China).

"Peach blossom" is the term used in Bazi astrology and Feng Shui to describe both positive and negative romance due to one's astrological chart or Feng Shui conditions.

People whose birth charts have more than 2 peach-blossom elements or are currently running into peach-blossom luck period are prone to romance (if single) and affairs (if married). I will address the birth chart part in later blogs.

This article will address Feng Shui factors contributing to mistress "invading" into your territory or you become a mistress yourself.

FACTORS LEADING TO MISTRESS FENG SHUI

House facing a "V-shaped" road
"V" looks like a woman spreading her legs. Females of this house are prone to negative peach blossom.

House or office with big empty flower vase
This may bring more romance to female residents-- especially attracting married men.