Believe it or not, you can find out if your marriage rocks, so-so or sucks from the day-pillar of your Bazi chart.
The first part or stem of your day-pillar represents you, the "
daymaster" or DM. The second part or branch is the "
spouse palace" and represents your spouse. The "star" sits in your spouse palace will give you a glimpse of your marital bliss.
Don't worry if you do not know Bazi. You can read the
Appendix below to figure out your day-pillar using your birthday.
MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-BRANCH
1. Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai (wealth star)
Day Pillars: Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and
Ren-wu. 乙丑，乙未，丙申，丁酉，戊子，己亥，庚寅，壬午
-- Wealth is the wife star for a male daymaster. Wealth sits in spouse palace for a man is called "
Star and palace in the same place"
宫星同位. This usually stands for a happy and perfect marriage. If wealth star is also favorable, it means this man getting rich through wife or enjoying wife's wealth.
(Rating: Best)
2. Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)
Day Pillars: Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and
Gui-wei. 甲申，乙酉，丁亥，己卯，庚午，辛巳，癸丑，癸未
-- Power is the husband star for a female daymaster. Power star sits in spouse palace for a woman is called "
Star and palace in the same place"
宫星同位.
This usually stands for a happy and perfect marriage. If power star
is also favorable, it means this couple love each other deeply and enjoy fame and wealth.
(Rating: Best)
3. Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star)
Day Pillars: Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and
Gui-you 甲子，乙亥，丙寅，丁卯，戊午，己巳，庚辰，庚戌，辛丑，辛未，壬申，癸酉
-- Resource stands for mother or older generation. Resource star sits in your spouse palace means your spouse is like your mother nurturing and pampering you. A Chinese saying goes "
Marrying a mother-like wife or father-like husband"
娶妻像娘，嫁夫如父 . This usually stands for a happy marriage. It would be perfect If resource star
is also favorable.
(Rating: Good)
4. Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)
Day Pillars: Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and
Gui-mao. 甲午，乙巳，丙辰，丙戌，己酉，庚子，辛亥，壬寅，癸卯
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For male, output star nurtures wealth or wife star. So even output star is not the right star to sit in spouse palace, it still enhances wife star. This situation will be good for strong male DM that favors wealth star (
means a good marriage), but unfavorable for weak male DM (
implying a disharmonious marriage).
(Rating: OK)
--
For female, output star controls power or husband star. So not only output star
is not the right star to sit in spouse palace, it further hurts husband
star. This usually means a less than satisfactory marriage if not jinxing the husband.
(Rating: Bad)
5. Daymaster sitting on Bi-jian or Jie-cai (peer star)
Day Pillars: Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and
Gui-hai. 甲寅，乙卯，丙午，丁巳，戊戌，戊辰，己未，己丑，庚申，辛酉，壬子，癸亥
--Peer star stands for competitions, friends and siblings which will "
snatch" wealth away. When it sits in the spouse palace, it means competition to take your spouse away if not jinxing the wife!
-- For male DM, with peer instead of wealth star inside spouse palace, it is the "sign" for wife being "snatched" away. This means marital disharmony and affair.
(Rating: Bad)
-- For female DM, with peer instead of wealth star inside spouse palace,
it is the "sign" for husband being "snatched" away. Wealth nurtures power (husband) in Bazi. But peer "snatches" wealth away and weakens the husband. This means marital
disharmony and affair. This also has a relatively higher divorce rate.
(Rating: OK)
This is a quick-and-easy way to check one's marital bliss. A more accurate reading would be taking into consideration of other stars and not just the star inside the spouse palace.
For possible remedies, consult my video courses below:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
Coming Attraction: In next blog, I will use this marital bliss theory to create an easy mate-selection guide. This guide will take over an hour to explain in live seminar but you can use it in a flash with my data reduction technique used in the blog.
APPENDIX: How to find out your day-pillar
1. Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2. Type in your birthday
3. Click "Calculate" button
4. Check the "Day" column (second column) of the table in the left side
5. The example here shows a Wu-Chen day-pillar
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