Detecting mean woman from her birthday 泼妇八字

This article lists the Bazi characteristics of mean or difficult woman.   Chinese uses "pōfù" (泼妇) or "fierce and unreasonable woman" to denote this type of woman.  The closest English word to match this Chinese word is "bitch".  The contents here do not mean for strong and/ or career women.

This article enables you to check if someone is a mean woman by using her birthday without meeting her.  This is helpful in making hiring, partnership or dating decisions.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MEAN WOMAN

1.  Chart with strong +output star (shang-guan) in both stem and branch levels:

• Jia-wood daymaster with strong Ding-fire
• Yi-wood daymaster with strong Bing-fire
• Bing-fire daymaster with strong Ji-earth
• Ding-fire daymaster with strong Wu-earth
• Wu-earth daymaster with strong Xin-metal
• Ji-earth daymaster with strong Geng-metal
• Geng-metal daymaster with strong Gui-water
• Xin-metal daymaster with strong Ren-water
• Ren-water daymaster with strong Yi-wood
• Gui-water daymaster with strong Jia-wood

Woman with strong +output star has bad temperament, opinionated and likes to handle things HER ways.  Other people have extreme difficult to sway her decisions.  If this chart also have +power star, this stubborn and strong characters will be more evident.

2.  Chart with yang-knife (+peer/ jie-cai) in branch level:

• Jia-wood daymaster with Mao-wood in any branch
• Yi-wood daymaster with Yin-wood in any branch
• Bing-fire daymaster with Wu-fire in any branch
• Ding-fire daymaster with Si-fire in any branch
• Wu-earth daymaster with Wu-fire in any branch
• Ji-earth daymaster with  Si-fire in any branch
• Geng-metal daymaster with You-metal in any branch
• Xin-metal daymaster with Shen-metal in any branch
• Ren-water daymaster with Zi-water in any branch
• Gui-water daymaster with Hai-water in any branch

Woman with yang-knife in her chart has strong individuality/ personality.  If this yang-knife is penalized or clashed, she is even more bitchy, confrontative and resistant.  If chart has yang-knife, -power (qi-sha) and -resource (pian-yin), this woman is calculative, arbitrary and very difficult to interact with.

3.  Chart with mixing of + and - power stars (guan-sha mixing up) and DM is strong:

• Jia- or yi-wood daymaster with Geng-metal and Xin-metal in stem level and Yin-wood and Mao-wood in branch level.   Birth month is Yin, Mao, Hai or Zi.
• Bing- or Ding-fire daymaster with Ren-water and Gui-water in stem level and Si-fire and Wu-fire in branch level. Birth month is Yin, Mao, Si or Wu.
• Wu- or Ji-earth daymaster with Jia-wood and Yi-wood in stem level and Chen-, Wei-, Xu-, Chou-earth,  Si-fire and Wu-fire in branch level. Birth month is Chen, Wei, Xu, or Chou.
• Geng- or Xin-metal daymaster with Bing-fire and Ding-fire in stem level and Shen-metal and You-metal in branch level. Birth month is Chen, Shen, You, Xu or Chou.
• Ren- or Gui-water daymaster with Wu-earth and Ji-earth in stem level and Hai-water and Zi-water in branch level. Birth month is Hai, Zi, Shen or You.

Woman with this "guan-sha mixing up" in her chart has no principle and plays tricks.  It is difficult to get rid of her once she "attaches" to you.

4.  Chart with numerous + and - peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai):

• Jia- or yi-wood daymaster with numerous Jia-, Yi-, Yin- and Mao-wood 
• Bing- or Ding-fire daymaster with numerous Bing-, Ding-, Si- and Wu-fire 
• Wu- or Ji-earth daymaster with numerous Wu-, Ji-, Chen-, Xu-, Chou- and Wei-earth
• Geng- or Xin-metal daymaster with numerous Geng-, Xin-, Shen- and You-metal
• Ren- or Gui-water daymaster with numerous Ren-, Gui-, hai and Zi-water 

Woman with numerous peer stars in her chart lacks reasoning, thinking/ planning, is impulsive and likes to do things rashly.

Don't get mad if your chart matches one or more of the above features.  One should look at the WHOLE chart and not just the features above to determine DM is a mean person or not.  Very often, the presence of certain star can turn these mean features into advantages.  For example, a chart with numerous peer stars but also with at least a power star to keep peer star in check, DM can accomplish great feats.

Finally, women have no monopoly of being mean.  Men could also be mean and hideous. But the male version of Bazi characteristics are different to certain extent.

Ken Lai

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Bazi characteristics of "strong" women

"Strong" here is the politically correct way of saying "bitches/ shrews" or women that overwhelm both "average" men and woman.

CHARACTERISTICS OF "STRONG" WOMEN

1. Over-strong output stars (食伤星太强 shang-guan/ shi-shen)
2. Day-stem daymaster (DM, the person) sits on -power star (qi-sha) or yang-knife (日坐七杀或阳刃)
3. Strong DM with "mixing of guan-sha" (mixing of zheng-guan and qi-sha 身强官杀混杂)
4. Chart with numerous +peer stars (jie-cai 劫财重重)

Please check your Bazi books for explanations or take my Bazi courses like "4P-Bootcamp" listed below.

You probably want to stay away from women with with 2+ of the above characteristics in their Bazi charts-- unless you like to serve/ follow order or you have pleasant personality and can put up with any craps.

Actually, male charts with #1, 2 and 3 above are equally "strong".

If you do not understand the Bazi terminology here, you may check:
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

Ken Lai
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Feng Shui that turns a woman into a bossy wife

"Bossy" is a politically correct term for "bitch" here.  Below are Feng Shui conditions that will increase the dominance or power of women in a house.  These Feng Shui conditions are not necessarily negative IF the women are subservient to the men in a family and modify their house Feng Shui to make men less dominant.

FENG SHUI CONDITIONS THAT INCREASE WOMAN DOMINANCE

1. Kitchen is bigger than bedroom.
2. The total size of kitchen and dinning room are bigger than the living room
3. Wrong main door color:  In Feng Shui, main door direction is the "red phoenix" direction and should use "yang" or brighter color.  Back side is the "black tortoise" with "yin" or low profile color. What this means the main door facing outside should be in bright color ("yang") and the back of the door should be dark color.   If the front door is in black or darker color, the "yin-yang" is inverted and promotes "yin" or woman power in the house.
4. Right side of your house is bigger than the left side (or left side has missing corner):  Left side represents man and right side the woman of the house.  Bigger right side means the woman has more power over the man.
5. Assuming the left and right side of the house are equal in size, but the right side has more stuff like heavy furniture and activities there.  These would also increase female dominance.

Now women can blame Feng Shui for being bossy.  Men can said bad Feng Shui make them not standing up to their bossy wives.  Self-esteem of all the parties is restored.  But the best remedy is to hire a Feng Shui practitioner to fix these problems OR take my "Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video.


Ken Lai

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