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Monday, May 26, 2025

Find out your husband's innate feeling about you without asking

Your husband may not tell you how relevant or important of your presence to him. But you can find out this innate feeling by checking his birth chart with Bazi astrology.

In Bazi, wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) represent wife, mistress and girl friends for male. Naturally, these are the critical info to examine in your husband's chart. There are 3 major aspects to check:

Is there any +wealth star (zheng-cai) in the natal chart?
The strength (how strong or weak) of the wealth star.
The distance between the day stem (daymaster, DM) and wealth star.

WIFE RELEVANCE RATING BASED ON HUSBAND BIRTH CHART

1. DM sits on +wealth star (zheng-cai); +wealth is strong ; only +wealth star/s are present in the chart: "DM" is the daymaster or owner of the chart. This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace. Wife has the highest relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. He pays close attention to wife, loves her dearly and tries to fulfill any request that wife asks.

2. DM sits on -wealth star (pian-cai); -wealth is strong ; only -wealth star/s are present in the chart: This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace. Wife still has the high relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. But -wealth is same gender to DM and not yin-yang balanced. So some minor confrontations or verbal fights occur occasionally.

3. Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart; +wealth is strong and close to DM ; -wealth star is weak and far away from DM: Wife still has significant relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. In reality, husband is prone to affairs, but he is concerned with wife's feeling and will keep his affairs hidden. In short, despite his infidelity, he loves wife more than the mistress.

4. Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart; -wealth is strong and close to DM ; +wealth star is weak and far away from DM: Wife has low relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. In short, he loves mistress more than the wife.

5. Chart has no wealth star: Wife has insignificant relevance from the perspective of husband. He may not care about the feeling and needs of his wife at all.

There are some simple methods to improve this "wife relevance" in my "Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui" discussion group.

This is a BOGO (buy one get one free) and tariff free article. To get your free article on "husband relevance", simple substitute "husband chart" to "wife chart" and "+/- wealth stars" to "+/- power star" in this article.

Ken Lai

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
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"Travelling horse" is a symbolic star employed extensively in Chinese metaphysics systems like Bazi, QMDJ, date-selection and the likes. Generally speaking, it means action, movement, acceleration, travelling, leaving town and etc..

TRAVELLING HORSE STAR CALCUATION

Birth year or day branch has shen, zi or chen, travelling horse is yin.
Birth year or day branch has yin, wu or xu, travelling horse is shen.
Birth year or day branch has hai, mao or wei, travelling horse is si.
Birth year or day branch has si, you or chou, travelling horse is hai.

For example, if you were born in the year of monkey (shen) and your chart has a yin branch or luck period brings a yin, you have a travelling horse. If your day branch has a mao, and your chart has a si branch or luck period brings a si, you have a travelling horse.

To check if you have travelling horse star, you can generate your birth chart at www.bazi-calculator.com by keying in your birth day and hour.

MEANINGS OF TRAVELLING HORSE STAR

Travelling horse represents:

movements, long trip, travelling far away
studying overseas
buying properties/ real estate, moving, settling down
owning cars and good travelling means
promotion, career change, changing job position
married couple or partners live separately in two different regions or the couple is from different regions
wealth, sudden windfall, unexpected wealth
Yin, shen, si and hai are the four travelling stars. If a person has 2+ of these 4 stars in his/her natal chart, s/he cannot sit still and could be a good salesperson.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)