Could getting married change your luck? 结婚转运?

"Change luck" here means someone has less than average or low luck before marrying.  His/ her luck changes significantly after getting married.

In general, people who have low or below average luck during their teen and early adult life have strong unfavorable elements in the year and month pillar of their Bazi charts.  This is because year and month pillar represent these age periods and also family background.

In addition, more than likely, their first two or three10-years-luck periods are mostly unfavorable too. 

People who will get better luck after getting married IF their Bazi charts have the following features:

1.  Spouse star is favorable in the chart:  For male, the spouse star is wealth star (zheng-cai) and female is power star (zheng-guan).
2.  Spouse palace (day-branch) is favorable:  This means the element occupying spouse palace is favorable to the chart.

Of course, there are people with their luck changed for the better after marrying but does not have the above two features in their charts.  This is likely due to their 10-years-luck is favorable at time of marriage and is NOT attributed to the act of marrying.

Smart readers would figure out that the opposites of #1 and 2 in a chart mean worse (not better) luck after getting married!

Ken Lai
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“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
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“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS” w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

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What to do when you are in bad luck

Few people enjoy good luck forever.  Sooner or later, bad luck will catch up with you.  This article lists some easy-to-do things to mitigate or steer you away from bad luck as soon as possible.

What you can do to get away from bad luck:

1. Change your hair style and clothing habit
2. Sleep in a different room
3. Modify your bed location or head-facing direction
4. Do some minor remodeling, like new wallpaper or new paint
5. Re-arrange the furniture layout of your house
6. Do a house-cleaning
7. Change the location of your fish tank (if you have one)
8. Attend celebratory events like wedding, baby shower, birthday party and the like, to draw in good energy
9. Make a short trip to another city
10. Do volunteer work for charity
11. Donate money to charity

All the above aim at attracting positive energies and dispelling negative energies away from you.  Thus reducing the intensity of your bad luck.

Avoid doing the following when you are in bad luck:

1. Avoid attending funeral because of death or yin energy will make your bad luck stronger.
2. Avoid visiting hospital for the same reason above.
3. Avoid taking risks or making major decisions because when you are in bad luck, you are likely make the wrong decisions.
4. Avoid making new investments
5. Avoid gambling and speculation.
6. Avoid loaning money to people.
7. Avoid changing jobs frequently. 

All the above aim at attracting positive energies and dispelling negative energies away from you.  Thus reducing the intensity of your bad luck.

Remember, bad luck is similar to good luck, will not last forever.

May the Auspicious Qi  be with you.

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

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“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Suffering Bad Luck? Easy ways to improve your luck

When things do not go your way,  success slips away in the last minute, people backstabbing you, appliance breaking down, losing money, accidents, illness and the likes keep popping up......or simply put, "Life sucks!"  You are in a bad luck period.

Chinese metaphysics considers "yang" or positive energy brings vitality and good luck to a person.  Bad luck is caused by an excess of "yin" or negative energy.  The remedy is to increase "yang energy" and reduce "yin energy" around and inside a person .

Below are some easy ways to add more "yang energy" into your system to improve your luck:

1.  Go to places with crowds--  Living people is a major source of vital or yang energy.  Places like shopping mall, university, concert hall and parks.  But avoid hospital and cemetery which have more yin than yang energy.
2.  Hug or hold babies--  Babies have more yang energy than adults.
3.  Sit under the sun before 3 pm--  Sunshine is a good source of yang energy.  11am- 1 pm has the most yang energy of the day.  Just be careful of not getting sunburn.
4.  Swim in the sea before 3 pm--  sea water has salt that is good for washing away negative energy from your body.  Bathing in hot spring is also great too.
5.  Take a bath with lemon leaves water-- to wash away negative energy and cleanse your body.
6.  Visit people who are successful (i.e. in good luck period) and avoid people in bad luck period.
7.  Go to celebrations like wedding, birthday (esp. for newborn baby) parties and avoid funeral and visiting the sick.
8.  Hug a healthy tree to absorb its energy.  But this must be done before 3 pm or the tree will absorb your energy instead.
9.  Walk with your bare feet on the beach (on ground is OK) or on the grass to absorb some earth energy and release your excess yin energy.

If you want to know more, you may want to check out my "Destiny/Luck Management. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video" courses.
 

Ken Lai

 © 2016 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

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