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Wednesday, August 6, 2025

Predicting marital blessing using day pillar 日柱看婚姻

In a Bazi chart, the day pillar represents the daymaster (DM) or chart owner and his/ her spouse palace. Hence, it is possible to get a quick prediction of marital blessing by simply checking the day pillar.

To find your day pillar, log into www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday, check the output "Birth chart", the second column from the left is your day pillar.

DAY PILLAR COMPOSITION AND MARITAL BLESSING

1. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai): Yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, wu-zi, ji-hai, geng-yin and ren-wu. Wealth star stands for wife for a male DM. It implies a good marriage when a wealth star sits in the spouse palace. This is called "matching star and palace 宫星同位". If wealth star is favorable, DM will get wife's wealth in addition to a happy marriage. If DM is a female, the marriage is still above average because wealth star can nurture power star (husband).

2. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha): Jia-shen, yi-you, ding-hai, ji-mao, geng-wu, xin-si, gui-chou, and gui-wei. Power star stands for husband for a female DM. It implies a good marriage when a power star sits in the spouse palace. If power star is favorable, DM will enjoy good status/ reputation and relationship due to husband. This is called "matching star and palace 宫星同位". If DM is a male, wife may boss him around because power star controls DM.

3. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) means DM is nurtured by the spouse palace: Jia-zi, yi-hai, bing-yin, ding-mao, wu-wu, ji-si, geng-chen, geng-xu, xin-chou, xin-wei, ren-shen and gui-you. Resource star stands for mother/ elder for both male and female DM. DM sits on a resource star implies DM's wife or husband will take care of him/ her like a mother. It is even better if resource star is favorable.

4. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by an output star (shang-guan/ shi-shen) means DM nurtures the spouse palace: Jia-wu, yi-hai, yi-si, bing-chen, bing-xu, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin, gui-mao and wu-shen. Different outcomes for male and female DM with output star in spouse palace:

Male DM: Though wealth or wife star does not sit in spouse palace, but output star will nurture wealth star. If DM is strong and wealth is favorable, DM will have good relationship/ marriage with wife. If weak and unfavorable, DM will have poor marital relationship.
Female DM: Power or husband star does not sit in spouse palace. Instead, output star, the arch-enemy of husband star, sits there to confront husband. This likely causes marital setbacks.

5. Day branch or spouse palace is occupied by a peer star (jie-cai/ bi-jian) means DM shares the same element with the the spouse palace: Jia-yin, yi-hai, yi-mao, bing-wu, ding-si, wu-xu, wu-chen, ji-wei, ji-si, geng-shen, xin-you, ren-zi and gui-hai. Peer star controls and "plunders" wealth star and sits in spouse palace, for male DM, this means marital disharmony and wife may be "snatched" by another man. For female DM, peer star steals wealth which is meant for nurturing husband star. In addition, peer star may combine or steal power star (husband). All this signifies marital disharmony.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Predicting your years with better romance or marriage luck 八字看情人姻缘

How do you find out which year that you may have better romance or marriage luck?

You can find the clues in your Bazi birth chart. If you do not know your own "daymaster" element, please go to www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday and find your "daymaster" in the top row of the day column.

In Bazi, annual luck (means current year) shows the possible events that might happen to a person. The year stem reflects what can be seen by the public. Hence if the year stem is the element representing wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai, wife/ lover for male) or power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha, husband/ lover for female), it means the likelihood of lover or marriage partner showing up in that year.

You don't need to know what is "year stem" as long as you can read the last digit of each year like the "5" in 2025-- simply read the tables below to find your years of better love luck.

The tables below summarize the exact year that lover or marriage partner is more likely to show up. For example, a Jia-wood male daymaster (person), will likely run into romance (if single) or affair (if married) when a year with last digit 0 (Geng-metal year, e.g., 2030). The same person may get married in a Xin-metal year (e.g., 2031) if he is single. Similar logic is applied for female daymasters too.

YEARS WITH BETTER LOVER AND MARRIAGE LUCK TABLE

SUPER BONUS: This is another BOGO article. You may use the year reference of these tables to keep an eye on your spouse or lover during his or her "love luck" years, followed by wife or husband luck years. For example, if your girl friend or wife is a Geng-metal person, you pay extra attention to her activities during Bing-fire (e.g. 2026) and Ding-fire years (2027). Bing-fire year is more "dangerous". If your boy friend or husband is a Geng-person, it would be years with the last digit 4 or 5.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Friday, March 28, 2025

How to check spouse quality from Bazi birth chart 八字看配偶吉凶

Below is a no BS and straight-talk list of how to check the marital quality of one's spouse:

1. Month pillar of a female chart has stem shang-guan (+output) and branch qi-sha (-power)-- She will marry multiple times.

2. Female daymaster sits on shang-guan (+output), regardless of its favorability ("yong-shen"), She likely has marital problems and/or jinxing husband.

3. Male daymaster sits on peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai)-- He has marital problems.

4. Female with Jia-yin or Wu-shen day pillar-- Her husband may die of unexpected disaster.

5. Male daymaster sits on pian-cai (-wealth) is amorous. He loves mistress more than wife.

6. Male daymaster sits resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) hindering wife. Wife does not get along with his mother.

7. Female chart with both zheng-guan and qi-sha (power stars) in stem level-- This is called "guan-sha mixing up". She will have marital disharmony, likely marry twice or has lover.

8. Male chart with both zheng-cai and pian-cai (wealth stars) in stem level-- he will have marital disharmony, likely marry twice or has mistress.

9. Female chart has strong shang-guan (+output) stars but no wealth star-- She jinxes her husband or marry again.

10. When day branch (spouse palace) is clashed-- This implies marital disharmony and separation is likely.

11. When day branch (spouse palace) is combined-- This implies spouse has affair.

12. When a male chart day branch has a wealth star (zheng-cai/ piain-cai), regardless the strength of this daymaster, gets a good/ helpful wife. This is called "wife palace stationed by a wife 妻宫妻守"

13. When a female chart day branch has a wealth star (zheng-cai/ piain-cai) and is favorable ("yong-shen"), gets a helpful and capable husband.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Sunday, September 22, 2024

Identify lazy people using only their birthday 懒人八字

Most people prefer not partner with or hiring lazy persons. This article discusses how to identify lazy people using only their date of birth with Chinese Bazi astrology. No probation or trial period needed.

BAZI CHART CHARACTERISTICS OF LAZY PERSONS

Chart with 3 or more resource stars (zheng-yin/ pian-yin): Resource stars represent senior generations, parental help, blessing and academic credentials. Chart with strong resource stars implies the chart owner ("daymaster", DM) is likely getting the blessing and support from his/ her seniors. S/he is prone to become dependent, lacking motivation to achieve more, conservative, traditional and physically weak. If annual luck comes another resource star, s/he is likely to be lazy and happy to keep "business as usual" and resistant to change.

Chart has NO wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai): In Bazi, wealth stars represent desires, abilities and persistence for goal attainment. People with no wealth star in their chart lacks motivation, willingness to work towards goals and look down on material gains and interests. This is like an engine without power and not moving much.

Chart with 3 or more -output stars (shi-shen): -Output star represents talent and enjoying life. People with strong -output stars in their chart thinks too much, fantasizes a lot but does little. They like enjoying life and good food. Many of them have big belly with a plump body. They are sloppy and careless at work and daily lives. This situation is especially worse if their chart has no wealth star. DM will fantasizes more and withdraw when running into difficulty.

The above situations are not absolute. We need to look at the whole natal chart to determine if this person is indeed a lazy one. For example, if a chart with excess resource stars but has at least one wealth star to control them, DM's laziness will be under control. Similar logic and interpretation for excess -output stars when resource star is presented in the chart.

Human laziness can be positive. People who are lazy but with a sense of responsibility would invent or create new methods or tools to make do things and tasks faster, so they can be "lazy" but still get the jobs done.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following course:

“4-Pi llars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Wednesday, August 7, 2024

Street fortune-teller secret codes for marital predictions 江湖看婚姻秘诀

In traditional or ancient China, many street fortune tellers were illiterate or blind or both. How did they learn Bazi or 4-pillars reading?

They had learned the trade by reciting poems or "trick songs" like the ones presented below. The poems are mostly based on empirical experience in the field and not may not based on Bazi theory or logic.

These poems predict marital situations based on the day pillar of a client. The stem of a day pillar represents the daymaster or the chart owner. Day branch is the spouse palace representing the wife or husband of the daymaster.

BAZI POEM ON MARITAL SITUATIONS

男骑白马走天下，女骑白马犯桃花。Male riding a white horse travels the world. Female riding a white horse violates peach blossom. (White is metal color. This means Geng-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to peach blossom or affairs).

男骑红马犯重婚，女骑红马要三婚。Male riding a red horse commits bigamy. Female riding a red horse will marry thrice. (Red is fire color. This means Bing-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to marital disasters).

男骑黄马要离婚，女骑黄马犯多婚。Male riding a yellow horse will divorce. Female riding a yellow horse will marry multiple times. (Yellow is earth color. This means Wu-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to marital disasters).

男骑青马过朝庭，女骑青马挤破门。Male riding a green horse will become a government official. Female riding a green horse breaks the family door. (Green is wood color. This means Jia-wu day-pillar).

男见青牛想情人，女见青牛多郎人。Male with a green ox thinks mistress. Female with a green ox has many lovers. (This means Yi-chou day-pillar).

男捉黄蛇恋二婚，女捉黄蛇主重婚。Male catching a yellow snake will marry twice. Female catching a yellow snake commits bigamy. (This means Ji-si day-pillar).

男打黑鼠想女人，女打黑鼠爱别人。Male beating a black rat thinks about women. Female beating a black rat loves outside men. (Black is water color. This means Ren-zi day-pillar).

男养青狗克妻子，女养青狗克丈夫。Male raising a green dog jinxes wife. Female raising a green dog jinxes husband. ( This means Jia-xu day-pillar).

男养黑鸡防婚变，女养黑鸡再嫁人。Male raising a black rooster should beware of marriage upheavals. Female raising a black rooster will marry again. (This means Gui-you day-pillar).

男养白猪情人多，女养白猪婚变多。Male raising a white pig has many lovers/ mistresses. Female raising a white pig has many marriage upheavals. (This means Xin-hai day-pillar).

男养黄猴多情人，女养黄猴没郎人。Male raising a yellow monkey has many lovers/ mistresses. Female raising a yellow monkey has no husband. (This means Wu-shen day-pillar).

男养青兔要变婚，女养青兔要离婚。 Male raising a green rabbit has marriage upheavals. Female raising a green rabbit will divorce. (This means Yi-mao day-pillar).

男养白鸡爱别人，女养白鸡爱情人。Male raising a white rooster loves outside woman. Female raising a white rooster has lovers. (This means Xin-you day-pillar).

男捉黑蛇风流人，女捉黑蛇再嫁人。Male catching a black snake is flirtatious and romantic. Female catching a black snake will marry again. (This means Gui-si day-pillar).

男养白猴难成婚，女养白猴婚难成。Male raising a white monkey has problem getting married. Female raising a white monkey is difficult to get married. (This means Geng-shen day-pillar).

男打白鼠伤妻子，女打白鼠另嫁人。Male hitting a white/metal rat hurts/jinxes wife. Female hitting a white/metal rat is difficult to get married. (This means Geng-zi day-pillar).

男驾青龙妻克夫，女驾青龙夫克妻。Male riding a green dragon gets a husband-jinxing wife. Female riding a green dragon gets a wife-jinxing husband. (This means Jia-chen day-pillar).

In general, people born with the above day pillars are more "likely" suffering marital setbacks and problems. It will be more serious if their natal chart composition is less than satisfactory, with problems like bigamy, multiple marriages, divorce, life and death separation, affairs, dumping the spouse or being dumped.

The above 17 day-pillars out of a possible 60 are mostly involving Zi, Wu, Mao and You day-branch or rat, horse, rabbit and rooster animal signs. This is because Zi, Wu, Mao and You are the peach-blossom or romance elements in Bazi.

If you want to know more about relationship and marital predictions, you may want to take the following Bazi course:

“4-Pi llars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Saturday, March 4, 2023

Predicting when your marriage partner will show up

Will you meet Mr. or Mrs. Right in 2023, 2024 or .......? The method below shows which year you may have the highest probability of getting married.

First, check the Appendix below to find out your birthday element or daymaster (DM). Then check the following.

In Bazi, wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) stands for wife and wealth for male. When annual luck brings a wealth star, a male is likely getting married.

If you are a male, and your birthday element is:

Jia or yi-wood days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)
Bing or ding-fire days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 0 or 1 (like 2030, 2031)
Wu or ji-earth days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 2 or 3 (like 2022, 2023)
Geng or xin-metal days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 4 or 5 (like 2024, 2025)
Ren or gui-water days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 6 or 7 (like 2026, 2027)

In Bazi, power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) stands for husband for female. When annual luck brings a power star, a female is likely getting married.

If you are a female, and your birthday element is:

Jia or yi-wood days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 0 or 1 (like 2030, 2031)
Bing or ding-fire days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 2 or 3 (like 2022, 2023)
Wu or ji-earth days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)
Geng or xin-metal days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 6 or 7 (like 2026, 2027)
Ren or gui-water days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)

If you want to know more about Bazi or if your potential partner will be faithful or not, the following course gives you the most for your money:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

APPENDIX: FIND A PERSON'S DAY-PILLAR AND DAYMASTER

1. Log in to www.bazi-calculator.com

2. In the right-side of the screen panel box, select "Ken Lai Method". No need to bother with anything else.3. Key in the guy's birthday and hour in the left side of the screen. Ignore the right side screen for "date to compare".
4. Click the "calculate" box to get results.
5. Scroll down the screen and see his Bazi chart in the left side with a table similar to the one here.
6. The first box of second column (the one with "day master" in it) shows the elemental nature of his daymaster (example here is geng-metal in grey color). Below are the colors of 5 elements:

Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color

Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color

Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color

Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color

Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Saturday, February 25, 2023

Should you do "older woman and younger man romance"? 姐弟恋

"Jiě dì liàn" ("elder sister romance with a younger man") is the Chinese term for relationship between a man with an older woman. In America, this is called "cougar" dating younger man who are 6- 20 years younger. This type of romance is common among career women who have "missed" the prime time for relationship with the same age cohort due to putting priority on career over romance.

If you are one of these "older women" and want to try your romance luck with younger males, this article will help you find the "better" guy for success.

The info below is also good for men under 30 years old if they want to check their suitability of dating an older women.

This is done by checking the birth chart of the man who the older woman dates. Check his Bazi chart for the following characteristics:

Note: Go to the Appendix below to learn how to find the "daymaster" and "day-pillar" if you have no idea.

MALE CHART CHARACTERISTICS FOR ROMANCE WITH OLDER WOMAN

#1 ranked characteristic: Daymaster sitting on -power star (qi-sha)

Daymaster or DM means the birth chart owner which is the day-stem of the day-pillar in a chart. Where DM sits on is called "spouse palace" which reflects type of spouse the person will meet. Power star is authority figure in Bazi. -Power star (qi-sha) is like a dictator or a strict boss. A male with -power star sitting in spouse palace needs a tough boss to manage him. A mature and older woman is perfect to provide guidance for him. The day-pillars below have -power star sitting in spouse palace:

-Power day-pillars: Jia-shen, Wu-yin, Ji-mao, Ren-xu, Gui-wei, Ren-chen and Gui-chou

#2 ranked characteristic: Daymaster sitting on +power star (zheng-guan)

+ Power star is also an authority figure. Whereas -power star (qi-sha) is like a dictator or a strict boss, +power is like like a parent or teacher with good intentions and rule with softer approaches and good intentions. A male with +power star sitting in spouse palace needs a gentle parent to guide him. An older or sisterly woman is perfect for him. The day-pillars below have +power star sitting in spouse palace:

+Power day-pillars: Bing-zi, Ding-hai, Geng-wu and Xin-si

#3 ranked characteristic: Daymaster sitting on +resource star (zheng-yin)

+ Resource star is a nurturing or motherly figure or older woman. Man born in +resource day tends to be shy, kind and dependent. Hence a mature and older woman or motherly figure would fit him well. The day-pillars below have +resource star sitting in spouse palace:

+Resource day-pillars: Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Wu-wu and Ji-si

#4 ranked characteristic: Daymaster sitting on -resource star (pian-yin)

- Resource star is also a nurturing or motherly figure. Man born in -resource day tends to be cold, introvert with poor social skills. Hence a mature and sociable woman or motherly figure would help him integrate with society better. The day-pillars below have -resource star sitting in spouse palace:

-Resource day-pillars: Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-wei, Xin-chou, Ren-shen and Gui-you.

If you want to know more about Bazi or if your potential partner will be faithful or not, the following course gives you the most for your money:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

If you have problem with the Bazi terms in this blog, please check:

Ken's Cyber Cave: 4P/ Bazi Terminology Conventions (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

Ken Lai

APPENDIX: FIND A PERSON'S DAY-PILLAR AND DAYMASTER

1. Log in to www.bazi-calculator.com

Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color (power star is Fire and resource is Earth Wood)

Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color (power star is Metal and resource is Water)

Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color (power star is Earth and resource is Metal)

Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color (power star is Water and resource is Wood)

Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color (power star is Wood and resource is Fire)

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Monday, February 20, 2023

Bazi of people with problems getting married 剩男剩女的八字

In 2018, I have written about "Secrets of Bachelor and Spinster Feng Shui".

Ken's Cyber Cave: Secrets of Bachelor and Spinster Feng Shui (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

Today I discuss Bazi factors leading to problem getting married for both men and women.

1. Birth chart has no peach-blossom element (桃花): Zi, wu, mao and you are the four peach-blossom (PB) stars for romance and social networking. Missing this PB star means the person is not romantic or socially inactive.

2. Weak or no wealth star for male and power star for female: Wealth star is wife for male and power star husband for female in Bazi. When this star is weak or clashed, spouse is hard to come by.

3. Wealth star for male and power star for female is entombed: Wealth or power star entombed means spouse is put in storage and not accessible.

4. Strong peer stars for male: Peer stars jinx or "steal" wealth star (wife). Friends of the man "steal" or snatches his wife away.

5. Strong output stars for female: Output stars jinx power star (husband). The woman is too picky or demanding and scaring potential husband away.

6. Power or wealth star in void: Void means spouse is not there.

Consult a Bazi reader or take the following course for remedies:

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

If you have problem with the Bazi terms in this blog, please check:

Ken's Cyber Cave: 4P/ Bazi Terminology Conventions (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
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Tuesday, February 7, 2023

Predicting when romance or marriage happens 天喜星和红鸾星

In terms of Bazi, when a female runs into power star (guan-sha) year and male runs into wealth star (cai) year, he or she has the high probability of romantic encounters or even marriage.

Another easy method for predicting romance is checking one's Chinese zodiac animal sign and his/ her "Red Phoenix 红鸾星" and "Celestial Celebration 天喜星" stars.

Red Phoenix Star relates to potential for formal marriage. Celestial Celebration Star is associated with a broad range of celebrations including marriage. The table below shows how to locate these two stars:

One has better chance of meeting the "right" partner when his or her Red Phoenix or Celestial Celebration Star runs into his/ her chart. For example, based on the above table, if your Chinese zodiac animal sign is rat, when the current year animal sign is rabbit or rooster, you have a good chance of meeting your potential partner or getting married.

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