Predicting your years with better romance or marriage luck 八字看情人姻缘

How do you find out which year that you may have better romance or marriage luck?

You can find the clues in your Bazi birth chart.  If you do not know your own "daymaster" element, please go to www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday and find your "daymaster"  in the top row of the day column.

In Bazi, annual luck (means current year) shows the possible events that might happen to a person.  The year stem reflects what can be seen by the public.  Hence if the year stem is the element representing wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai, wife/ lover for male) or power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha, husband/ lover for female), it means the likelihood of lover or marriage partner showing up in that year.

You don't need to know what is "year stem" as long as you can read the last digit of each year like the "5" in 2025-- simply read the tables below to find your years of better love luck.

The tables below summarize the exact year that lover or marriage partner is more likely to show up.  For example, a Jia-wood male daymaster (person), will likely run into romance (if single) or affair (if married) when a year with last digit 0 (Geng-metal year, e.g., 2030).   The same person may get married in a Xin-metal year (e.g., 2031) if he is single.  Similar logic is applied for female daymasters too.

YEARS WITH BETTER LOVER AND MARRIAGE LUCK TABLE

SUPER BONUS:  This is another BOGO article.  You may use the year reference of these tables to keep an eye on your spouse or lover during his or her "love luck" years, followed by wife or husband luck years.  For example, if your girl friend or wife is a Geng-metal person, you pay extra attention to her activities during Bing-fire  (e.g. 2026) and Ding-fire years (2027).  Bing-fire year is more "dangerous".  If your boy friend or husband is a Geng-person, it would be years with the last digit 4 or 5.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

How to check one loves his wife or mistress more?

There is a saying in Taiwan about the nature of man-- "Nine out of ten men cheat.  The 10th man is impotent."

While this may be a sweeping generalization, but it is pretty close to the truth or world population would have been much smaller.

In this article, we utilize the power of Bazi or 4-pillars astrology to find out if a man loves his wife or mistress/ girl friend more by examining certain feature in his birth chart.  "Mistress or girl friend" here is defined as a woman who have repeated sexual relationship with a married man.  This does NOT include the one-night stand affairs.

BAZI FEATURES OF MAN WITH MISTRESS/ GIRL FRIEND

1.  Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) stronger than +wealth star (zheng-cai):  -Wealth star represents mistress and +wealth star wife for a male chart.  When -wealth star is stronger than +wealth, it implies his mistress is more capable than wife.  Hence this man tends to prefer or love the mistress more.

2.  Chart with -wealth star (pian-cai) exposed in stem level and  +wealth star (zheng-cai) hidden in branch level:  -Wealth star showing up in stem level means mistress is visually seen in public with this man. This also means husband interacts with mistress more in public.  This may also be a type of showing off.   +Wealth star is hidden in stem level means husband rarely goes out with wife.  He may be uncomfortable to show off wife in public with him.  In short, this implies mistress has higher priority or status in this man's mind.

3.  Chart with  +wealth star (zheng-cai) "gaining position" 妻星得位 and strong:   In Bazi, "gaining position" happens when a +wealth star sits in spouse palace or day-branch.  If a husband chart with +wealth wife star gaining position or with nurturing by other star or with multiple +wealth stars,  this means wife is strong, capable and intolerant of a mistress.  This husband is also likely a "wife-fearing" person or even bullied by his wife.

4.  Chart with multiple -wealth stars (pian-cai):  This means -wealth mistress star is strong and with stronger karma connection with husband.  He is likely to love the mistress more than the wife.  He may even have no love or feeling for wife.

The above info is useful for any woman to weed out potential unfaithful partner before investing too much energy and resources on the guy.

Bazi can also predicts who will win in a love triangle like 2 women fight for a husband, 2 men fight for a wife, who will cheat in a marriage plus many other life events and even Feng Shui and date-selection!  

If you could only afford one Chinese metaphysics course, take the Bazi course below:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Years of loving dangerously-- predicting love rivals 预测情敌

Last month the "20/20" news program of the ABC TV network here in USA had re-examined the Amy Fisher love triangle story.  This incident is also known as the "Long Island Lolita" in which a 17 years old high schooler shot the wife of her lover in 1991.
https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/tv/abc-2020-joey-buttafuoco-mary-amy-fisher-1.38309535

Would the world be safer if we can predict:

• who are likely to have more love rivals than others
• when our love rivals will show up (and be prepared to guard your love property in advance)

"Love rivals" here refers to people who try to snatch your husband/ boy-friend or wife/ girl friend.

Today is your lucky day!  These rarely shared Bazi secrets are put here for your eyes only.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS
1.  Bazi charts with numerous (3+) peer stars (jie-cai, bi-jian):  Peer stars represent competitions to steal your wealth.  "Wealth" means material things and also wife in Bazi.  Male chart with numerous peer stars also means this man is stubborn and egoistic if not chauvinistic.  His wife or girl-friend is more likely to "jump ship" when someone better showing up.
2.  Male charts with yang daymasters (DM) Jia, Bing, Wu, Geng and Ren:  This is because yang male DM combines with a wealth or wife element.  For example, Jia-wood will combine with Ji-earth. When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the wealth or wife star in the chart.  It means an outside man taking his girl-friend or wife away.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FEMALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS
1.  Bazi charts with numerous (3+) output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan):  Output stars represent talents and temperament in Bazi.  Female chart with strong output stars, especially shang-guan, is demanding and exerts too much pressure to her husband or boy-friend.   The guy is likely to pick up a kinder and gentler woman if given the chance.

2.  Female charts with yin daymasters (DM) Yi, Ding, Ji, Xin and Gui:   This is because yin female DM combines with a power or husband element.  For example, Yi-wood will combine with Geng-metal.  When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the power or husband star in the chart.  It means an outside woman taking her boy-friend or husband away.

PEOPLE WITH STABLE MARRIAGE/LOVE: WHEN LOVE RIVALS SHOW UP

1. when day-stem and branch are clashed by 10-year-luck and/or annual luck
2. when day-branch or spouse palace is clashed by luck period/s
3. when day-branch or spouse palace is combined by luck period/s
4. when wealth star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for male 
5. when power star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for female

Now you know your ABC or when your love rival will knock at your door.  What are the next steps?  Here are some suggestions:
1.   try to be nicer to your spouse
2.   keep an eye on his/ her interactions with any opposite sex friends
3.   take the courses below for Bazi and Feng Shui remedies:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
© 2019 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.
 
Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”2019 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2019 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Bazi: Free soap opera writer training?

NOTE:   Below is a "Reality Bazi" exercise that I give to my Bazi students today.  It is the real life version of "The Graduate" movie.

There is a soap opera going on in Taiwan that grabs TV and people's attention.  Here are the characters:

1. Mother-in-law:  36 years old  (1981 xin-you)
2. Daughter:  20 years old  (1997 ding-chou)
3. Son-in-law ("Sing"):  18 years old (1999 ji-mao)
4. The young couple has one kid, age and gender not reported.

This "incident" has happened in 2017 ding-you year (likely in metal months, September - October).

This mother-in-law has seduced Sing the son-in-law and has sex.  She claims that Sing loves her and tells people that Sing will divorce her daughter.  She said her current husband does not care as long as she returns home at night.

Her daughter is mad and spills out this in-laws affair in the social media.  The daughter says that she would have filed a lawsuit for damages if the mistress is not her own mother.  Mother and daughter have public "cat-fights" in the internet.  Local TV news are busy with this event to push up rating.

Most "netizens" sympathize with the daughter.  Some comment that the incident looks like a Japanese AV (adult video). 

Friends of this son-in-law said he had relationship with 2 females simultaneously for a while.

Based on the limited information from the media, can you create ("guesstimate") the possible composition of daughter's natal Bazi chart  (incomplete chart OK, just need the critical elements)?

If you can read Chinese, here are the links for more juicy details.

【瞞住阿囡】台36歲外母偷戀18歲女婿 遭網民起底鬧爆

【瞞住阿囡】女婿現身回應 咁講同外母關係…

Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Will and When you have Love Rival?

This article shows the characteristics of Bazi charts that are likely to have "love rival" or competition and when this rival will show up.  Rival also means spousal affair if you are married.

If you are not familiar with Bazi terms, log into bazi-calculator.com and key in your birthday to find out your daymaster (in the day column) and the terms listed below.

Male natal chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) is prone to love rival.  Peer stars stand for competitions for your girl friend or wife.  This is especially likely to happen for yang daymasters like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren (i.e. male born in these days).  The chance of rivalry increases if this is also a strong male DM.  This rivalry is likely to happen during DM's peer luck  (bi-jian/ jie-cai) periods.

Female natal chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) is prone to love rival.  Output stars stand for pressure and jinx for boy friend or husband, resulting in him running away or going for other women or affairs (if not jinxed to death in extreme case).   This is especially likely to happen for women with strong +output stars (shang-guan) due to her strong personality.  Female yin daymasters like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui are more likely to have love rivalry.  The chance of rivalry increases if this is also a weak female DM.  This rivalry is likely to happen during DM's output luck  (shang-guan/ shi-shen) periods.

Love rivalry or affair can happen to people who are do not fit the above parameters, even with stable love or marriage.  This may happen when 10-years-luck or annual luck pillar clashing DM's day branch (spouse palace) or peer star combining with this branch.

Another possibility of love rivalry happens when a male DM's wealth star (i.e. zheng-cai/ pian-cai; wife) or female DM's power star (i.e. zheng-guan/ qi-sha; husband) is combined away by luck pillar.

"Ken, is there any remedy or prevention measure available?"

Yes, consult your teacher or take these courses:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com