Identify lazy people using only their birthday 懒人八字

Most people prefer not partner with or hiring lazy persons.  This article discusses how to identify lazy people using only their date of birth with Chinese Bazi astrology.  No probation or trial period needed.

BAZI CHART CHARACTERISTICS OF LAZY PERSONS

Chart with 3 or more resource stars (zheng-yin/ pian-yin):  Resource stars represent senior generations, parental help, blessing and academic credentials.  Chart with strong resource stars implies the chart owner ("daymaster", DM) is likely getting the blessing and support from his/ her seniors.  S/he is prone to become dependent, lacking motivation to achieve more, conservative, traditional and physically weak.  If annual luck comes another resource star,  s/he is likely to be lazy and happy to keep "business as usual" and resistant to change.

Chart has NO wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai):  In Bazi, wealth stars represent desires, abilities and persistence for goal attainment.  People with no wealth star in their chart lacks motivation, willingness to work towards goals and look down on material gains and interests.  This is like an engine without power and not moving much.

Chart with 3 or more -output stars (shi-shen):  -Output star represents talent and enjoying life.  People with strong -output stars in their chart thinks too much, fantasizes a lot but does little.  They like enjoying life and good food.  Many of them have big belly with a plump body.  They are sloppy and careless at work and daily lives.  This situation is especially worse if their chart has no wealth star.  DM will fantasizes more and withdraw when running into difficulty.

The above situations are not absolute.  We need to look at the whole natal chart to determine if this person is indeed a lazy one.  For example, if a chart with excess resource stars but has at least one wealth star to control them, DM's laziness will be under control.  Similar logic and interpretation for excess -output stars when resource star is presented in the chart.

Human laziness can be positive.  People who are lazy but with a sense of responsibility would invent or create new methods or tools to make do things and tasks faster, so they can be "lazy" but still get the jobs done.

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Quantifying level of husband-jinxing

Hi guys!  Today is your lucky day.  This article may save your happy or miserable life. It helps you determine if your potential wife will just irritating you or jinxing you to death.  This is done by reading the Bazi birth chart of your potential mate.

In Bazi, power star or zheng-guan stands for the husband in a female chart.  Shang-guan is the star that "hurts" or jinxes her husband.  To check the level of husband-jinxing is to look at the balance between power and output star in a female chart.

To help you understand the dynamics, here we use an earth female daymaster (DM) as example.  Her husband star is wood element and output star is metal.

LEVEL OF HUSBAND-JINXING
1. Both power and output stars are about equally weak:  This means both wood and metal are weak.  Metal can only pokes at metal from time to time.  Wife irritates husband with verbal attacks or behaviors  Husband puts up with it but dissatisfaction accumulates over time.
2. Output stars are weaker than power stars:  This means metal is weak and wood is relatively stronger.  Metal still instigates wood, but wood will not put up with the skirmishes and strike up.  Wife would irritates and picks on her husband.  Husband does not put up with her and result in quarrels and fights. 
3. Both powers and output stars are about equally strong:  Metal and wood are equally strong and in balance.  Wife has a good grasp of husband's weakness and can effectively keep husband at bay and no funny business.  This combination keeps the marriage stable.
4. Output stars are about above 100% but below 300% stronger than power stars:  This means metal is much stronger than wood.  The reality becomes:  husband is prone to illness, injuries, disasters, obstacles in life and the couple is prone to separation or divorce. 
5. Output stars are above 300% stronger than power star:  This means wood is very weak.  The reality becomes:  husband is prone to premature death.

If unfortunately your current wife falls into #4 or #5 of the above,  pray or run or hopefully you have a wife-jinxing chart to neutralize the other party's husband-jinxing.  If you do not have a wife-jinxing chart, you may take the courses below for help:

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Mate-selection Bazi: Male horse wanted, may win apartments

I saw the this picture of a mother showing a poster-sized note about getting a man for her daughter in a Chinese website.  Here is the translation of the poster:

Female, born in November of 1991, ram sign, Beijing resident, 172 cm height, 52 kg weight, university graduate, owns 5 apartments; one of the apartments  can be assigned to the potential husband.  Bazi of the girl:  (Nov. 21, 1991, Chen hour)

• Year:  xin-wei
• Month:  ji-hai
• Day:  yi-wei
• Hour:  geng-chen

Requirement of potential mate:

OK if he does not have property and/or car; must have horse animal sign and the following Bazi:  (Nov. 20, 1990, Chen hour)

• Year:  geng-wu
• Month:  ding-hai
• Day:  ji-chou
• Hour:  wu-chen

Apparently this mother has a Bazi reader done a marriage Bazi matching before searching a man for her daughter. 

The woman's zodiac animal sign is ram and the potential target man is horse.  Horse and ram "combine" or getting along in Bazi astrology.

Can you figure out the reason for the male's specific Bazi, especially you can see male's ji-chou day-pillar clashing (fan-yin) female's yi-wei  day-pillar?  This could result in quarreling and fighting between the couple.

Click picture to enlarge (chart generated by bazi-calculator.com)

From the charts, you can see earth is the wealth element of this yi-wood daymaster girl.  She has very strong wealth elements derived from older generations (owns 5 apartment at age 26).  Metal is the husband for a wood daymaster.  There are two metal elements in the stem level with a condition called "guan-sha mixing up" (numerous husbands and lovers).  Her mother does not need to help her find a husband.  Her daughter attracts men like flies.  She probably is a nosy mother to make sure her daughter gets the type of son-in-law that she wants.

What type of son-in-law does this "concerned" mother want?  A quick hint is from the poster-- "owns 5 apartments".  There is no mentioning of any personal or intangible qualities of the girl nor required personal quality from the man.   Her concern for material things is very evident here.  This is even more evident when you look at the composition of the natal chart of the potential suitor. 

The potential male is a ji-earth daymaster with strong peer (bi-jian/ jie-cai) elements and strong strong resource ("yin" or fire) to nurture earth.  Chart with strong peer elements but little or no power element ("guan" or wood here) to control them, the person will be someone with the personality of pharma bro Martin Shkreli (obnoxious), jinxing wife and father.  I guess this mother primarily focusing on the strong earth elements in the chart (means wealth to her daughter).  She hopes her wood daymaster daughter will be able to boss or control this man.  Wood is the power element to an earth daymaster.

Incidentally, both girl and potential man are likely becoming obese and problem conceiving children in the future.

From the man's Bazi chart, we can deduce that the Bazi reader that this mother hired considered earth or wealth is the favorable element ("yong-shen") of this girl.  After matching the animal sign of the potential couple, this Bazi reader simply searches for chart with strong earth for the girl and never minding any possible side effects.

Most Bazi readers in China laugh at the choice.  Upon looking beyond these natal charts, some important discoveries that could unlock a million dollar question in Bazi are found hidden in this marriage Bazi matching.  I let you figure it out yourself.  Hint:  check the 10-years-luck periods.

Can your Bazi chart qualify to be this girl's husband and "share" her 5 apartments?  My chart has matched 2 of the 4 pillars posted, I will give it a try to see if I can get 2.5 apartments.  
 Ken Lai

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Bazi: Secret Dating Guide for Women

The "Secret dating guide for men" post is one of the top 3 most popular posts in this blog month after month.  Being an equal opportunity discriminator, I write up the corresponding guide for women.

Similar to the "Secret dating guide for men", this guide is a negative guide-- what not to pick.  It will help women identify unfaithful men, horny dogs and wife-beaters with Bazi.

Don't worry about not knowing anything about Bazi (or 4-Pillars).  The appendix below will show you how to calculate the "day branch" of your potential partner.

This dating guide shows you a list of male daymasters (DM or your potential mate) born in certain days of the year. Women may want to think twice before taking the marriage vow with these men.  Men born in the days listed below are likely to be unfaithful husbands/ partners or simply jinxing their wives (not in absolute sense, still need to see other elements in his chart or consult a Bazi reader).  

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF UNDESIRABLE MALE PARTNER
Match the "day pillar" (birth day) of your potential mate to see if his chart has any of the following characteristics.  
 
1.  Male chart with numerous or strong pian-cai (-wealth) elements
-- "Pian-cai" (-wealth) stands for unstable love or affairs and mistress/lover.  Chart with numerous "pian-cai" means this man (DM) is likely fickle in love, lusty and disloyal.   If you find 2 or more "pian-cai" elements in a man's chart, you probably should walk away.  Table below shows you how to spot "pian-cai" in a chart. 

• Jia-wood DM with wu- and/ or chen-/xu-earth in chart 
• Yi -wood DM with ji- and/ or chou-/wei-earth in chart
• Bing-fire DM with geng- and/ or shen-metal in chart
• Ding-fire DM with xin- and/ or you-metal in chart
• Wu-earth DM with ren- and/ or zi-water in chart
• Ji-earth DM with gui- and/ or hai-water in chart
• Geng-metal DM with jia- and/ or yin-wood in chart
• Xin-metal DM with yi- and/ or mao-wood in chart
• Ren-water DM with bing- and/ or si-fire in chart
• Gui-water DM with ding- and/ or wu-fire in chart

2.  Chart with strong output star/s chasing wealth stars

-- Output stars means "shang-guan" and "shi-shen".  They represent DM's desire and impulses (and also sex organ!).  Strong output stars in a chart means DM has strong sexual desire and is impulsive.  If the chart has weak or no power star to control this desire, DM is likely be a lustful person, especially if output star is with wealth star in the same pillar. 
Output stars for:

• Jia-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire 
• Yi-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire
• Bing-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth
• Ding-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
• Wu-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Ji-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Geng-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
• Xin-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
• Ren-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
• Gui-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood 

3.  DM with numerous peer stars
-- Peer stars means "bi-jian" and "jie-cai" which stand for friends, sibling and colleagues.  In Bazi, there is a saying of "peer stars snatch wealth".  Wealth means wife.  A strong male DM with numerous peer stars is likely "sharing" ("involuntarily" or unknowingly) a women with other men or simply jinxing wife (or wife runs away with another man!).  Besides, men with strong peer stars are likely have a impulsive personality and are possessive toward their spouses.  They are also potential wife-beaters if chart has no power star to control the peer stars.  Peer stars of:

• Jia-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
• Yi-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
• Ding-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire
• Bing-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si- and wu-fire 
• Wu-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
• Ji-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
• Geng-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Xin-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen- and you-metal
• Ren-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
• Gui-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water

4.  DM with "jie-cai" peer star in day branch or spouse palace
-- Day branch is the spouse palace of a person.  "Jie-cai " or peer star controls "cai" or wife and sits in spouse palace means jinxing wife.  This means divorce, disharmony, wife is chronically sick or wife dies prematurely.  Think twice if your potential husband has any one of the following day pillars:

• Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-chou, Ji-wei, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai days 

5.  Spouse palace is clashed in the natal chart
Day branch is the "spouse palace".  When it is clashed, it means unstable marriage or jinxing spouse.  This clash could be between month and day branch or day and hour branch.  Below are the six possible clashes:

• zi-wu  (rat and horse clash)
• mao-you  (rabbit and rooster clash)
• yin-shen  (tiger and monkey clash)
• si-hai  (snake and pig clash)
• chen-xu  (dragon and dog clash)
• chou-wei  (ox and ram clash)

The follow branch interactions are also unfavorable to marriage:
a.  self-penalties between day/month and day/hour (chen-chen, hai-hai, you-you, wu-wu (horse))
b.  3-penalties between branches and luck periods (yi-si-shen, xu-chou-wei, zi-mao)
c.  when 10-year-luck period clashing day-branch

6.  DM with strong metal and water
-- DM with strong metal and water implies strong kidney and sexual desire (and likely extra-marital activities).  This is especially likely to happen when DM is metal.  "Strong" means DM has 2+ metal and 2+ water elements in the chart.

7.  DM with strong fire and hot earth
This means a chart with mostly fire and hot earth (wei- and xu-earth).  DM has strong urge and hyperactive sexual desire that "normal" marital life may not satisfy his demands (and goes for extra-marital sex).  Generally speaking, people born in summer months of si, wu and wei have strong fire and earth in their charts.  

If your man hits one of the above, you may not need to dump him.  But if he hits 3+ of the above, consider yourself lucky for reading this post (and run away from the guy fast).  But you may want to consult a Bazi reader and take a Bazi course before dumping a guy.

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a person
1.  Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
3.  Click "CALCULATE" box
4.  Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
5.  The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is "Geng-shen" in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

Ken Lai 

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com