Street fortune-teller secret codes for marital predictions 江湖看婚姻秘诀

In traditional or ancient China, many street fortune tellers were illiterate or blind or both.  How did they learn Bazi or 4-pillars reading?

They had learned the trade by reciting poems or "trick songs" like the ones presented below.  The poems are mostly based on empirical experience in the field and not may not based on Bazi theory or logic.

These poems predict marital situations based on the day pillar of a client.  The stem of a day pillar represents the daymaster or the chart owner.  Day branch is the spouse palace representing the wife or husband of the daymaster.

BAZI POEM ON MARITAL SITUATIONS 

男骑白马走天下，女骑白马犯桃花。Male riding a white horse travels the world.  Female riding a white horse violates peach blossom. (White is metal color. This means Geng-wu day-pillar.  Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to peach blossom or affairs).

男骑红马犯重婚，女骑红马要三婚。Male riding a red horse commits bigamy.  Female riding a red horse will marry thrice.  (Red is fire color.  This means Bing-wu day-pillar.  Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to marital disasters).

男骑黄马要离婚，女骑黄马犯多婚。Male riding a yellow horse will divorce.  Female riding a yellow horse will marry multiple times.   (Yellow is earth color.  This means Wu-wu day-pillar. Both male and female with this day pillar are prone to marital disasters).

男骑青马过朝庭，女骑青马挤破门。Male riding a green horse will become a government official.  Female riding a green horse breaks the family door.  (Green is wood color.  This means Jia-wu day-pillar).

男见青牛想情人，女见青牛多郎人。Male with a green ox thinks mistress.   Female with a green ox has many lovers.  (This means Yi-chou day-pillar).

男捉黄蛇恋二婚，女捉黄蛇主重婚。Male catching a yellow snake will marry twice.   Female catching a yellow snake commits bigamy.  (This means Ji-si day-pillar).

男打黑鼠想女人，女打黑鼠爱别人。Male beating a black rat thinks about women.  Female beating a black rat loves outside men.  (Black is water color.  This means Ren-zi day-pillar).

男养青狗克妻子，女养青狗克丈夫。Male raising a green dog jinxes wife.  Female raising a green dog jinxes husband.   ( This means Jia-xu day-pillar).

男养黑鸡防婚变，女养黑鸡再嫁人。Male raising a black rooster should beware of marriage upheavals.  Female raising a black rooster will marry again.  (This means Gui-you day-pillar).

男养白猪情人多，女养白猪婚变多。Male raising a white pig has many lovers/ mistresses.  Female raising a white pig has many marriage upheavals.  (This means Xin-hai day-pillar).

男养黄猴多情人，女养黄猴没郎人。Male raising a yellow monkey has many lovers/ mistresses.  Female raising a yellow monkey has no husband.  (This means Wu-shen day-pillar).

男养青兔要变婚，女养青兔要离婚。 Male raising a green rabbit has marriage upheavals.  Female raising a green rabbit will divorce.   (This means Yi-mao day-pillar).

男养白鸡爱别人，女养白鸡爱情人。Male raising a white rooster loves outside woman.  Female raising a white rooster has lovers.  (This means Xin-you day-pillar).

男捉黑蛇风流人，女捉黑蛇再嫁人。Male catching a black snake is flirtatious and romantic.  Female catching a black snake will marry again.  (This means Gui-si day-pillar).

男养白猴难成婚，女养白猴婚难成。Male raising a white monkey has problem getting married.  Female raising a white monkey is difficult to get married.  (This means Geng-shen day-pillar).

男打白鼠伤妻子，女打白鼠另嫁人。Male hitting a white/metal rat hurts/jinxes wife.  Female hitting a white/metal rat is difficult to get married.  (This means Geng-zi day-pillar).

男驾青龙妻克夫，女驾青龙夫克妻。Male riding a green dragon gets a husband-jinxing wife.  Female riding a green dragon gets a wife-jinxing husband.  (This means Jia-chen day-pillar).

In general, people born with the above day pillars are more "likely" suffering marital setbacks and problems.  It will be more serious if their natal chart composition is less than satisfactory, with problems like bigamy, multiple marriages, divorce, life and death separation, affairs, dumping the spouse or being dumped.

The above 17 day-pillars out of a possible 60 are mostly involving Zi, Wu, Mao and You day-branch or rat, horse, rabbit and rooster animal signs.  This is because Zi, Wu, Mao and You are the peach-blossom or romance elements in Bazi.

If you want to know more about relationship and marital predictions, you may want to take the following Bazi course:

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Identify unfaithful males from their birthday charts 花心男人

Hi sisters!  Today is your lucky day to find out if your male pals have unfaithful potential using Bazi astrology.

Below factors contribute to the "unfaithfulness" of a male:

1.  Strong metal and water elements in a male chart:  Water stands for IQ, cunningness, desire and also promiscuity in Bazi.  Metal will further strengthen water or his desire.

2.  Strong output (shang-guan/ shi-shen) stars in birth chart:  Output elements also represent desire.  Shang-guan also stands for the sex organ.  Strong output elements in chart means this guy has strong drive to fulfil his desires.

3.  Chart has -wealth (pian-cai) or mixing of + or -wealth stars:  +wealth star (zheng-cai) stands for wife and -wealth mistress if the chart is above average (prostitutes or one-night stand if below average chart).

4.  Chart has symbolic stars like peach-blossom, affair sha and bath:  while these stars help interactions with the opposite sex, they do not necessarily represent promiscuity unless strong output stars also present in the chart.

If a man has two plus of the above, you may want to think twice before going steady with him.

"Ken, does the above also applicable to unfaithful females?"

Yes, except #3 needs to switch to "-power (qi-sha) or mixing of + (zheng-guan) and -power stars" because power stars stand for husband and lover for females.

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How to check promiscuous charts 好色

Bazi chart characteristics of people who are promiscuous:

1.  "Violating" peach-blossom star 犯桃花:   Zi, wu, mao and you are the four "peach-blossom" stars.  Peach-blossom star stands for romanticism, sentimental, sexual/ physical attraction and lust.  The following conditions are "violating peach-blossom":

• Day stem with shen or zi or chen  and with you in another branch 
• Day stem with hai or mao or wei and with zi in another branch
• Day stem with yin or wu or xu and with mao in another branch
• Day stem with si or you or chou and with wu in another branch

Chart with more than one peach-blossom stars (zi, wu, mao and you) is very sociable and attractive to opposite sex.

2.  Chart is too dry or too wet:  When a chart is too dry, the chart looks for water.  Water represents sex in Bazi.  When a chart is too wet implies it has too much water and wet earth.  Strong water means chart owner has strong kidneys and hence sex drive.

3.  Chart has many combinations:  Branch combinations like 3-meetings, 3-unities and 6-combinations, whether within the natal chart and/ or with luck period, means this person is very sociable and prone to affairs.  Same logic for stem combinations.

4.  Chart has mixing of zheng-cai and pian-cai (+/- wealth stars) for males:  Zheng-cai stands for wife and pian-cai mistress for males.  Chart with mixing of these two stars implies this male is likely to have extra-marital affairs if married and multiple sex partners if single.

5.  Chart has mixing of zheng-guan and qi-sha (+/- power stars) for females:  Zheng-guan stands for husband and qi-sha lover for females.  Chart with mixing of these two stars implies this female is likely have extra-marital affairs if married and multiple sex partners if single.

6.  Chart has numerous (2+) shi-shen and shang-guan (+/- output stars):  Shi-shen and shang-guan are the "output" (excretions) of the person.  Chart with strong output stars means chart owner is more self-directed and lacking self-control.  Output stars also represent sex organ and sexuality.

You do not need to freak out if your partner meets one or two of the above conditions.  If s/he meets 3 or more conditions, you probably should keep an eye on him/her or find a "backup" partner.

You can see Bazi is useful in our daily life. If you want to learn straight to the point Bazi, the following course is the best deal in the universe:

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Que Sera Sera-- "Will my future spouse be handsome or pretty?"

You may have heard this Doris Day's song-- Que Sera Sera:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xZbKHDPPrrc

Most of us probably have asked similar questions-- "Will I be handsome or pretty?"

Then more than likely, we want to know if our future spouse is handsome or pretty.

Today is your lucky day-- based on my 4-pillars readings in the past, I have found that you can predict the physical appearance of your future spouse by checking the day pillar of your own birthday or Bazi birth chart.

Don't worry if you do not understand the terminology here.  You can simply read the appendix below to check if you have the potential of getting a pretty or handsome spouse.

SPOUSE PALACE AND THE APPEARANCE OF YOUR SPOUSE
The lower part or "branch" of the day pillar of your natal chart is the "spouse palace".  It stores information about your spouse.  For the appearance of your future spouse, we check the branch element which is also can be read as animal sign.

I.  4-cardinal elements:  If your day branch (spouse palace) has one of the followings:

• Zi 子 (rat) 
• Wu 午 (horse) 
• Mao 卯 (rabbit) 
• You 酉 (rooster)

Your spouse is likely handsome or pretty or at the least, has a pleasant personality.  Zi, Wu, Mao and You are called "4-peach blossoms".  It stands for sentimentality, elegance, pleasing appearance and social popularity.  If a chart has more than 2 of these 4 elements, the chart owner likely has magnetic personality, physically attractive and many romantic admirers. 

II.  4-sub-cardinal elements: If your day branch has one of the followings:

• Yin 寅 (tiger)
• Shen 申 (monkey)
• Si 巳 (snake)
• Hai 亥 (pig)

Your spouse is likely "average looking" and intelligent.  Yin, Shen, Si and Hai are called "4-sub-cardinal elements".  If a chart has more than 2 of these 4 elements, the chart owner is very active and cannot sit still.  

III.  4-storage elements:  If your day branch (spouse palace) has one of the followings:

• Chen 辰 (dragon)
• Xu 戌 ( dog)
• Chou 丑 ( ox)
• Wei 未 (ram)

Your spouse is likely not physically attractive, but s/he is honest and kind.  Chen, Xu Chou and Wei are called "4-storages or tombs" and are earth in nature.  If a chart has more than 2 of these 4 elements, the chart owner is likely not too active and slow in action.  But s/he is likely to hoard things or not willing to throw things away.  S/he is also good at saving money.


APPENDIX: how to find your day-pillar
1.  Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in your birthday
3.  Click "Calculate" button
4.  Check the "Day" column of the table in the left side
5.  This example column here shows "Chen" (dragon) in the day branch or spouse palace in the day-pillar.

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Another Approach to Self-penalties

Previous post derives self-penalties by matching branch 3-unities (San-he) to 3-meetings (San-hui).  This post uses branch groups to locate self-penalties.

Classic Bazi segregates 12 branch elements into 3 groups:

4 cardinal or peach-blossom elements
--  zi, wu, mao and you
4 sub-cardinal or traveling horses elements
--  yin, shen, si and hai
4 storage or tomb elements 
--  chen, xu, chou and wei 

From the above, we have 3-penalties

1. zi-mao penalty
2. yin-shen-si 3-penalties
3. xu-chou-wei 3-penalties

The branch elements that are missing in these 3-penalties actions become self-penalty when running into identical element.  

Self-Penalties:

• Chen-chen
• You-you
• Wu-wu
• Hai-hai

Don't overlook the destructive power and influence of self-penalty.  It could be as serious as other penalties.  Out of the 4 self-penalties, wu, you and hai self-penalties are most serious because:

• Wu-fire is the yang-knife (羊刃) of bing-fire
• You-metal  is the yang-knife of geng-metal
• Hai-water is the yang-knife of gui-water 

Self-penalty becomes serious matter when the corresponding stem showing up in the stem level, especially if the stem is also the daymaster (DM).

Self-penalty could mean:

• self-inflicted pain/ injury
• self-sabotage 
• addiction
• depression
• worrisome
• meddlesome
• petty
• cannot let go of trivial matters

If the self-penalty element is also the yang-knife of the DM,  s/he may have health problems (self-inflicted, psychosomatic or psychological), suicidal due to depression, love-sickness depression and the likes.

Self-penalty is also one of the causes of depression.

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Bazi Characteristics of Psychics, Mediums and Metaphysicans

If you have one or more of the following characteristics in your Bazi chart, you could become a psychic, medium, metaphysics person and the likes easily.

Bazi charts with:

1. Zheng-yin/ pian-yin (resource stars):  People with resource stars in both stem and branch level are likely to have psychic ability, studying and practicing religions/ metaphysics related careers.
2. Mao-you clash:  People with this clash in their chart has strong intuition and sixth sense.  My own "psychic antenna" suddenly turns on when I have a mao-you clash luck period. 
3. 4-cardinal elements:  zi, wu, mao and you is the 4-cardinal elements with relatively pure and strong water, fire, wood and metal energies.  These elements also represent north, south, east and west 4-cardinal directions. They are also the 4-peach-blossom elements.  Hence it is not uncommon to hear sex scandals in these circles. 
4. Strong shi-shen/ shang-guan (output stars):  Output stars represents intellect and intuition.  People with strong output stars are sensitive to different frequencies of energies. 
5. Strong pian-yin (-resource):  Resource stars stand for reception of signals from the universe and knowledge.  Zheng-yin (+resource) stands for main-stream signals and religions.  Pian-yin (-resource) stands for non-traditional signal and religions.   
6. Jia-wood and ding-fire in stem level:  Jia-wood is the first element of the 10-stems.  Ding-fire stands of starry light.  When ding-fire meets Jia-wood in a chart, it will brightly lit up Jia-wood for a long time. 
7. Gui-water daymaster (DM):  Gui-water is the yin-est element of the 10-stems.  Yin element is associated with supernatural ghostly/ psychic events.  Gui-water DM usually is soft-spoken, passive and sensitive to yin elements and supernatural phenomena.    
8. Yin-day and yin-hour birthday:  These are people who were born in yin days/ hours.  Yin days/ hours are days/ hours with yi, ding, ji, xin, and gui stems and chou, mao, si, wei, you and hai branches. People born in yin day/hour can easily attain psychic ability.  If all the 4 pillars in a chart are yin, this DM could be a spokesperson for deity or spirit.  
9. Huá gài shen-sha (Loner-talent 华盖):  Hua-gai is the symbolic star for someone interested in metaphysics and religions.  People with this star are usually religious, intelligent but non-sociable.  Most metaphysics students, including myself, have this star in their charts.   Check below to see if you have this star:

• If your day-branch is:  shen, zi or chen, your hua gai is chen
• If your day-branch is:  hai, mao or wei, your hua gai is wei
• If your day-branch is:  si, you or chou, your hua gai is chou
• If your day-branch is:  yin, wu or xu, your hua gai is xu

10. Tai-ji Nobleman Shen-sha (太极贵人):  This star stands for interest in mysterious and divine knowledge.  You have this star:

• if your day-stem is Jia- or Yi-wood with BOTH zi and wu 
• if your day-stem is Bing- or Ding-fire with BOTH mao and you 
• if your day-stem is Wu-earth with BOTH chen and xu 
• if your day-stem is Ji-earth with BOTH chou and wei 
• if your day-stem is Geng- or Xin-metal with BOTH yin and mao
• if your day-stem is Ren- or Gui-water with BOTH si and shen 

You should take my Chinese metaphysics courses below if you have one or more of the characteristics listed above.  You don't want to waste your metaphysics talent.

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Bazi: In search of a good husband

Most single women probably want to ask this question: "Will I get a good husband?"  Look no further.  Your own Bazi natal chart may have the answer.

Below are 5 Bazi scenarios that a woman may get a good husband:

1.  Power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) are favorable elements in natal chart
Power stars stand for husband for a female chart.  Favorable element represents good support for the daymaster (DM) or woman here.  Power star is favorable element in a female chart means this DM will have a good husband.
2.  The element sitting in day branch or spouse palace is favorable
Some charts may not have power star.  In this case we check the element sitting inside spouse palace (day branch) to see if it is favorable or not.  If favorable, it means the potential husband will be nice and helpful to the DM.
3.  Power star combines with daymaster
This means husband gets along well with DM.  Even better if power star is also the favorable element and there is no "jealous combination" in the chart (i.e., no woman steal the good man).  In this scenario, this husband will love DM very much.
4.  Spouse palace is occupied by one of the 4 peach-blossom elements-- zi, wu, mao or you. 
This husband will be handsome, sociable or knows how to please people.  However, this element must be favorable element to the chart to be positive to the DM.
5.  Wealth element sits in spouse palace
We all need wealth to survive.  Wealth stands for wife for man and also love for both sexes.  To check if the future husband has wealth (or capable of making wealth) or not, check DM's spouse palace to see if it is occupied by a wealth element.  If wealth star sits there and is also the favorable element, DM's husband is capable of making money and hopefully becoming rich (need to check the man's chart too).

If you think logically, the scenarios above with minor modifications will be for a man in search of a good wife-- simply change "power star" to "wealth star".  Another ROGO (read-one-get-one) free article here!

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Bazi: Life's negative lottery

At the beginning of this year, I had sent a note warning my neighbor Billy, a 40+ years old programmer, about two most dangerous months and days to him for the year of Rooster.  His chart has hit the Bazi lottery configurations of "zi-wu-mao-you"-- the most powerful clashes that people dread.

Zi, wu, mao, and you are the purest earth branches and also called the 4-cardinal branches.  These four energies clashes are like 4 cars driving towards each other head-on at high speed. Hence their energies are concentrated and powerful.  They are also called "peach-blossom" elements associated with romance and affairs.

When a chart has any two of these elements, it is not uncommon that 10-year luck and annual luck may bring in the other two missing elements to hit the zi-wu-mao-you negative lottery.  It could be accident, negative romance/ affair that may cause major wealth losses or even death or major sickness.

Other Bazi negative lottery configurations could be formed due to luck periods are:
1.  3-penalties like yin-si-shen/ chou-xu-wei
2.  Formation clashing formation like:

• hai-zi-chou vs. si-wu-wei or yin-wu-xu 
• shen-zi-chen vs. si-wu-wei or yin-wu-xu 
• yin-mao-chen vs. shen-you-xu or si-you-chou
• hai-mao-wei vs. shen-you-xu or si-you-chou
• si-wu-wei vs. shen-you-xu or si-you-chou
• yin-wu-xu vs. shen-you-xu or si-you-chou

3.  Three identical branches clashing one branch
 
I ran into my neighbor Billy while checking mailbox today.  "I'm glad to see you are still alive".  I said.

"Am I out of the wood yet?"  Billy asked.

"Not yet, just the most dangerous periods are gone.  You still have to be cautious till the end of this year of rooster."  I replied.

"What else can I do?" Asked Billy.

"Mow my lawn once a week and you will be safe".  I said.

"Do I look like stupid?"  Billy said.

Billy always helps families in the neighborhood remove heavy snow after snowstorm.  This is why I had sent him the warning note-- to make sure he stays alive (and removes heavy snow from my driveway when snowstorm hits).

Ken Lai
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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

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Will someone "steal" your spouse or lover ?

How do you check if your spouse is prone to be "snatched" away by another person or a "cheating heart"?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or "spouse-snatcher" showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai)
-- Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man.  Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love.  This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren.  If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your wife or lover.  For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period. 

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen)
-- Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one's love.  This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch.   It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui
-- if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your husband or lover.  For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one's spouse palace (day-branch)
-- assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship.  This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another woman coming into the system.  Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period
-- this is the signal of another man coming into the system.  Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE
Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut.  It could be the "script" or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart.  The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going "steady".  If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period.  There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my "Destiny and Luck management" courses (see below for details).

Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
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Bazi: How to spot "Cute Guy" from a birthday chart

My female students have been chasing me for the Bazi characteristics of "cute guys" for 10+ years because I have only told them the characteristics of beautiful women.

It is possible to guess the external appearance of someone by reading his or her birthday Bazi chart.  Below are the Bazi characteristics of cute or handsome guys (帅哥) in their natal charts.

1.  Presence of peach-blossom elements-- "Peach-blossom" elements are the "attraction index" in Bazi.  zi (rat), wu (horse), mao (rabbit) and you (rooster) are the 4 peach-elements in Bazi.  People with these peach-blossom elements usually are attractive and sociable.

2.  Chart with metal and water mutual-nurturing like 2 metal and 1 water elements or 1 metal and 2 water elements-- the daymaster (DM) is likely to be intelligent,  have fair complexion and refined facial features.

3.  Chart with wood and fire mutual-nurturing-- this DM is likely to be handsome (pretty if this is a woman) and intelligent.

4.  Chart with strong pian-cai (-wealth) elements-- pian-cai stands for lover/ mistress for male.  For example,  Jia and Yin-wood are the the pian-cai of a Geng-metal DM.  Men with strong pian-cai usually are attractive to opposite sex and look handsome.

5.  Chart with strong output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen)-- output stars stand talent and intelligence.  Men with strong output stars are usually sentimental, intelligent, romantic and accomplished.  People in the entertainment industries usually have strong output stars.

Actually, all the above characteristics except #4, are also predictors of pretty women!  You get a BOGO deal here.  This guide works for people with any sexual preference.

Pretty or not pretty, cute or not cute, are in the eyes of beholders.  It is not unusual to see "cute guys" pairing with "not so beautiful" girls or pretty girls with not so handsome dudes.  Assuming it is not due to "wealth factors", it is usually the not so pretty/handsome party has numerous peach-blossom elements in his or her chart.

Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
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Mistress or "become a mistress" Feng Shui

Most women do not want their husbands have mistresses or a "third party" (called "Little Third" (小三) in China).

"Peach blossom" is the term used in Bazi astrology and Feng Shui to describe both positive and negative romance due to one's astrological chart or Feng Shui conditions.

People whose birth charts have more than 2 peach-blossom elements or are currently running into peach-blossom luck period are prone to romance (if single) and affairs (if married).  I will address the birth chart part in later blogs. 

This article will address Feng Shui factors contributing to mistress "invading" into your territory or you become a mistress yourself.


FACTORS LEADING TO MISTRESS FENG SHUI

House facing a "V-shaped" road 
"V" looks like a woman spreading her legs.  Females of this house are prone to negative peach blossom.

House or office with big empty flower vase
This may bring more romance to female residents-- especially attracting married men.

Seeing bathroom when opening the main door from outside
This may bring negative peach blossom, especially if the residents work in people-oriented careers.

West side of house seeing water
This includes bathroom or kitchen in west side of house-- female residents are prone to attracting married men.  West or "you (rooster) mountain/ direction " is one of the four peach-blossom regions.  If dirty water flowing out from this direction, female resident is prone to become a mistress.

Above factors are mostly basic form Feng Shui materials.  You can check out my "Visual Form Feng Shui" video course for more details.
http://isfengshui.blogspot.com/2015/11/visual-form-feng-shui.html

When I am in a good mood, I will write about "no mistress/ third party" Feng Shui fixes in the future. 

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

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