Predicting your years with better romance or marriage luck 八字看情人姻缘

How do you find out which year that you may have better romance or marriage luck?

You can find the clues in your Bazi birth chart.  If you do not know your own "daymaster" element, please go to www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday and find your "daymaster"  in the top row of the day column.

In Bazi, annual luck (means current year) shows the possible events that might happen to a person.  The year stem reflects what can be seen by the public.  Hence if the year stem is the element representing wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai, wife/ lover for male) or power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha, husband/ lover for female), it means the likelihood of lover or marriage partner showing up in that year.

You don't need to know what is "year stem" as long as you can read the last digit of each year like the "5" in 2025-- simply read the tables below to find your years of better love luck.

The tables below summarize the exact year that lover or marriage partner is more likely to show up.  For example, a Jia-wood male daymaster (person), will likely run into romance (if single) or affair (if married) when a year with last digit 0 (Geng-metal year, e.g., 2030).   The same person may get married in a Xin-metal year (e.g., 2031) if he is single.  Similar logic is applied for female daymasters too.

YEARS WITH BETTER LOVER AND MARRIAGE LUCK TABLE

SUPER BONUS:  This is another BOGO article.  You may use the year reference of these tables to keep an eye on your spouse or lover during his or her "love luck" years, followed by wife or husband luck years.  For example, if your girl friend or wife is a Geng-metal person, you pay extra attention to her activities during Bing-fire  (e.g. 2026) and Ding-fire years (2027).  Bing-fire year is more "dangerous".  If your boy friend or husband is a Geng-person, it would be years with the last digit 4 or 5.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Missing element/s and personality 五行命理解說

In previous article we have discussed what may happen when a chart has missing transformation stars or "10-gods".  In this article we focus on the missing element in a Bazi chart.

According to Chinese cosmology, the world is formed with 5 basic elements or primal energies represented by water, wood, fire, earth and metal.  Human destiny is determined by the interplay of this 5 basic energies.  All living organisms survive under the natural rules and restrictions of 5-elements.

For the Chinese Daoists, the only way to achieving true freedom and immortality is to: 

"Hop out of the 3 realms and live outside the boundary of 5-elements 跳出三界外，不在五行中".   (Note: 三界 "3-realms" is triloka-- sensory, form and formless realms)

Whereas missing transformation star focuses primarily on the social and family aspect, missing elements are more onto the personality of the chart owner or daymaster. 

People with a completed set of 5-elements in their birth charts are the relatively blessed group and have long life expectancy.  They are likely to live a stable/ peaceful life with no major ups and downs (but not necessarily rich and famous).  If they run into obstacles or setbacks, they are likely going through them without a scratch.

If one's chart has a weak or missing element, one is likely has some aspects of life missing or obstacles related to that element.  Below are the meanings of missing a element in a chart

MEANINGS OF WEAK OR MISSING ELEMENT

1.  Weak or missing water element:  Water element is exemplified as ocean, sea, river, lake and stream in nature.  Water stands for intelligence in Chinese metaphysics.  Water flows downward and has no shape.  It's form changes with the container holding it.  When applying water nature to the personality of an individual with strong water, it implies s/he is smart, flexible, a quick learner, adaptive to changes and sociable.  But s/he could be flowery, promiscuous and cunning if water is too strong.  In contrary, one with weak or missing water element will be rigid, inflexible, having problems adapting to changes, lacking planning and not too smart.

2.  Weak or missing wood element:  Wood element is exemplified as trees, plants, grass and flowers in nature.  Wood stands for kindness in Chinese metaphysics.  Wood is solid and grows upward.  When applying wood nature to the personality of an individual with strong wood, it implies s/he is upright, kind, moving forward and not a quitter.  But s/he could be stubborn, cruel and inflexible if wood is too strong.  In contrary, one with weak or missing wood element will be indecisive, unkind, lacking stamina and motivation to achieve goals, prone to withdrawal and lacking persistence.

3.  Weak or missing fire element:  Fire element is exemplified as the sun, moon, stars and flames in nature.  Fire stands for courtesy in Chinese metaphysics.  Fire or flame is "hollow" and burns upward.  It is the strongest form of yang energy.  When applying fire nature to the personality of an individual with strong fire, it implies s/he is polite, cultured, proactive, enthusiastic and cheerful.  But s/he could be impatient and hot-tempered if fire is too strong.  In contrary, one with weak or missing fire element will be a laggard, impolite, lazy, lacking enthusiasm and has problems achieving goals.

4.  Weak or missing earth element:  Earth element is exemplified as the field, plains, soil, sands, mountain and rocks in nature.  Earth stands for trust/ faith in Chinese metaphysics.  Earth is stable and gives rise to "everything"  ("mother earth" gives rise to plants/ metal and etc.).   When applying earth nature to the personality of an individual with strong earth, it implies s/he is trustworthy, keeping promise, honest, reliable, inclusive, reputable and stable.  But s/he could be inflexible and rigid if earth is too strong.  In contrary, one with weak or missing earth element will be lacking credibility/ trust and impulsive.

5.  Weak or missing metal element:  Metal element is exemplified as the metal ores and precious stones in nature.  Metal stands for righteousness in Chinese metaphysics.  Metal is rough and tough.  When applying metal nature to the personality of an individual with strong metal, it implies s/he is full of righteousness, authoritative, loyalty,  fighting injustice, not hesitating to take action against evils/ criminals, can achieve major feats and is leadership material.  But s/he could be rigid and vengeful if metal is too strong.  In contrary, one with weak or missing metal element will be lacking authority, indecisive and worrying too much.

In conclusion, a weak or missing element in a chart can release critical social, familial and personality data of the daymaster or chart-owner.  This info is very useful for looking for friendship, dating and business partners.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please take the following course:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Predicting when your marriage partner will show up

Will you meet Mr. or Mrs. Right in 2023, 2024 or .......?  The method below shows which year you may have the highest probability of getting married.

First, check the Appendix below to find out your birthday element or daymaster (DM).  Then check the following.

In Bazi, wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) stands for wife and wealth for male.   When annual luck brings a wealth star, a male is likely getting married.  

If you are a male, and your birthday element is:

1. Jia or yi-wood days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)
2. Bing or ding-fire days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 0 or 1 (like 2030, 2031) 
3. Wu or ji-earth days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 2 or 3 (like 2022, 2023) 
4. Geng or xin-metal days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 4 or 5 (like 2024, 2025)
5. Ren or gui-water days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 6 or 7 (like 2026, 2027)

In Bazi, power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) stands for husband for female.   When annual luck brings a power star, a female is likely getting married.  

If you are a female, and your birthday element is:

1. Jia or yi-wood days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 0 or 1 (like 2030, 2031) 
2. Bing or ding-fire days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 2 or 3 (like 2022, 2023) 
3. Wu or ji-earth days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)
4. Geng or xin-metal days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 6 or 7 (like 2026, 2027)
5. Ren or gui-water days, you are likely to get married in years with last digit of 8 or 9 (like 2028, 2029)

If you want to know more about Bazi or if your potential partner will be faithful or not, the following course gives you the most for your money:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

Ken Lai

© 2023 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

APPENDIX: FIND A PERSON'S DAY-PILLAR AND DAYMASTER

1.  Log in to www.bazi-calculator.com

2.  In the right-side of the screen panel box, select "Ken Lai Method".  No need to bother with anything else.3.  Key in the guy's birthday and hour in the left side of the screen.  Ignore the right side screen for "date to compare".
4.  Click the "calculate" box to get results.
5.  Scroll down the screen and see his Bazi chart in the left side with a table similar to the one here.
6.  The first box of second column (the one with "day master" in it) shows the elemental nature of his daymaster  (example here is geng-metal in grey color).  Below are the colors of 5 elements:

• Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color 

• Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color

• Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color

• Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color 

• Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color 

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Should you do "older woman and younger man romance"? 姐弟恋

 

"Jiě dì liàn" ("elder sister romance with a younger man") is the Chinese term for relationship between a man with an older woman.  In America, this is called "cougar" dating younger man who are 6- 20 years younger.  This type of romance is common among career women who have "missed" the prime time for relationship with the same age cohort due to putting priority on career over romance.

If you are one of these "older women" and want to try your romance luck with younger males, this article will help you find the "better" guy for success.  

The info below is also good for men under 30 years old if they want to check their suitability of dating an older women.

This is done by checking the birth chart of the man who the older woman dates.  Check his Bazi chart for the following characteristics: 

Note:  Go to the Appendix below to learn how to find the "daymaster" and "day-pillar" if you have no idea.

MALE CHART CHARACTERISTICS FOR ROMANCE WITH OLDER WOMAN

#1 ranked characteristic:  Daymaster sitting on -power star (qi-sha)

Daymaster or DM means the birth chart owner which is the day-stem of the day-pillar in a chart.  Where DM sits on is called "spouse palace" which reflects type of spouse the person will meet.  Power star is authority figure in Bazi.  -Power star (qi-sha) is like a dictator or a strict boss.  A male with -power star sitting in spouse palace needs a tough boss to manage him.  A mature and older woman is perfect to provide guidance for him.  The day-pillars below have -power star sitting in spouse palace:

-Power day-pillars:  Jia-shen, Wu-yin, Ji-mao, Ren-xu, Gui-wei, Ren-chen and Gui-chou

#2 ranked characteristic:  Daymaster sitting on +power star (zheng-guan)

+ Power star is also an authority figure.  Whereas -power star (qi-sha) is like a dictator or a strict boss, +power is like like a parent or teacher with good intentions and rule with softer approaches and good intentions.  A male with +power star sitting in spouse palace needs a gentle parent to guide him.  An older or sisterly woman is perfect for him.  The day-pillars below have +power star sitting in spouse palace:

+Power day-pillars:  Bing-zi, Ding-hai, Geng-wu and Xin-si

#3 ranked characteristic:  Daymaster sitting on +resource star (zheng-yin)

+ Resource star is a nurturing or motherly figure or older woman.  Man born in +resource day tends to be shy, kind and dependent.  Hence a mature and older woman or motherly figure would fit him well.  The day-pillars below have +resource star sitting in spouse palace:

+Resource day-pillars:   Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Wu-wu and Ji-si

#4 ranked characteristic:  Daymaster sitting on -resource star (pian-yin)

- Resource star is also a nurturing or motherly figure.  Man born in -resource day tends to be cold, introvert with poor social skills.  Hence a mature and sociable woman or motherly figure would help him integrate with society better.  The day-pillars below have -resource star sitting in spouse palace:

-Resource day-pillars:   Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-wei, Xin-chou, Ren-shen and Gui-you.

If you want to know more about Bazi or if your potential partner will be faithful or not, the following course gives you the most for your money:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

If you have problem with the Bazi terms in this blog, please check:

Ken's Cyber Cave: 4P/ Bazi Terminology Conventions (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

Ken Lai

© 2023 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

APPENDIX: FIND A PERSON'S DAY-PILLAR AND DAYMASTER

1.  Log in to www.bazi-calculator.com

2.  In the right-side of the screen panel box, select "Ken Lai Method".  No need to bother with anything else.3.  Key in the guy's birthday and hour in the left side of the screen.  Ignore the right side screen for "date to compare".
4.  Click the "calculate" box to get results.
5.  Scroll down the screen and see his Bazi chart in the left side with a table similar to the one here.
6.  The first box of second column (the one with "day master" in it) shows the elemental nature of his daymaster  (example here is geng-metal in grey color).  Below are the colors of 5 elements:

• Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color (power star is Fire and resource is Earth Wood)

• Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color (power star is Metal and resource is Water)

• Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color (power star is Earth and resource is Metal)

• Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color (power star is Water and resource is Wood)

• Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color (power star is Wood and resource is Fire)

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”  w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Ken's List of Wife-Jinxing Bazi 命理克妻断

Ladies! Today is your lucky day!  Before you dive into a relationship or marriage, check the following list to make sure your potential lover does not jinx you to death.

Check the birthday Bazi chart of your potential mate to see if his chart hits one or more of the followings: 

1. Natal chart and 10-year-lucks have no wealth star:  this is likely the destiny of a monk or a man with no wife.
2. Chart has "pure yin" or "pure-yang" pillars likely jinxes wife.
3. Wife star (wealth or "cai" star) is in void:  wife is prone to premature death or this man remains single throughout his life.
4. Wife star is clashed or combined away:  is prone to physical or death separation with wife.
5. Strong male daymaster has a wife star not sitting in spouse palace, is clashed:  is prone to jinxing wife.
6. Weak male daymaster with both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai):  he is likely a disloyal husband with lots of material and sexual desire.
7. Chart with both wealth and power star in void:  this man is likely jinxing wife during his middle age.
8. Chart with multiple storage elements (chen, xu, chou and wei):  is prone to jinxing wife.
9. Chart has weak wife star with strong and multiple + and -peer (jie-cai/ bi-jian) stars:  is prone to jinxing wife.
10. Chart with yang-knife (jie-cai) star sitting in spouse palace (day-branch) and combines with another branch:  wife is chronically sick.
11. Spouse palace does not have a yang-knife but combines with a yang-knife in another branch:  wife is chronically sick.
12. Chart has  -power (qi-sha) with -resource (pian-yin) and yang-knife (jie-cai) stars:  this man is likely jinxing wife during his middle age.
13. Chart with wife star (wealth or "cai") entombed:  wife is incapable or lacking luck or died prematurely.
14. Chart with year and hour pillar exchanging void branch (i.e., each has the void branch of the other pillar):  is prone to jinxing wife or no wife.
15. Chart with hour and day pillar exchanging void branch:  is prone to jinxing wife or no wife.

 The more a chart hits the above list, the higher the "wife jinxing power".

"Jinxing" here does not mean this man jinxing his wife to death but it is the destiny of this woman.  It is not his fault.  His qi or energy field tends to attract partner who is destined for a less fortunate life.

"Ken, is there any remedy for the above?"

There may be some methods to handle this problem.  Please check my upcoming course:

"Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Visual Bazi and Feng Shui".

If you are one of the "positive thinking" people, you may capitalize this "spouse jinxing power" through purchasing spousal life insurance.  This is like turning lemon into lemonade.  But whether you can keep this less than fortunate money is another question.  The answer may be found in:

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
© 2022 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2022 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2022″ w/ 18 hr. video 

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Ken's List of Husband-Jinxing Bazi 命理克夫断

Gentlemen! Today is your lucky day!  Originally, I want to share this life-saving list with my own students only. This article may save your life.  Before you dive into a relationship or marriage, check the following list to make sure your potential lover does not jinx you to death.

Check the birthday Bazi chart of your potential mate to see if her chart hits one or more of the followings: 

1. Chart with numerous strong -output stars (shi-shen), including at least one in stem level:  husband may be chronically sick or jinxing husband and remarry.
2. Chart with numerous strong +output stars (shang-guan) including at least one in stem level:  husband may be chronically sick or jinxing husband and remarry.
3. Chart with numerous strong + and -output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) including at least one in stem level: husband may be chronically sick or jinxing husband and remarry.
4. Chart has "pure yin" or "pure-yang" pillars likely jinxes husband
5. Husband star (power or "guan" star) is in void:  husband is prone to premature death or this woman remains single throughout her life.
6. Chart with strong and multiple +power (husband or zheng-guan) stars:  is prone to jinxing husband
7. Chart with strong and multiple + and -peer (jie-cai/ bi-jian) stars:  is prone to jinxing husband
8. Chart with strong and multiple yang-knives (jie-cai) stars:  is prone to jinxing husband
9. Chart with strong and multiple -resource (pian-yin):  is prone to jinxing husband
10. Chart has weak +power (zheng-guan) star with -resource (pian-yin), -output (shi-shen) and +output (shang-guan) stars:  is prone to jinxing husband to premature death.
11. Chart with husband star (power or "guan") entombed:  husband is incapable or lacking luck or died prematurely.
12. Chart has identical year and day pillar (fu-yin) with spouse palace (day-branch) clashed: is prone to jinxing husband and remarry.
13. Chart has identical month and day pillar (fu-yin) with spouse palace (day-branch) clashed: is prone to jinxing husband and remarry.
14. Chart has identical hour and day pillar (fu-yin) with spouse palace (day-branch) clashed: is prone to jinxing husband and remarry.
15. Chart with year and day pillar exchanging void branch (i.e., each has the void branch of the other pillar):  is prone to jinxing husband or no husband.
16. Chart with month and day pillar exchanging void branch:  is prone to jinxing husband or no husband.

#2, followed by #3 and then #1 probably has the strongest jinxing effects (not an ideal mate even if no jinxing because this woman likely has "princess sickness" temperament).   The rest of the list makes weak, incapable or sick if not a dead husband.  The more a chart hits the above list, the higher the "jinxing power".

"Jinxing" here does not mean this woman jinxing her husband to death but it is the destiny of this man.  It is not her fault.  Her qi or energy field tends to attract partner who is destined for a less fortunate life.

"Ken, is there any remedy for the above?"

There may be some methods to handle this problem.  Please check my upcoming course:

"Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Visual Bazi and Feng Shui".

As an equal-opportunity discriminator, I will have a wife-jinxing list next time.

Ken Lai
© 2022 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2022 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2022″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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Peach-blossom is not just for romance and sex

Today is your lucky day!  You will find rare meanings of peach-blossom other than romance and relationship in this blog. 

How do you figure out if you have peach-blossom star in your birth or Bazi chart?  Here is the formula for the peach-blossom star:

Birth year in:

• hai-mao-wei (pig-rabbit-ram):  peach-blossom element is zi-rat
• si-you-chou (snake-rooster-ox):  peach-blossom element is wu-horse
• yin-wu-xu (tiger-horse-dog) peach-blossom element is mao-rabbit
• shen-zi-chen  (monkey-rat-dragon) year:  peach-blossom element is you-rooster

For example, if you were born in the year of dragon or rat or monkey, and there is a you-rooster branch in your natal chart, you have a peach-blossom star.

MEANINGS OF PEACH-BLOSSOM STAR

1. 
   Romance, love, marriage, sex, relationship, opposite sex attraction and temptation.
2. Good communication, social/ networking skills, and good interpersonal relationships  
3. Attractive physical appearance like body shape and facial features.
4. Chart with +/ - resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) that is also peach-blossom star means this person has good living conditions and housing.
5. Chart with resource star or wealth star that is also peach-blossom star and combines with travelling horse star, means this person has good or expensive travelling means like expensive cars or jets.  (Note:  travelling stars are:  yin-tiger, shen-monkey, si-snake and hai-pig).

Now you know peach-blossom is not just for romance. It is also good for internet KOL, popularity, entertainer and are symbols for good life.  If you want to know more about Bazi, the following course gives you the most for your money:

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2022 w/23 hr. HD video
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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2022″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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Identify unfaithful males from their birthday charts 花心男人

Hi sisters!  Today is your lucky day to find out if your male pals have unfaithful potential using Bazi astrology.

Below factors contribute to the "unfaithfulness" of a male:

1.  Strong metal and water elements in a male chart:  Water stands for IQ, cunningness, desire and also promiscuity in Bazi.  Metal will further strengthen water or his desire.

2.  Strong output (shang-guan/ shi-shen) stars in birth chart:  Output elements also represent desire.  Shang-guan also stands for the sex organ.  Strong output elements in chart means this guy has strong drive to fulfil his desires.

3.  Chart has -wealth (pian-cai) or mixing of + or -wealth stars:  +wealth star (zheng-cai) stands for wife and -wealth mistress if the chart is above average (prostitutes or one-night stand if below average chart).

4.  Chart has symbolic stars like peach-blossom, affair sha and bath:  while these stars help interactions with the opposite sex, they do not necessarily represent promiscuity unless strong output stars also present in the chart.

If a man has two plus of the above, you may want to think twice before going steady with him.

"Ken, does the above also applicable to unfaithful females?"

Yes, except #3 needs to switch to "-power (qi-sha) or mixing of + (zheng-guan) and -power stars" because power stars stand for husband and lover for females.

If you want to know more about Bazi, the following course gives you the most for your money:

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Ken Lai
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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2022 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
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When will one get married? 婚缘何时到

When your Bazi chart runs into any one or more of the following scenarios, one will have a high probability of getting hitched or married:

1. When annual luck clashing your spouse palace (day-branch)
2. When annual luck combining with your spouse palace (day-branch)
3. When annual luck combining two of your chart branches to form 3-unities combination (San-he)
4. When annual luck stem combining with your day stem
5. When annual luck bringing a wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) for male or a power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) for female
6. When annual luck is your "peach-blossom" star  (you for shen, zi and chen day/ year branch;  wu for si, you and chou day/ year;  mao for yin, wu and xu day/ year; zi for hai, mao and wei)

While any one of the above could get you married, but for people with "difficult to marry" Bazi charts may need to fulfill two or more of the above conditions to get into the marriage chapel.

"Ken, what should I do if I have already married?"

You better reserve a high power divorce attorney OR be a good little boy/ girl and avoid interactions with opposite sex for the year.

If #1 to 5 of the above showing up in your spouse's chart--- you better keep an eye on his/ her whereabouts and activities during that luck period.

If you want to know the logic behind the above conditions, please take this:

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If you want to know if you will marry a rich husband or wife, please take this:

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Ken Lai

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2021″ w/ 18 hr. video 

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