Bazi of people with problems getting married 剩男剩女的八字

In 2018, I have written about "Secrets of Bachelor and Spinster Feng Shui".

Ken's Cyber Cave: Secrets of Bachelor and Spinster Feng Shui (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

Today I discuss Bazi factors leading to problem getting married for both men and women.

1.  Birth chart has no peach-blossom element (桃花):  Zi, wu, mao and you are the four peach-blossom (PB) stars for romance and social networking.  Missing this PB star means the person is not romantic or socially inactive.

2.  Weak or no wealth star for male and power star for female:  Wealth star is wife for male and power star husband for female in Bazi.  When this star is weak or clashed, spouse is hard to come by.

3.  Wealth star for male and power star for female is entombed:  Wealth or power star entombed means spouse is put in storage and not accessible.

4.  Strong peer stars for male:  Peer stars jinx or "steal" wealth star (wife).  Friends of the man "steal" or snatches his wife away.

5.   Strong output stars for female:  Output stars jinx power star (husband).  The woman is too picky or demanding and scaring potential husband away.

6.  Power or wealth star in void:  Void means spouse is not there.

Consult a Bazi reader or take the following course for remedies:

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If you have problem with the Bazi terms in this blog, please check:

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
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“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
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Could getting married change your luck? 结婚转运?

"Change luck" here means someone has less than average or low luck before marrying.  His/ her luck changes significantly after getting married.

In general, people who have low or below average luck during their teen and early adult life have strong unfavorable elements in the year and month pillar of their Bazi charts.  This is because year and month pillar represent these age periods and also family background.

In addition, more than likely, their first two or three10-years-luck periods are mostly unfavorable too. 

People who will get better luck after getting married IF their Bazi charts have the following features:

1.  Spouse star is favorable in the chart:  For male, the spouse star is wealth star (zheng-cai) and female is power star (zheng-guan).
2.  Spouse palace (day-branch) is favorable:  This means the element occupying spouse palace is favorable to the chart.

Of course, there are people with their luck changed for the better after marrying but does not have the above two features in their charts.  This is likely due to their 10-years-luck is favorable at time of marriage and is NOT attributed to the act of marrying.

Smart readers would figure out that the opposites of #1 and 2 in a chart mean worse (not better) luck after getting married!

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“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
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“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS” w/ 3 hr. HD
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Bazi: How to check homosexual tendency 同性恋

In Bazi, we check the following to see if someone has homosexual or gay tendency:

1.  Peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) are strong and favorable in natal chart-- Peer stars stand for siblings, colleagues, and peer groups.  When peer stars are favorable in a chart, it means DM likes people with the same gender or s/he is like by the same sex.  DM may show homosexual or bisexual tendency.

2.  Day-branch is a peer star (bi-jian or jie-cai) with strong and favorable peer stars-- Day-branch is the spouse palace of a Bazi chart.  If it is occupied by a same gender peer star and also favorable, it implies DM has a stronger liking in same sex partner or bisexual.  Here are day-branches with peer star:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-chen, Wu-xu, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi, and Gui-hai. 

3.  Absence of wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) for male and power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) for female--  Wealth star is the wife for a male DM and power star is husband for a female DM.  When this spouse star is absent in a chart, it means lover does not show up in DM's life  or no karma for a heterosexual relationship or problem getting an opposite sex spouse.  This may create a homosexual or bisexual tendency.

4.  Charts with strong combinations with spouse star absent or unfavorable-- DM of these charts has strong urge to congregate (due to combinations) or sex drive but dislike opposite sex.

I have some gay friends and students.  They are just like ordinary people except with different sexual preference.  For me, it is actually easier to figure out if one is gay or not by looking at the energy emitted by his/ her eyes.

Ken Lai

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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