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Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Predicting your years with better romance or marriage luck 八字看情人姻缘

How do you find out which year that you may have better romance or marriage luck?

You can find the clues in your Bazi birth chart. If you do not know your own "daymaster" element, please go to www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birthday and find your "daymaster" in the top row of the day column.

In Bazi, annual luck (means current year) shows the possible events that might happen to a person. The year stem reflects what can be seen by the public. Hence if the year stem is the element representing wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai, wife/ lover for male) or power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha, husband/ lover for female), it means the likelihood of lover or marriage partner showing up in that year.

You don't need to know what is "year stem" as long as you can read the last digit of each year like the "5" in 2025-- simply read the tables below to find your years of better love luck.

The tables below summarize the exact year that lover or marriage partner is more likely to show up. For example, a Jia-wood male daymaster (person), will likely run into romance (if single) or affair (if married) when a year with last digit 0 (Geng-metal year, e.g., 2030). The same person may get married in a Xin-metal year (e.g., 2031) if he is single. Similar logic is applied for female daymasters too.

YEARS WITH BETTER LOVER AND MARRIAGE LUCK TABLE

SUPER BONUS: This is another BOGO article. You may use the year reference of these tables to keep an eye on your spouse or lover during his or her "love luck" years, followed by wife or husband luck years. For example, if your girl friend or wife is a Geng-metal person, you pay extra attention to her activities during Bing-fire (e.g. 2026) and Ding-fire years (2027). Bing-fire year is more "dangerous". If your boy friend or husband is a Geng-person, it would be years with the last digit 4 or 5.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

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Monday, June 2, 2025

In search of your wealth god

In general, if wealth star is your favorable element in your birth chart, your "wealth gods" are people represented by these wealth stars. They will help or bring wealth luck and fortune to you. Even better if wealth star combines with daymaster (DM, chart owner).

But if wealth star is weak and clashed or damaged, it means your wealth luck is damaged or obstructed.

The info below shows you how to deduce who is your "wealth god" from your Bazi birth chart.

WHO BRINGS YOU WEALTH LUCK

1. Wealth star is favorable and sitting on year pillar, senior generation brings you wealth. This also means DM was born in a relatively well-off family.

Wealth star sits on year stem represents grandfather or DM's father generation is rich. The stronger the wealth star, the richer is this generation. If year stem combines with day stem with no clash, DM will get the wealth of senior generation.
Wealth star sits on year branch represents grandmother or DM's mother generation is rich. The stronger the wealth star, the richer is this generation. If year branch combines with day branch with no clash, harm or penalty, DM will get the wealth of senior generation.

2. Wealth star is favorable and sitting on month pillar, parental generation or siblings bring you wealth. This also means DM's parents are rich and helpful to DM.

Month pillar also stands for "sibling palace". When wealth star sits on month pillar and is favorable, it could mean DM's siblings or peers are rich and are helpful to DM for wealth attainment.

3. Wealth star is favorable and sitting on day branch, spouse will bring DM wealth. Day branch is the "spouse palace". If DM sits on a favorable wealth star with no clash or penalty, DM could marry a rich spouse or spouse will bring DM good wealth luck.

It would be better DM sits on +wealth star (zheng-cai). There is possibilities of competition in terms of affair or mistress/lover if DM sits on -wealth (pian-cai).

4. Wealth star is favorable and sitting on hour pillar, sons and daughters will bring DM wealth. Hour pillar is the "children palace". If DM sits on a favorable wealth star with no clash or penalty, it means DM's children are rich, capable and helpful to DM.

Hour pillar also represents DM's old age period. Favorable wealth star also means DM is well-off during his/her later years or is rich due to children's contributions.

5. When wealth star is favorable or unfavorable. The stars which nurture or protect wealth star are also "wealth enhancers" for DM when wealth star is favorable. Output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) nurture wealth stars. Power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) protect wealth star. People represented by these stars also help bringing wealth to DM though the effects are not as strong as wealth stars.

When wealth stars are favorable, DM is likely a strong DM. But for weak DM, wealth stars are likely unfavorable. Who will bring wealth to weak DM then? The answer will be posted in my "Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization" discussion group. However, you could easily figure out the answer by reading the previous paragraph.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Monday, May 26, 2025

Find out your husband's innate feeling about you without asking

Your husband may not tell you how relevant or important of your presence to him. But you can find out this innate feeling by checking his birth chart with Bazi astrology.

In Bazi, wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) represent wife, mistress and girl friends for male. Naturally, these are the critical info to examine in your husband's chart. There are 3 major aspects to check:

Is there any +wealth star (zheng-cai) in the natal chart?
The strength (how strong or weak) of the wealth star.
The distance between the day stem (daymaster, DM) and wealth star.

WIFE RELEVANCE RATING BASED ON HUSBAND BIRTH CHART

1. DM sits on +wealth star (zheng-cai); +wealth is strong ; only +wealth star/s are present in the chart: "DM" is the daymaster or owner of the chart. This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace. Wife has the highest relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. He pays close attention to wife, loves her dearly and tries to fulfill any request that wife asks.

2. DM sits on -wealth star (pian-cai); -wealth is strong ; only -wealth star/s are present in the chart: This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace. Wife still has the high relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. But -wealth is same gender to DM and not yin-yang balanced. So some minor confrontations or verbal fights occur occasionally.

3. Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart; +wealth is strong and close to DM ; -wealth star is weak and far away from DM: Wife still has significant relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. In reality, husband is prone to affairs, but he is concerned with wife's feeling and will keep his affairs hidden. In short, despite his infidelity, he loves wife more than the mistress.

4. Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart; -wealth is strong and close to DM ; +wealth star is weak and far away from DM: Wife has low relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations. In short, he loves mistress more than the wife.

5. Chart has no wealth star: Wife has insignificant relevance from the perspective of husband. He may not care about the feeling and needs of his wife at all.

There are some simple methods to improve this "wife relevance" in my "Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui" discussion group.

This is a BOGO (buy one get one free) and tariff free article. To get your free article on "husband relevance", simple substitute "husband chart" to "wife chart" and "+/- wealth stars" to "+/- power star" in this article.

Ken Lai

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Monday, May 5, 2025

Meaning of "travelling horse" in Bazi 驿马星

"Travelling horse" is a symbolic star employed extensively in Chinese metaphysics systems like Bazi, QMDJ, date-selection and the likes. Generally speaking, it means action, movement, acceleration, travelling, leaving town and etc..

TRAVELLING HORSE STAR CALCUATION

Birth year or day branch has shen, zi or chen, travelling horse is yin.
Birth year or day branch has yin, wu or xu, travelling horse is shen.
Birth year or day branch has hai, mao or wei, travelling horse is si.
Birth year or day branch has si, you or chou, travelling horse is hai.

For example, if you were born in the year of monkey (shen) and your chart has a yin branch or luck period brings a yin, you have a travelling horse. If your day branch has a mao, and your chart has a si branch or luck period brings a si, you have a travelling horse.

To check if you have travelling horse star, you can generate your birth chart at www.bazi-calculator.com by keying in your birth day and hour.

MEANINGS OF TRAVELLING HORSE STAR

Travelling horse represents:

movements, long trip, travelling far away
studying overseas
buying properties/ real estate, moving, settling down
owning cars and good travelling means
promotion, career change, changing job position
married couple or partners live separately in two different regions or the couple is from different regions
wealth, sudden windfall, unexpected wealth
Yin, shen, si and hai are the four travelling stars. If a person has 2+ of these 4 stars in his/her natal chart, s/he cannot sit still and could be a good salesperson.

If you want to know more about Bazi and wealth topics, please check the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

Thursday, April 24, 2025

Bazi: Family Member Jinxing Bible 克六亲八字

This is another straight talk to find out if one jinxes his/ her family member-- father, mother, sibling, wife or children. "Jinxing" here means a person's qi or energy is antagonistic or does not get along with the energy of a certain family member.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FAMILY MEMBER JINXING

1. Jinxing father 克父: Regardless of gender, chart with strong daymaster (DM) due to strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when -wealth star (pian-cai, father) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes father.

2. Jinxing mother 克母: Regardless of gender, chart with strong wealth stars (zheng-cai, pian-cai), especially when +resource star ( zheng-yin, mother, use pian-yin if no zheng-yin available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes mother.

3. Jinxing wife 克妻: Male chart with strong peer stars (bi-jian, jie-cai), especially when +wealth star (zheng-cai, wife) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes wife.

4. Jinxing husband 克夫: Female chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, husband; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes husband.

5. Male jinxing offspring 男克子女: Male chart with strong output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan), especially when +power star (zheng-guan, children for male DM; use qi-sha if no zheng-guan available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his children.

6. Female jinxing offspring 女克子女: Female chart with strong resource stars (zheng-yin, pian-yin), especially when -output star ( shi-shen, children for female DM; use shang-guan if no shi-shen available) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes her children.

7. Jinxing sibling 克手足: Regardless of gender, chart with strong +power stars (zheng-guan, qi-sha), especially when peer star (bi-jian, jie-cai) is being penalized or clashed or controlled without any nurturing-- DM jinxes his/ her sibling.

This "jinxing" may be manifested in poor communication/ relationship, low luck, chronic illness and even death to that family member if the jinx is serious.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

Friday, March 28, 2025

How to check spouse quality from Bazi birth chart 八字看配偶吉凶

Below is a no BS and straight-talk list of how to check the marital quality of one's spouse:

1. Month pillar of a female chart has stem shang-guan (+output) and branch qi-sha (-power)-- She will marry multiple times.

2. Female daymaster sits on shang-guan (+output), regardless of its favorability ("yong-shen"), She likely has marital problems and/or jinxing husband.

3. Male daymaster sits on peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai)-- He has marital problems.

4. Female with Jia-yin or Wu-shen day pillar-- Her husband may die of unexpected disaster.

5. Male daymaster sits on pian-cai (-wealth) is amorous. He loves mistress more than wife.

6. Male daymaster sits resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) hindering wife. Wife does not get along with his mother.

7. Female chart with both zheng-guan and qi-sha (power stars) in stem level-- This is called "guan-sha mixing up". She will have marital disharmony, likely marry twice or has lover.

8. Male chart with both zheng-cai and pian-cai (wealth stars) in stem level-- he will have marital disharmony, likely marry twice or has mistress.

9. Female chart has strong shang-guan (+output) stars but no wealth star-- She jinxes her husband or marry again.

10. When day branch (spouse palace) is clashed-- This implies marital disharmony and separation is likely.

11. When day branch (spouse palace) is combined-- This implies spouse has affair.

12. When a male chart day branch has a wealth star (zheng-cai/ piain-cai), regardless the strength of this daymaster, gets a good/ helpful wife. This is called "wife palace stationed by a wife 妻宫妻守"

13. When a female chart day branch has a wealth star (zheng-cai/ piain-cai) and is favorable ("yong-shen"), gets a helpful and capable husband.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Monday, March 10, 2025

Feng Shui Battle: Flying Scissors Vs. Big Cannon 大炮對飛剪

A house owner in China had found his neighbor putting up a pair of sharp scissors and mirror facing his front door. He had responded with a big cannon pointing at the neighbor.

From the pictures, we can guess how this Feng Shui battle is activated.

The "cannon house" has a big 6 panels RED door with 2 lions guarding. In terms of Form Feng Shui, this red door looks like a giant bloody mouth engulfing anything in its path to this neighbor. This might, at the least, subconsciously affects the hormonal health of the neighbor.

Red color is regarded as auspicious in Chinese culture. However, putting too much or excessive red color in the main door of a house could draw misfortune to its residents.

Red also represents fire and blood. Misfortunes like sickness, fire and bloody events when annual star like 2-sickness, 5-disaster or 9-purple fire lands on the door region.

Could the flying scissors with mirror overcome this strong fire energy? Of course not. Fire burns the metal scissors. The mirror is flat which draws the fire image (and energy) TO the "scissor house". Hence the "cannon house" does not really need the cannon to counter this flying scissors. But it helps to drain excessive fire energy by "burning" the metal cannon.

My "Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui" course has a chapter on Feng Shui battle. It can help you to handle Feng Shui battle like this one using inexpensive and low profile everyday items. In this case, we can help the "scissors house" to turn the hostile fire energy into supporting energy without using hostile or noticeable remedies (3 possible fixes are posted in the "Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui Discussion Group").

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

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Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Predicting your years with better romance or marriage luck 八字看情人姻缘

Monday, June 2, 2025

In search of your wealth god

Monday, May 26, 2025

Find out your husband's innate feeling about you without asking

Monday, May 5, 2025

Meaning of "travelling horse" in Bazi 驿马星

Thursday, April 24, 2025

Bazi: Family Member Jinxing Bible 克六亲八字

Friday, March 28, 2025

How to check spouse quality from Bazi birth chart 八字看配偶吉凶

Monday, March 10, 2025

Feng Shui Battle: Flying Scissors Vs. Big Cannon 大炮對飛剪

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