Find out your husband's innate feeling about you without asking

Your husband may not tell you how relevant or important of your presence to him.  But you can find out this innate feeling by checking his birth chart with Bazi astrology.

In Bazi, wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) represent wife, mistress and girl friends for male.  Naturally, these are the critical info to examine in your husband's chart.  There are 3 major aspects to check:

1. Is there any +wealth star (zheng-cai) in the natal chart?
2. The strength (how strong or weak) of the wealth star.
3. The distance between the day stem (daymaster, DM) and wealth star.

WIFE RELEVANCE RATING BASED ON HUSBAND BIRTH CHART

1.  DM sits on +wealth star (zheng-cai);  +wealth is strong ; only +wealth star/s are present in the chart:  "DM" is the daymaster or owner of the chart.  This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace.  Wife has the highest relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  He pays close attention to wife, loves her dearly and tries to fulfill any request that wife asks.  

2.  DM sits on -wealth star (pian-cai);  -wealth is strong ; only -wealth star/s are present in the chart:  This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace. Wife still has the high relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  But -wealth is same gender to DM and not yin-yang balanced.  So some minor confrontations or verbal fights occur occasionally.

3.  Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart;  +wealth is strong and close to DM ;  -wealth star is weak and far away from DM:  Wife still has significant relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  In reality, husband is prone to affairs,  but he is concerned with wife's feeling and will keep his affairs hidden.  In short, despite his infidelity, he loves wife more than the mistress.

4.  Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart;  -wealth is strong and close to DM ;  +wealth star is weak and far away from DM:  Wife has low relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  In short, he loves mistress more than the wife.

5.  Chart has no wealth star:  Wife has insignificant relevance from the perspective of husband.  He may not care about the feeling and needs of his wife at all.   

There are some simple methods to improve this "wife relevance" in my "Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui" discussion group.

This is a BOGO (buy one get one free) and tariff free article.  To get your free article on "husband relevance", simple substitute "husband chart" to "wife chart" and "+/- wealth stars" to "+/- power star" in this article.

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Marriage timing: Early or Late? 看早婚晚婚

In the marital context of Bazi, wealth stars represent wife or mistress for male; power stars stand for husband or lover for female.

The enemy of wealth star is peer star because peer star "snatches" or steals wealth star in Bazi.

The enemy of power star is output star because output star "hurts" power star.

The above brief introduction may help you to understand the marriage timing summary below.

"Early marriage" means getting married before the age of 25.

"Late marriage" refers to marriage after age 30.

If you do not understand my version of Bazi terminology, please read the following article:

Ken's Cyber Cave: 4P/ Bazi Terminology Conventions (kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com)

MARRIAGE TIMING:  EARLY VS. LATE

1.  Natal chart stem level has "jealous combination", chart owner (daymaster or DM) likely has early marriage ("Jealous combination" is when two identical stems or branches combine with ONE stem or  branch),

2.  Natal chart has 3-meetings (San-Hui 三会) or 3-unities (San-He 三合), DM has early marriage tendency.

3.  If the stem and branch of luck periods formed has 6-combinations 六合 or 3-unities with natal chart, DM will have higher probability of getting married during this 10-years-luck or annual luck period.

4.  Strong male DM with strong wealth stars (Zheng-cai/ Pian-cai) but no peer stars (Bi-jian/ Jie-cai) in stem level, when running into wealth luck period (10YL or annual luck)-- marriage time.

5.  Strong female DM with strong power stars but no output stars (Shi-shen/ Shang-guan) in stem level, when running into power luck period (Zheng-guan/ Qi-sha, 10YL or annual luck)-- marriage time.

6.  Male DM with numerous peer stars but no wealth star (or wealth star is weak or imprisoned) and his first two 10-year-lucks are peer luck, he is prone to late marriage.

7.  Female DM with numerous output stars but no power star (or power star is weak or imprisoned) and her first two 10-year-lucks are output luck, she is prone to late marriage.

8.  Male DM has excessive strong wealth stars but is not qualify for "follow wealth" profile chart, is likely to marry late.

9.  Female DM has excessive strong power stars but is not qualify for "follow power" profile chart, is likely to marry late.

If you want to learn more about family, love and relationship in Bazi, you may want to take the following video corresponding course:

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How to check promiscuous charts 好色

Bazi chart characteristics of people who are promiscuous:

1.  "Violating" peach-blossom star 犯桃花:   Zi, wu, mao and you are the four "peach-blossom" stars.  Peach-blossom star stands for romanticism, sentimental, sexual/ physical attraction and lust.  The following conditions are "violating peach-blossom":

• Day stem with shen or zi or chen  and with you in another branch 
• Day stem with hai or mao or wei and with zi in another branch
• Day stem with yin or wu or xu and with mao in another branch
• Day stem with si or you or chou and with wu in another branch

Chart with more than one peach-blossom stars (zi, wu, mao and you) is very sociable and attractive to opposite sex.

2.  Chart is too dry or too wet:  When a chart is too dry, the chart looks for water.  Water represents sex in Bazi.  When a chart is too wet implies it has too much water and wet earth.  Strong water means chart owner has strong kidneys and hence sex drive.

3.  Chart has many combinations:  Branch combinations like 3-meetings, 3-unities and 6-combinations, whether within the natal chart and/ or with luck period, means this person is very sociable and prone to affairs.  Same logic for stem combinations.

4.  Chart has mixing of zheng-cai and pian-cai (+/- wealth stars) for males:  Zheng-cai stands for wife and pian-cai mistress for males.  Chart with mixing of these two stars implies this male is likely to have extra-marital affairs if married and multiple sex partners if single.

5.  Chart has mixing of zheng-guan and qi-sha (+/- power stars) for females:  Zheng-guan stands for husband and qi-sha lover for females.  Chart with mixing of these two stars implies this female is likely have extra-marital affairs if married and multiple sex partners if single.

6.  Chart has numerous (2+) shi-shen and shang-guan (+/- output stars):  Shi-shen and shang-guan are the "output" (excretions) of the person.  Chart with strong output stars means chart owner is more self-directed and lacking self-control.  Output stars also represent sex organ and sexuality.

You do not need to freak out if your partner meets one or two of the above conditions.  If s/he meets 3 or more conditions, you probably should keep an eye on him/her or find a "backup" partner.

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Good days to marry in 2020 結婚黃道吉日

The table below shows the auspicious days to get married in 2020 based on traditional Chinese calendar converted to western dates.

HOW TO USE THIS CALENDAR:
1.  Choose a date.
2.  Make sure the date chosen does not clash the Chinese birth animal sign of the couple.  If it clashes the parent/s of the couple, the remedy is to make sure the parent/s do not enter the church/ ceremonial place with the couple (enter later).
Here are the clashing animal pairs: ram/ ox, rat/ horse, rabbit/ rooster, tiger/ monkey, snake/ pig and dragon/ dog. 
3.  "Sha location" or direction is the negative energy location of the day.  The couple does not drive or walk towards that direction in that day.

AUSPICIOUS MARRIAGE DATES IN 2020

DATE	Week day	Clash/ Sha location
2020/01/03	Friday	Pig/east
2020/01/08	Wednesday	Dragon/ north
2020/01/13	Monday	Rooster/ west
2020/01/14	Tuesday	Dog/ south
2020/01/16	Thursday	Rat/ north
2020/01/25	Saturday	Rooster/ west
2020/01/27	Monday	Pig/east
2020/01/28	Tuesday	Rat/ north
2020/01/30	Thursday	Tiger/ south
2020/02/01	Saturday	Dragon/ north
2020/02/02	Sunday	Snake/ west
2020/02/09	Sunday	Rat/ north
2020/02/10	Monday	Ox/ west
2020/02/12	Wednesday	Rabbit/ east
2020/02/15	Saturday	Horse/ south
2020/02/18	Tuesday	Rooster/ west
2020/02/22	Saturday	Ox/ west
2020/02/24	Monday	Rabbit/ east
2020/03/01	Sunday	Rooster/ west
2020/03/02	Monday	Dog/ south
2020/03/05	Thursday	Ox/ west
2020/03/08	Sunday	Dragon/ north
2020/03/10	Tuesday	Horse/ south
2020/03/13	Friday	Rooster/ west
2020/03/16	Monday	Rat/ north
2020/03/17	Tuesday	Ox/ west
2020/03/23	Monday	Ram/ east
2020/03/29	Sunday	Ox/ west
2020/04/01	Wednesday	Dragon/ north
2020/04/03	Friday	Horse/ south
2020/04/05	Sunday	Monkey/ north
2020/04/09	Thursday	Rat/ north
2020/04/17	Friday	Monkey/ north
2020/04/19	Sunday	Dog/ south
2020/04/24	Friday	Rabbit/ east
2020/04/29	Wednesday	Monkey/ north
2020/04/30	Thursday	Rooster/ west
2020/05/03	Sunday	Rat/ north
2020/05/07	Thursday	Dragon/ north
2020/05/12	Tuesday	Rooster/ west
2020/05/15	Friday	Rat/ north
2020/05/17	Sunday	Tiger/ south
2020/05/18	Monday	Rabbit/ east
2020/05/19	Tuesday	Dragon/ north
2020/05/21	Thursday	Horse/ south
2020/05/23	Saturday	Monkey/ north
2020/05/25	Monday	Dog/ south
2020/05/27	Wednesday	Rat/ north
2020/05/30	Saturday	Rabbit/ east
2020/06/02	Tuesday	Horse/ south
2020/06/07	Sunday	Pig/east
2020/06/09	Tuesday	Ox/ west
2020/06/10	Wednesday	Tiger/ south
2020/06/11	Thursday	Rabbit/ east
2020/06/15	Monday	Ram/ east
2020/06/18	Thursday	Dog/ south
2020/06/22	Monday	Tiger/ south
2020/06/23	Tuesday	Rabbit/ east
2020/06/24	Wednesday	Dragon/ north
2020/06/27	Saturday	Ram/ east
2020/06/30	Tuesday	Dog/ south
2020/07/01	Wednesday	Pig/east
2020/07/03	Friday	Ox/ west
2020/07/10	Friday	Monkey/ north
2020/07/13	Monday	Pig/east
2020/07/16	Thursday	Tiger/ south
2020/07/17	Friday	Rabbit/ east
2020/07/18	Saturday	Dragon/ north
2020/07/22	Wednesday	Monkey/ north
2020/07/23	Thursday	Rooster/ west
2020/07/25	Saturday	Pig/east
2020/07/27	Monday	Ox/ west
2020/07/28	Tuesday	Tiger/ south
2020/07/29	Wednesday	Rabbit/ east
2020/07/30	Thursday	Dragon/ north
2020/08/03	Monday	Monkey/ north
2020/08/04	Tuesday	Rooster/ west
2020/08/07	Friday	Rat/ north
2020/08/08	Saturday	Ox/ west
2020/08/09	Sunday	Tiger/ south
2020/08/11	Tuesday	Dragon/ north
2020/08/13	Thursday	Horse/ south
2020/08/16	Sunday	Rooster/ west
2020/08/18	Tuesday	Pig/east
2020/08/19	Wednesday	Rat/ north
2020/08/20	Thursday	Ox/ west
2020/08/21	Friday	Tiger/ south
2020/08/25	Tuesday	Horse/ south
2020/08/28	Friday	Rooster/ west
2020/08/29	Saturday	Dog/ south
2020/08/31	Monday	Rat/ north
2020/09/01	Tuesday	Ox/ west
2020/09/07	Monday	Ram/ east
2020/09/11	Friday	Pig/east
2020/09/12	Saturday	Rat/ north
2020/09/14	Monday	Tiger/ south
2020/09/19	Saturday	Ram/ east
2020/09/22	Tuesday	Dog/ south
2020/09/24	Thursday	Rat/ north
2020/09/26	Saturday	Tiger/ south
2020/10/01	Thursday	Ram/ east
2020/10/04	Sunday	Dog/ south
2020/10/06	Tuesday	Rat/ north
2020/10/08	Thursday	Tiger/ south
2020/10/10	Saturday	Dragon/ north
2020/10/17	Saturday	Pig/east
2020/10/18	Sunday	Rat/ north
2020/10/20	Tuesday	Tiger/ south
2020/10/21	Wednesday	Rabbit/ east
2020/10/27	Tuesday	Rooster/ west
2020/10/30	Friday	Rat/ north
2020/11/03	Tuesday	Dragon/ north
2020/11/09	Monday	Dog/ south
2020/11/11	Wednesday	Rat/ north
2020/11/15	Sunday	Dragon/ north
2020/11/17	Tuesday	Horse/ south
2020/11/21	Saturday	Dog/ south
2020/11/29	Sunday	Horse/ south
2020/12/02	Wednesday	Rooster/ west
2020/12/05	Saturday	Rat/ north
2020/12/12	Saturday	Ram/ east
2020/12/16	Wednesday	Pig/east
2020/12/24	Thursday	Ram/ east
2020/12/28	Monday	Pig/east

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“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”2019 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
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