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Thursday, October 3, 2024

"Rough destiny" or "Meng ying" 命硬

In traditional Chinese society, there is a saying of "meng ying 命硬". It literally means as "hard or rough destiny".

For examples, after someone has married, his or her spouse died unexpectedly soon after OR a new baby was born and his parents soon suffered major misfortune or even death. Consequently, this person or baby lives a miserable and lonely life. People may comment the person or baby involved as "meng ying". This implicitly accuses the person and baby "jinxing" their close relatives and themselves.

Another scenario would be: you may find some old people survive through wars, famines, severe illness/ injuries and misfortune, their family members are mostly dead, yet they still are alive but alone and may be even in destitute. Due to improvement of social welfare in modern societies, a modern version would be the same old people survive alone in institutions when all or most of their family members have died.

A more colloquial use of "meng ying" is to describe someone who escapes major disaster like being the the lone survivor of an airplane crash or battalion during wartime.

Strictly speaking, there is no such thing as "meng ying" in Bazi. The closest concept to "meng ying" is "strong daymaster with no support 身旺无依". This means a chart has a very strong daymaster (DM) with no wealth and power stars to drain it (but failing to become a special profile chart). This chart type usually associated with monk/nun/ Daoist or clergy people in traditional society and poor/ destitute people in modern society

CHARACTERISTICS OF "ROUGH DESTINY" CHART

1. The daymaster has relatively indomitable survival ability or "unsinkable"-- hard to die. S/he suffers frequent setbacks and misfortunes, but s/he usually can overcome or escape from death in catastrophes.

2. It implies "jinx", especially "loneliness jinx", jinxing self, parents and family members. DM is also likely a loner in nature. The "loneliness" here refers to the lacking of family relationship because DM's family members are either dead or separated.

There are two types of "rough destiny":

a. Solitary rough destiny (孤独命硬): This is the "strong daymaster with no support 身旺无依" type mentioned above. Summary meaning is: being poor and alone and likely with longevity.

b. Prosperous rough destiny (富贵命硬): This also has a strong DM chart but with good structure and/ or favorable luck periods. DM is alone eventually (jinxing family members) but s/he enjoys wealth and fame/ power with big ups and down in life. China's late Chairman Mao is an example of this type.

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor” w/ 14 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

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Monday, August 19, 2024

"Excess Code" in Bazi “多”字诀

The "Excess Code" in Bazi summarizes the potential consequence of an excessive transformation star or "10-gods" in a Bazi chart. "Excess" means three or more of a certain star showing up in a chart.

Below is the code:

财多愚，才多劳；

Excessive -wealth (pian-cai) = stupidity
Excessive +wealth (zheng-cai) = working hard for money

官多贱，杀多死；

Excessive +power (zheng-guan) = humble/low life
Excessive -power (qi-sha) = illness, injury or even death

印多孤，枭多凶；

Excessive +resource (zheng-zin) = loneliness/ alone
Excessive -resource (pian-zin) = ominous

食多愁，伤多害；

Excessive -output (shi-shen) = worrisome
Excessive +output (shang-guan) = troublesome/ harmful

刃多残，劫多败，

Excessive yang-knife/ -peer (jie-cai) = disability/ handicap
Excessive +peer (bi-jian) = failures

禄多贫；马多奔波，

Excessive +peer (bi-jian) = poverty
Excessive travelling horses (yin, shen, si or hai) = running about, toiling

冲多不安，合多热情；

Excessive clashes = instability, insecurity
Excessive combinations = warmth, passionate, sociable

阳多坦荡，阴多深沉；

More yang than yin pillars = open, honest and non-calculative
More yin than yang pillars = sullen and introvert personality

墓库多克六亲。

Numerous tombs/storages (chen, xu, chou and wei) = jinxing close relatives

Like most codes in Bazi and Feng Shui, this code does NOT give the context or conditions for application. But it is not difficult to figure out because there are likely only two possibilities-- whether the star is favorable or not favorable.

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Tuesday, May 7, 2024

Interchangeability of 10 Transformation Stars 十神变通

In Bazi, 10 transformation stars ("10 gods", "transtar" for short) represent a person's family relatives and also social relationships. Some natal charts have all the 10 transtars while others may have missing stars. How do we interpret a chart with missing transtars? If a chart has missing +resource star (zheng-yin, mother), does it mean this person has no mother?

There are two ways to handle this problem.

I. SUBSTITUTE THE ORIGINATION OF THE MISSING STAR

When a chart has missing +peer (jie-cai), substitute its origination of +resource (zheng-yin)
When a chart has missing -peer (bi-jian), substitute its origination of -resource (pian-yin)
When a chart has missing +output (shang-guan), substitute its origination of +peer (jie-cai)
When a chart has missing -output (shi-shen), substitute its origination of -peer (bi-jian)
When a chart has missing +wealth (zheng-cai), substitute its origination of +output (shang-guan)
When a chart has missing -wealth (pian-cai), substitute its origination of -output (shi-shen)
When a chart has missing +power (zheng-guan), substitute its origination of +wealth (zheng-cai)
When a chart has missing -power (qi-sha/ pian-guan), substitute its origination of -wealth (pian-cai)
When a chart has missing +resource (zheng-yin), substitute its origination of +power (zheng-guan)
When a chart has missing -resource (pian-yin), substitute its origination of -power (qi-sha/ pian-guan)

II. SUBSTITUTE STAR WITH SIMILAR NATURE

Details shown in my private Bazi discussion lists. Membership comes with the purchase any Bazi course from me.

Ken Lai

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Tuesday, April 2, 2024

Quick check of people with good temperament 速断好脾氣

Below is a quick way to identify people with good temperament based on the day of birth of their Bazi birth charts. This info is helpful when dating a new person, making a new friend/ partner or hiring a new employee.

Before we go further, please note that "good temperament" is NOT equal to "good personality". Although people with good personality are more likely to have good temperament. Good tempered people could also be cunning, deceitful, lazy, mean and etc..

4 TYPES OF DAY-PILLARS WITH GOOD TEMPERAMENT

1. Day-pillar with +power star (zheng-guan) at the branch (日支坐下正官): geng-wu, bing-zi, xin-si and ding-hai days.

2. Day-pillar with +resource star (zheng-yin) at the branch (日支坐下正印): jia-zi, ji-si, yi-hai and wu-wu days.

3. Day-pillar with -resource star (pian-yin) at the branch (日支坐下偏印): bing-yin, ding-mao, geng-chen, xin-chou, ren-shen and gui-you days.

4. Day-pillar with +wealth star (zheng-cai) at the branch (日支坐下正財): wu-zi, ren-wu, ji-hai and gui-si days.

3 TYPES OF DAY-PILLARS WITH GOOD TEMPERAMENT SOCIALLY BUT ARE RUDE/ IMPATIENT TO FAMILY MEMBERS

The following day pillars put up a facade of good temperament to outside world but are rude and even vicious to their own family members or people close to them .

1. Day-pillar with -power star (qi-sha) at the branch (日支坐下七殺): wu-yin, ji-mao, jia-shen, yi-you, ren-xu, ren-chen, gui-wei and gui-chou days.

2. Day-pillar with -wealth star (pian-cai) at the branch (日支坐下偏財): jia-xu, jia-chen, yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, geng-yin and xin-mao days.

3. Day-pillar with -output star (shi-shen) at the branch (日支坐下食神): bing-chen, bing-xu, ding-chou, wu-shen, ji-you, ren-yin, gui-mao and ding-wei days (these day-pillars are mostly impatient, anxious and not rude).

Please note that this is a "quick check" only. A more accurate reading should be reading the whole birth chart and not just the day branch.

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Thursday, March 21, 2024

Missing element/s and personality 五行命理解說

In previous article we have discussed what may happen when a chart has missing transformation stars or "10-gods". In this article we focus on the missing element in a Bazi chart.

According to Chinese cosmology, the world is formed with 5 basic elements or primal energies represented by water, wood, fire, earth and metal. Human destiny is determined by the interplay of this 5 basic energies. All living organisms survive under the natural rules and restrictions of 5-elements.

For the Chinese Daoists, the only way to achieving true freedom and immortality is to:

"Hop out of the 3 realms and live outside the boundary of 5-elements 跳出三界外，不在五行中". (Note: 三界 "3-realms" is triloka-- sensory, form and formless realms)

Whereas missing transformation star focuses primarily on the social and family aspect, missing elements are more onto the personality of the chart owner or daymaster.

People with a completed set of 5-elements in their birth charts are the relatively blessed group and have long life expectancy. They are likely to live a stable/ peaceful life with no major ups and downs (but not necessarily rich and famous). If they run into obstacles or setbacks, they are likely going through them without a scratch.

If one's chart has a weak or missing element, one is likely has some aspects of life missing or obstacles related to that element. Below are the meanings of missing a element in a chart

MEANINGS OF WEAK OR MISSING ELEMENT

1. Weak or missing water element: Water element is exemplified as ocean, sea, river, lake and stream in nature. Water stands for intelligence in Chinese metaphysics. Water flows downward and has no shape. It's form changes with the container holding it. When applying water nature to the personality of an individual with strong water, it implies s/he is smart, flexible, a quick learner, adaptive to changes and sociable. But s/he could be flowery, promiscuous and cunning if water is too strong. In contrary, one with weak or missing water element will be rigid, inflexible, having problems adapting to changes, lacking planning and not too smart.

2. Weak or missing wood element: Wood element is exemplified as trees, plants, grass and flowers in nature. Wood stands for kindness in Chinese metaphysics. Wood is solid and grows upward. When applying wood nature to the personality of an individual with strong wood, it implies s/he is upright, kind, moving forward and not a quitter. But s/he could be stubborn, cruel and inflexible if wood is too strong. In contrary, one with weak or missing wood element will be indecisive, unkind, lacking stamina and motivation to achieve goals, prone to withdrawal and lacking persistence.

3. Weak or missing fire element: Fire element is exemplified as the sun, moon, stars and flames in nature. Fire stands for courtesy in Chinese metaphysics. Fire or flame is "hollow" and burns upward. It is the strongest form of yang energy. When applying fire nature to the personality of an individual with strong fire, it implies s/he is polite, cultured, proactive, enthusiastic and cheerful. But s/he could be impatient and hot-tempered if fire is too strong. In contrary, one with weak or missing fire element will be a laggard, impolite, lazy, lacking enthusiasm and has problems achieving goals.

4. Weak or missing earth element: Earth element is exemplified as the field, plains, soil, sands, mountain and rocks in nature. Earth stands for trust/ faith in Chinese metaphysics. Earth is stable and gives rise to "everything" ("mother earth" gives rise to plants/ metal and etc.). When applying earth nature to the personality of an individual with strong earth, it implies s/he is trustworthy, keeping promise, honest, reliable, inclusive, reputable and stable. But s/he could be inflexible and rigid if earth is too strong. In contrary, one with weak or missing earth element will be lacking credibility/ trust and impulsive.

5. Weak or missing metal element: Metal element is exemplified as the metal ores and precious stones in nature. Metal stands for righteousness in Chinese metaphysics. Metal is rough and tough. When applying metal nature to the personality of an individual with strong metal, it implies s/he is full of righteousness, authoritative, loyalty, fighting injustice, not hesitating to take action against evils/ criminals, can achieve major feats and is leadership material. But s/he could be rigid and vengeful if metal is too strong. In contrary, one with weak or missing metal element will be lacking authority, indecisive and worrying too much.

In conclusion, a weak or missing element in a chart can release critical social, familial and personality data of the daymaster or chart-owner. This info is very useful for looking for friendship, dating and business partners.

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Monday, February 26, 2024

Missing a transformation star or "10-god" in a Bazi chart

Bazi astrology reading is based on the interplay of the basic 5-elements and the 10 transformation stars or "10-gods" represented by these 5-elements. It is not uncommon for a Bazi chart missing one or more of the five elements (water, wood, fire, earth and earth). What are the implications of this missing element or transformation star?

In this article we focus on the missing transformation star first. 10-transformation stars represent a person's social aspects and family linkages like wealth luck, career, siblings, love relationship and the likes. Missing a transformation star due to a missing element will affect the luck trend represented by that transformation star.

Below are the meanings of missing a certain transformation star in a chart:

1. Missing peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai): Peer stars represent one's (daymaster or DM) siblings, friends, co-workers, peer group and sociability. Missing peer star means DM has poor social skill, problem making friends, indecisive, lacking initiative and vision, following but not taking charge, over-cautious and not generous.

2. Missing output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan): Output stars represents DM's EQ, smart, talent, imagination, creativity and juniors/ subordinates. Missing output star means DM lacking talent and opportunity to utilize his/her talent, is ineloquent and not good at generate money. If DM is a female, may have problem raising kids or lack relationship with her children.

3. Missing wealth stars (pian-cai/ zheng-cai): Wealth stars represents DM's wealth luck, wealth management power and opportunity. It also represents DM's father. Missing wealth star means DM lacking money management skills and wealth opportunities, and has little or no relationship/ karma with father. If DM is a male, may have problem getting married or lacking relationship/ karma with wife.

4. Missing power stars (qi-sha/ zheng-guan): Power stars represents DM's social status, executive power, self-control, career and superiors. Missing power star means DM lacks self-control, inconsiderate, prone to laziness, big swing of ups and downs skills and is difficult to get social approval and recognition. If DM is a female, may have problem getting married or lacking relationship/ karma with husband.

5. Missing resource stars (pian-yin/ zheng-yin): Resource stars represents DM's education, career, family, parents, senior generation and helpful mentors. Missing resource star means DM lacks relationship with mother, problem getting academic achievement and real estate, instability in career and feeling insecure.

The above observations focus mainly on the missing star is favorable to the chart. If the missing element is unfavorable and does not show up, DM may get the benefit of that missing element. The degree of positivity or negativity due to a missing star also depends on chart composition and whether DM is strong or weak.

There are some remedies for missing transformation star or element that you may find in this course:

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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video

“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video

“Period 9 Feng Shui Bible w/ P8/ 9 Period Upgrade Advisor" w/ 14 hr. HD video

“Period 9 Feng Shui Survival Guide for P8 Houses" w/ 9 hr. HD video

“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video

“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video

“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video

“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD

“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video

“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video

“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video

“Period 9 Feng Shui Survival Guide for P8 Houses" w/ 9 hr. HD video

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Sunday, August 20, 2023

Rarely published info on "wealth star breaks resource star" 财星破印

Wealth star damages resource star (财坏印) is also known as "wealth star breaks resource star" (财破印). What does this mean? You will be surprised by the multitude of meanings that these 3 Chinese characters cover.

Wealth is important because everyone needs it to survive. When a daymaster (DM) is weak with wealth star in his/ her chart implies greed and material desires.

A chart with "wealth star damages resource star" usually means DM is weak, likes resource star to nurture him/ her and dislikes wealth star (because wealth controls resource in Bazi).

Hence, resource star is the favorable element ("yong-shen") for a weak DM, but if there is/ are wealth stars to control or clash it, a few or more of the following scenarios may happen to this DM:

leaves hometown to make a living
does not have a stable job/ career
does not do well in school
runs into disaster/ misfortune due to money
jinxes mother
DM is a weakling or chronically sick
moves frequently
DM is unrealistic; a jack of all trades
does not get along with mother-in-law (female DM)
gets into trouble/ disaster due to women (male DM)

DM would run into at least one or two of the above situations. If a luck period brings this "wealth star damages resource star" to the natal chart, DM likely suffers misfortune like losing public office/ job or troubles due to wealth/ woman. This problem will be lessen if there is/ are peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) to control the wealth stars.

COMMON CAREERS FOR CHART WITH "WEALTH BREAKS RESOURCE STAR"

Boss of scammer group
Self-employed
Innovative trade/ work
Under-covered detective
out-of-hometown work
Escort (female)
Any work for money if not illegal

COMMON SCENES FOR CHART WITH "WEALTH BREAKS RESOURCE STAR"

parents do not get along or separated
family disharmony
selfishness
poor reputation/ low credibility
dishonest merchant/ selling fake goods
mother- and daughter-in-law disharmony
strong material desires/ hedonistic
poor academic performance
unrealistic/ impractical; jack of all trades
studying for degree not in demand by society
weakling or chronically sick
home altar has Feng Shui problem
when DM becomes strong (when peer luck comes), will help parents with money and love

Many so-called Bazi or Feng Shui secret codes/ poems/ trick songs only list the "if you see this and this will happen" but seldom specify the conditions. This "wealth star damages resource star" is an example. These "conditions" and details are usually taught verbally between teacher and students.

Many readers have commented that they found info in this blog not taught in the Bazi courses taken from other schools.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Friday, July 28, 2023

Rarely published meanings of stem clashes

In a Bazi chart, stem level represents external environment and what is visible to the public. Branch level is the hidden and internal reality or psychic of the individual.

In this post, meaning of "4-stem clashes" are shown here. There is no Wu- and Ji-earth clash.

When a chart has stem clash/es, it stands for the development or occurrence of events and environmental changes related to the chart owner ("daymaster" or DM).

4-STEM CLASHES AND SICKNESS

Jia-geng clash: head or face injury
Yi-xin clash: injury involving 4-limbs; tendon and bone pain
Bing-ren clash: head and kidney problems
Ding-gui clash: bladder or heart problems

4-STEM CLASHES AND PILLAR LOCATION

Year pillar clashed: older generation relocates or moving, daymaster does not get the endowment or blessing from older/ ancestral generation
Month pillar clashed: daymaster cannot rely or depend on parents and/or siblings; unstable family environment
Day pillar (DM) is clashed: DM endures many changes and has few or no mentor or "nobleman" to help him/ her
Hour pillar clashed: children leave home or town or DM does not enjoy blessing from his/ her children

Note: the above need to be considered with the favorableness of the palace, so the meanings above are not absolute and could be opposite.

4-STEM CLASHES AND 10 TRANSFORMATION STAR ("10-GODS")

When resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) is clashed: mainly means instability in school or career. DM gets the benefit IF resource star is unfavorable in the chart.
When power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) is clashed: mainly means career or official post (government official) becomes unstable. Opposite if power star is unfavorable in the chart.
When wealth star (zheng-cai, pian-cai) is clashed: stands for the person actively pursues wealth like investment or running business. It could also means losing wealth and money-comes-money-goes situation. DM could get wealth if wealth star is unfavorable in the chart. Wealth also stands for wife/ mistress in male charts. This could mean affair or divorce or losing money due to woman.
When output star (shang-guan, shi-shen) is clashed: DM has too many "ideas" and changing mind frequently. DM has some general skills/ knowledge but not at proficient level and changes job frequently. Opposite if output star is unfavorable.
When peer star (bi-jian, jie-cai) is clashed: this likely means losing wealth due to friends/ peers or hard to get close friends. DM gets close friends if peer star is unfavorable in the chart.

If you want to know more about Bazi, please check out the following courses:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)

“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui” w/ 45 hrs. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ ″ w/ 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Influences of unfavorable element in Bazi 八字忌神

In Bazi, unfavorable element or "annoying god" (ji-shen) refers to for an element that is detrimental to the person or "daymaster" (DM) of the natal chart owner.

Unfavorable element causes "imbalance" in a chart that may create misfortune, sickness and disasters. One of the goals of Bazi reading is to find out one's unfavorable element and make preparations and remedies to mitigate its effects.

The negative influences of unfavorable element can be observed from the ten transformation stars or "10-gods" representing these elements:

1. Zheng-cai or +wealth star is unfavorable: low wealth luck and salary or income, work/ career problems; high work output or effort with low return.

2. Pian-cai or -wealth star is unfavorable: poor luck in non-regular income, likely to lose money in gambling, speculations, stock and investments

3. Zheng-guan or +power star is unfavorable: problem getting promotion in career or official position; unlikely to work for government; hard to rise through the ranks even if working for government.

4. Qi-sha (pian-guan) or -power star is unfavorable: Qi-sha represents "mean people", back-stabbers, illegal groups; prone to getting involved with Mafia-type people or being bullied; feeling pressure or being prosecuted; also lacking performance or achievement in career.

5. Zheng-yin or +resource star is unfavorable: stands for low academic background and performance; +resource star also represents helpful mentor or nobleman; this person lacks helpful mentor and must be self-reliant to achieve success.

6. Pian-yin or -resource star is unfavorable: This represents the senior relatives of chart owner are not healthy and is prone to being dragging down or implicated by them. This also means lacking relationship or communications with family members.

7. Jie-cai or +peer star is unfavorable: This stands for disharmony with siblings. This person appears to have many acquaintances but few real friends. This also means s/he tends to overwork.

8. Bi-jian or -peer star is unfavorable: This stands for siblings are likely financially unstable and not helpful to this person. It also means s/he is likely implicated or dragging down by his/her siblings.

9. Shang-guan or +output star is unfavorable: This person is prone to quarrel, dispute, gossip or scandal and likely to have sex scandal. +Output star also stands for mental fatigue and tough working conditions.

10. Shi-shen or -output star is unfavorable: This stands for depression due to no one recognize or hire one's talent. This could also mean one's thought is out of reality or unrealistic.

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Sunday, June 27, 2021

Meaning of star combinations in Bazi

"Stars" here mean "transformation stars" or "10-gods" in Bazi. When stars within the natal chart and/or from luck period combine, it could be positive or negative depending on the final product is favorable or unfavorable to the chart. By checking these combinations (and also clashes, not covered here) from annual and 10-year-lucks, we can predict what events are likely happen to the daymaster (DM or chart owner).

Below are meanings of these combination of 10 transformation stars:

Male DM (daymaster) combines with +wealth star (zheng-cai) = husband has good relationship with wife
Female DM combines with +power star (zheng-guan) = wife has good relationship with husband
Wealth star (cai) combines resource star (yin) = DM's parents have good relationship
-Power star (qi-sha) combines with DM = DM befriends people with bad influences
Male DM's +wealth star (zheng-cai) combines with -peer star (bi-jian) = wife has lover/s (affairs)
Female DM's +power star (zheng-guan) combines with -peer star (bi-jian) = husband has mistress (affairs)
Male DM's wealth star (cai) combines with resource star (yin) = wife has good relationship with mother-in-law.

There are conditions or environment to meet for two different elements to combine. Some teachers consider these conditions "top secrets". My Bazi course manuals has detailed info on this topic.

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