Find out your husband's innate feeling about you without asking

Your husband may not tell you how relevant or important of your presence to him.  But you can find out this innate feeling by checking his birth chart with Bazi astrology.

In Bazi, wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) represent wife, mistress and girl friends for male.  Naturally, these are the critical info to examine in your husband's chart.  There are 3 major aspects to check:

1. Is there any +wealth star (zheng-cai) in the natal chart?
2. The strength (how strong or weak) of the wealth star.
3. The distance between the day stem (daymaster, DM) and wealth star.

WIFE RELEVANCE RATING BASED ON HUSBAND BIRTH CHART

1.  DM sits on +wealth star (zheng-cai);  +wealth is strong ; only +wealth star/s are present in the chart:  "DM" is the daymaster or owner of the chart.  This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace.  Wife has the highest relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  He pays close attention to wife, loves her dearly and tries to fulfill any request that wife asks.  

2.  DM sits on -wealth star (pian-cai);  -wealth is strong ; only -wealth star/s are present in the chart:  This means wife star sits on the day branch or spouse palace. Wife still has the high relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  But -wealth is same gender to DM and not yin-yang balanced.  So some minor confrontations or verbal fights occur occasionally.

3.  Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart;  +wealth is strong and close to DM ;  -wealth star is weak and far away from DM:  Wife still has significant relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  In reality, husband is prone to affairs,  but he is concerned with wife's feeling and will keep his affairs hidden.  In short, despite his infidelity, he loves wife more than the mistress.

4.  Both + and -wealth stars (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) show up in the chart;  -wealth is strong and close to DM ;  +wealth star is weak and far away from DM:  Wife has low relevance from the perspective of husband with these combinations.  In short, he loves mistress more than the wife.

5.  Chart has no wealth star:  Wife has insignificant relevance from the perspective of husband.  He may not care about the feeling and needs of his wife at all.   

There are some simple methods to improve this "wife relevance" in my "Luck Enhancement and Misfortune Mitigation with Bazi and Feng Shui" discussion group.

This is a BOGO (buy one get one free) and tariff free article.  To get your free article on "husband relevance", simple substitute "husband chart" to "wife chart" and "+/- wealth stars" to "+/- power star" in this article.

Ken Lai

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One Pillar Bazi: Marriage Prediction

Today is your lucky day!  After reading this post, you can predict one's marriage life in general without knowing much about Bazi. 

Here are the step by step procedures:
1.   Use the birthday the person and convert it into a Bazi natal chart with 4 columns.  Each column is called a "pillar".  Our focus is on the day-pillar (see Appendix below for simple procedures to do it). 
2.  Write down the name of the day pillar from the Bazi-Calculator output (see Appendix).  In the Appendix below the example day pillar is geng-shen.
3.  Match the entries below and read explanations.

KEY TO DAY-PILLAR AND MARITAL BLISS
Day-pillar consists of two parts.  The upper part is the day-stem or daymaster which represents the chart owner.  Lower part is the day-branch or "spouse palace".  It represents the spouse of the daymaster (DM).  This method checks which star occupies the spouse palace to determine marital bliss of the chart owner.

1.  Great and happy marriage for male daymaster with wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) in  day-branch (spouse palace).  Wealth star stands for wife for a male DM. If wealth star is favorable, the male may get wealth from wife or her family.  If DM is a female, the marriage is also above average because wealth star nurtures power star (husband star for female).  There are eight day-pillars in this category:
-- yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, wu-zi, ji-hai, geng-yin and ren-wu.

2.  Great and happy marriage for female daymaster with power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch (spouse palace).  Power star stands for husband for a female DM. If power star is favorable, the husband is famous with high status.  If DM is a male, the marriage is also above average if he is a strong DM.  There are eight day-pillars in this category:
-- jia-shen, yi-you, ding-hai, ji-mao, geng-wu, xin-si, gui-chou and gui-wei. 

3.  Good and happy marriage for female daymaster with resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in day-branch (spouse palace).  Resource star stands for mother or older generation.  Resource star in spouse palace means spouse nurturing DM.  Hence it will be a happy and blissful marriage for both male and female DM. There are twelve day-pillars for this category:-- jia-zi, yi-hai, bing-yin, ding-mao, wu-wu, ji-si, geng-chen, geng-xu, xin-chou, xin-wei and ren-shen.

4.  Different outcomes for female and male daymaster with output star (shang-guan/ shi-shen) in day-branch (spouse palace).  Output star nurtures wealth star (wife for male DM).  Output star is favorable when DM is strong.  Hence for strong male DM with output star in spouse palace will have an above average marriage but poor relationship if this male DM is weak.  Output star hurts power star (husband for female DM).  Hence, marital relationship will be bad if female DM has output star sitting in spouse palace.  There are nine day-pillars in this category:
-- jia-wu, yi-si, bing-chen, bing-xu, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin and gui-mao.

5.  High divorce rate for both female and male daymasters with peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in day-branch (spouse palace).  Peer star controls or "snatches" wealth star (wife for male DM) and drains power star (husband for female DM).  Hence people with this peer star in spouse palace have higher divorce rate.  There are twelve day-pillars for this category:
-- jia-yin, yi-mao, bing-wu, ding-si, wu-xu, ji-wei, ji-chou, geng-shen, xin-you, ren-zi and gui-hai.

6.  Incorrect yin-yang days are inauspicious for marriage.  Both male and female born in these days will remarry.  There are 12 "Incorrect yin-yang days" (阴阳差错日):
--  bing-zi, ding-chou, wu-yin, xin-mao, ren-chen, gui-si, bing-wu, ding-wei, wu-shen, xin-you, ren-xu and gui-hai. 

7.  This two day-pillars jinx spouse:  jia-chen and ji-xu


Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a person
1.  Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/

2.  Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
3.  Click "CALCULATE" box
4.  Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
5.  The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is "Geng-shen" in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

Ken Lai

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How to check marital bliss: mate-selection guide

In previous article, the star inside day-branch or marital palace is used to rate the marital bliss of the individual's birth chart.  It is from the self-interest perspective of that individual.

This article is 3x more complicated that requires at least an hour of live seminar time to explain.  However, with my data-reduction techniques, I have summarized the data in a little table below that you can use in a flash.

Below is a summary of previous article.  It is put here so that you do not need to scroll up and down to read previous blog: 

MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-PILLAR

1.  Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai  (wealth star)
Day Pillars:  Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and Ren-wu.  乙丑，乙未，丙申，丁酉，戊子，己亥，庚寅，壬午 (Rating: Best)
2.  Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)
Day Pillars:  Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and Gui-wei. 甲申，乙酉，丁亥，己卯，庚午，辛巳，癸丑，癸未 (Rating: Best) 
3.  Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star) 
Day Pillars:  Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and Gui-you 甲子，乙亥，丙寅，丁卯，戊午，己巳，庚辰，庚戌，辛丑，辛未，壬申，癸酉  (Rating: Good)
4.  Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)
Day Pillars:  Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and Gui-mao. 甲午，乙巳，丙辰，丙戌，己酉，庚子，辛亥，壬寅，癸卯

• For male  (Rating: OK)
• For female (Rating: Bad)

5.  Daymaster sitting on  Bi-jian or Jie-cai (peer star)
Day Pillars:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai. 甲寅，乙卯，丙午，丁巳，戊戌，戊辰，己未，己丑，庚申，辛酉，壬子，癸亥

• For male DM (Rating: Bad)
• For female DM (Rating: OK)

MATE-SELECTION GUIDE BASED ON DAY-BRANCH  
The table below cross-tabulated 5 different combinations of day-branches between a male and female match from 3 perspectives:
from male partner  (the "M" rating, e.g.: M5 is the best, M1 the worst)
from female partner (the "F" rating, e.g.: F5 is the best, F1 the worst)
independent overall rating (the "T" rating, e.g.: T5 is the best, T1 the worst)  
There are a total of 75 different ratings for this guide.

RATING SCALE:
5 = BEST
4 = GOOD
3 = OK
2 = BAD
1 = WORST 

Click picture to enlarge

EXAMPLE OF HOW TO USE THIS SELECTION GUIDE

For example, a man has "power star" (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch is dating a woman with "resource star" (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in hers.  This man wants to check if this is a good match before taking a plunge into the relationship.  He checks the intersection of blue resource column and the red power row and find these data:  

SAMPLE RATING:  M3 F4 T3.   The meaning of these ratings are:

• M3 = From the man's personal interest, it is a 3 or "OK" rating
• F4 = From the woman's personal interest, it is a 4 or "GOOD" rating
• T3 = From an unbiased rating for the match,  it is a 3 or "OK" rating

In general, if T-rating is less than 3, this is not a good match unless there are other advantages come with this potential partner, like pretty/ handsome face, wealth and the like to even out the low rating.

 Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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