Years of loving dangerously-- predicting love rivals 预测情敌

Last month the "20/20" news program of the ABC TV network here in USA had re-examined the Amy Fisher love triangle story.  This incident is also known as the "Long Island Lolita" in which a 17 years old high schooler shot the wife of her lover in 1991.
https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/tv/abc-2020-joey-buttafuoco-mary-amy-fisher-1.38309535

Would the world be safer if we can predict:

• who are likely to have more love rivals than others
• when our love rivals will show up (and be prepared to guard your love property in advance)

"Love rivals" here refers to people who try to snatch your husband/ boy-friend or wife/ girl friend.

Today is your lucky day!  These rarely shared Bazi secrets are put here for your eyes only.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS
1.  Bazi charts with numerous (3+) peer stars (jie-cai, bi-jian):  Peer stars represent competitions to steal your wealth.  "Wealth" means material things and also wife in Bazi.  Male chart with numerous peer stars also means this man is stubborn and egoistic if not chauvinistic.  His wife or girl-friend is more likely to "jump ship" when someone better showing up.
2.  Male charts with yang daymasters (DM) Jia, Bing, Wu, Geng and Ren:  This is because yang male DM combines with a wealth or wife element.  For example, Jia-wood will combine with Ji-earth. When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the wealth or wife star in the chart.  It means an outside man taking his girl-friend or wife away.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FEMALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS
1.  Bazi charts with numerous (3+) output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan):  Output stars represent talents and temperament in Bazi.  Female chart with strong output stars, especially shang-guan, is demanding and exerts too much pressure to her husband or boy-friend.   The guy is likely to pick up a kinder and gentler woman if given the chance.

2.  Female charts with yin daymasters (DM) Yi, Ding, Ji, Xin and Gui:   This is because yin female DM combines with a power or husband element.  For example, Yi-wood will combine with Geng-metal.  When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the power or husband star in the chart.  It means an outside woman taking her boy-friend or husband away.

PEOPLE WITH STABLE MARRIAGE/LOVE: WHEN LOVE RIVALS SHOW UP

1. when day-stem and branch are clashed by 10-year-luck and/or annual luck
2. when day-branch or spouse palace is clashed by luck period/s
3. when day-branch or spouse palace is combined by luck period/s
4. when wealth star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for male 
5. when power star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for female

Now you know your ABC or when your love rival will knock at your door.  What are the next steps?  Here are some suggestions:
1.   try to be nicer to your spouse
2.   keep an eye on his/ her interactions with any opposite sex friends
3.   take the courses below for Bazi and Feng Shui remedies:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
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“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui”2019 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2019 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Strange Feng Shui remedy of a Flyover Sha

 Note:  I have just posted this message in my "Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui" discussion list.

A 6-storeys tall building is near a flyover which is taller than the building in a Tai-yuan city, Shangxi Province of China.

A few days ago, within a few hours, the building becomes an 8-storeys building!

When look closer, the new "storeys" are spray-printed image of storeys on canvas on a metal frame.

 

 

The reason for this new addition is because numerous non-old-aged residents had died of cancer in last few years.  The residents suspect it has something to do with the flyover and seek the help of a Feng Shui master.  

The master said the flyover is higher than the building and "suppresses" the blessing for the building.  He suggests making the building higher than the flyover as remedy.

After the "instant growth" of the new canvas "storeys", the building is 10cm taller than the flyover.  70+ households in the building have paid for the expenses involved.

Do you think this remedy will work?

Will the fix make things better or worse?

If you were the FS guy, what would you recommend instead?

Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

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“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Feng Shui Remedy for Affairs or Mistress

8-feet tall metal rooster

I went to Home Goods department store (USA) here yesterday and saw this giant metal rooster.  It is about 8 feet tall and the price tag is only US$299.  It looks like a Mexican style rooster.  Just shipping cost from Mexico or China to here (mid-west USA) would cost over $299!  This is a great deal except not too many people can stuff an 8-feet tall metal rooster into their homes or yards.

Metal rooster is a popular Feng Shui remedy for:
-- preventing/ combating mistress or affair
-- fixing "centipede sha" that causes stomach problems
-- enhancing wealth luck and making wish come true
-- fixing certain missing corner in a house
-- fixing shortage of metal in one's Bazi chart

I do not want to drive Feng Shui masters out of business here.  So I just tell you how to use metal rooster to fix peach blossom or mistress/ affair problems.  Ask your Feng Shui teacher about how to use other functions of metal rooster.

To prevent or combat mistress or affairs, simply put a brass rooster facing the front door or window (if living in an apartment).  That's it.

Some parents also use this rooster fix if their teenager children run into peach blossom or love affair prematurely.

People with "rabbit" animal sign should not use this remedy because rabbit and rooster clash each other in the Chinese zodiac system.


For the intellectual curious or nosy people,  the theory behind this remedy is based on the Chinese Bagua.  In Feng Shui, 4-jade green star handles peach-blossom and affairs.  It is located in the Xun trigram (SE) region of the Bagua and is wood in nature.  Anything that can control this 4-jade green star should fix this peach blossom problem.  Dui trigram sits in the west region of the Bagua.  It covers xin, you and geng mountains or sectors and all are metal in nature.  "You" also stands for rooster.  This is the rationale for using rooster to combat peach-blossom or illicit affairs.

I know some people may use more than one rooster for "extra strength" or fixing more than one mistress.  Don't be greedy--- two roosters will fight among themselves!

Happy Chinese Lunar New Year!

Ken Lai

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“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
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“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
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The Latest Feng Shui Hammer-- Tilt-O-matic?

In my 2007 blog article "Feng Shui Hammer and Xuan Kong Flying Stars", I had written:

"If you give a kid a hammer, pretty soon he will try to do everything with a hammer...In the Feng Shui world today, the Feng Shui hammer is Xuan Kong Flying Stars (Feng Shui). To some people, XK Feng Shui is the universal key to any Feng Shui problem."

Six years later, I have discovered a new trend for another version of "Feng Shui Hammer" that is not restricted to one Feng Shui school or method.  

This "hammer" generalizes the Feng Shui remedy of door-tilting to different aspects of Feng Shui. I call this method "tilt-O-matic" because its core method is tilting anything towards the so-called "auspicious qi" or angle.

Door-tilting itself is no major secret and easy to understand-- if your door sits on an inauspicious angle, you tilt it to the nearest available auspicious angle.  Ideally the nearest angle to the current one will match the requirements for as many Feng Shui methods (like Bazhai, San-He, XKDG and etc.) as possible.

In certain southeastern Asian countries where large population of ethnic Chinese reside, you can see tilted doors easily.  My Feng Shui pals in these countries told me that door-tilting is almost a must in any Feng Shui audit or your clients will think they don't get their money's worth.

The next derivative from door-tilting is stove-tilting, used mainly in Bazhai Feng Shui. 

Some inventive folks out there bring out the "tilt-around-the-house" motto and generalize this method to tilt balcony doors,sliding doors,apartment doors, doors inside a house or office or even tilt a balcony-- applying tilting to whatever Feng Shui methods like Flying Star, XKDG and the like.

Their next top secret invention probably will be tilting house windows and maybe even garden walls. I guess toilet seat, fridge door, bath tub and water basin are all fair games for them. 

"Ken, how valid is this tilting approach?"

I don't know when I do not get paid to answer or argue for controversial topics like this one.  But I can tell you that when I visit many ancient towns and villages in China,including the emperor's home (Forbidden City), I have not seen a tilted door yet. 

I have seen tilted doors that were done in the last 10- 20 years in China and Hong Kong.

Chinese Feng Shui emphasizes balance and symmetry.  Anything tilted will disrupt the balance state. Tilting does not seem to match these basic Feng Shui principles.

In Feng Shui, main door represent the mouth of a house.  A tilted door is like a person with a crooked mouth.  It is the "form" for stroke resulting in a crooked mouth.

There are teachers who swear by the tilted door remedy and also the ones who are apprehensive of door-tilting.  My own sifu are mostly against using it for aesthetic and safety reasons.  Non-residential buildings probably can have tilted doors because people do not stay there longer than 8- 10 hours and likely are moving around.  My sifu do not recommend tilting door for residential properties because people sleep there at night and absorb whatever qi coming in.

On a psychological level, a tilted door is a constant reminder to the residents that "this is an auspicious door that will bring me good luck". This daily positive affirmation will enhance the intention power of the residents to make things "happen". 

"Ken, do you do door-tilting Feng Shui remedy?"

Yes, I do "green tilting" that does no damage to the wall or environment and does not need a carpenter. However, I do it only when there is no alternative.

"Can you elaborate?  Does it work?"

Sorry, I cannot elaborate. This is a little secret in my school. Somehow it works too.


Ken Lai

"Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/ 23.5 hrs. HD video
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"Period 7/8 Feng Shui Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
"Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
"Practical Imperial Qi-men-Dun-Jia” w/ 11 hr. video
"Advanced Practical Imperial QMDJ” w/ 18 hr. video
"EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
"EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
"Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
"Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
"4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp” with 12 hr. video

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