Spouse jinxing secrets 克妻克夫秘密

According to dictionary.com, jinx as a noun is defined as "a person, thing, or influence supposed to bring bad luck."  Jinx as a verb is someone who "brings bad luck to; places a jinx on...".
 
The Chinese word for jinx is "ke" (克) which literally means "to restraint, subdue or overcome".

However, even many Chinese readers have misunderstood the meaning of jinx and equated it to "jinxing someone to death".

In the context of marriage, spouse-jinxing means the marriage has many problems and issues than average couples.

One way to determine if someone jinxes his/ her spouse is through reading his/ her Bazi birth chart.  Male chart with strong or numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) likely jinxes his wife (and also father).  Female chart with strong or numerous output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) likely jinxes her husband.

MANIFESTATIONS OF WIFE/ HUSBAND-JINXING
1.  Problems getting married, late marriage or even remain single.
2.  Disharmony between the couple after marrying; argue and fight all the time.
3.  Separated due to career/ work or relationship problem.
4.  Extended period of sex life issues.
5.  Domestic violence (by husband or wife).
6.  Husband or wife has chronic or severe illness.
7.  Divorce.
8.  Spouse had died prematurely (before age 60).
9.  The divorced husband/ wife will likely remarry someone who has also divorced.
10.  Someone whose spouse had died prematurely, when remarrying, s/he like will marry someone who will die prematurely too.

If a person's chart shows "jinxing" certain family member, it is NOT that person causing the death or misfortune of that member.  It is the destiny of that member regardless who runs into that position (as in the context of marriage).  

"Ken, is there any remedy for spouse-jinxing?"

The most common fix is to find someone who also jinxes spouse.  When a couple who jinx each other may neutralize the overall jinx.  For other remedies, please take my:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

© 2019 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS” w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2019 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Bazi: Spotting out wife-jinxer/ beater in a flash

Hi girls!  Today is your lucky day.  This article may save you from an abusive relationship or a trip to divorce court.  It shows you how to spot out a potential wife-jinxer/ beater using the birthday of your potential partner.

"Wife-jinxer" here means this man will unlikely bring good life/ blessing to his wife.  He may jinx his wife to death and is a potential wife-beater.

To check your potential mate before developing a relationship, first of all, you need the birthday of the potential partner.  Then follow the instructions in the appendix here to find out the data required for making the decision.

After you have found the "daymaster" of your potential mate, match it with the following table:

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For example, your potential partner is a Bing-fire daymaster.  You check his Bazi chart to see if there is any Ding-fire and/or Si-fire.  If there is one or more, check if there is any Ren-, Gui-, Zi- or Hai-water in the chart.  If you see NONE, you better stay away from this man.  But if you must have this man, consult a Bazi reader to see if this man has a special chart.  If so, then he could still be your potential partner.  The probability of someone has a special chart is about 20%.

What to do if this man does not have a special chart and you still want him? (beauty loves "bad boy" syndrome?)  Here is your last hope-- check your own Bazi chart to see if you are a husband-jinxer (consult a Bazi reader or wait till I write about how to spot a husband-jinxer).  When a wife-jinxer and a husband-jinxer marry, the jinxes between them will be neutralized.

If unfortunately or fortunately that you are not a husband-jinxer, the last resort is to consult the courses below to mitigate the possible jinxes through Bazi and Feng Shui techniques (click link for details):
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

For people who want to know the logic behind this wife-jinxer Bazi, the answers are posted in my  Bazi/ 4P groups.   You may want to take my 4P/ Bazi courses listed below if you are not a member of my groups.  However, if you have basic Bazi knowledge, you may easily figure out the dynamics behind.  After you have figured out the wife-jinxer logic, husband-jinxer logic will pop up in your mind in no time.

APPENDIX:  How to find the day-master of your boy friend:
1.  Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in his birthday
3.  Click "Calculate" button
4.  Check the "Day" column of the table in the left side
5.  The example here shows a Wu-earth DM with Chou-earth (not good!), BUT there is a Yi-wood here to control earth, so this guy is "salvageable".

Ken Lai

© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com