Spouse jinxing secrets 克妻克夫秘密

According to dictionary.com, jinx as a noun is defined as "a person, thing, or influence supposed to bring bad luck."  Jinx as a verb is someone who "brings bad luck to; places a jinx on...".
 
The Chinese word for jinx is "ke" (克) which literally means "to restraint, subdue or overcome".

However, even many Chinese readers have misunderstood the meaning of jinx and equated it to "jinxing someone to death".

In the context of marriage, spouse-jinxing means the marriage has many problems and issues than average couples.

One way to determine if someone jinxes his/ her spouse is through reading his/ her Bazi birth chart.  Male chart with strong or numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) likely jinxes his wife (and also father).  Female chart with strong or numerous output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) likely jinxes her husband.

MANIFESTATIONS OF WIFE/ HUSBAND-JINXING
1.  Problems getting married, late marriage or even remain single.
2.  Disharmony between the couple after marrying; argue and fight all the time.
3.  Separated due to career/ work or relationship problem.
4.  Extended period of sex life issues.
5.  Domestic violence (by husband or wife).
6.  Husband or wife has chronic or severe illness.
7.  Divorce.
8.  Spouse had died prematurely (before age 60).
9.  The divorced husband/ wife will likely remarry someone who has also divorced.
10.  Someone whose spouse had died prematurely, when remarrying, s/he like will marry someone who will die prematurely too.

If a person's chart shows "jinxing" certain family member, it is NOT that person causing the death or misfortune of that member.  It is the destiny of that member regardless who runs into that position (as in the context of marriage).  

"Ken, is there any remedy for spouse-jinxing?"

The most common fix is to find someone who also jinxes spouse.  When a couple who jinx each other may neutralize the overall jinx.  For other remedies, please take my:
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

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Question on wife beater and Bazi

A question from my "4P Bootcamp' discussion list:

"Ken, is there anything in a 4P chart that could show whether a man is prone to violence eg. domestic violence?"

This is an interesting but complicated question. It involves legal system too. For example, in Singapore, if you beat up your wife, the government will cane your ass, so husbands there will not beat up their wives even if their 4P show they may. For other "civilized" countries, besides 4P factors, it will become educational (and social class) question. Generally speaking, working class husbands are more likely to beat up their wives.

To figure out if a guy will beat up his wife or not, you need to check which stars affect personality negatively. Man with too many peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) is likely to be an ass (selfish, stubborn) is one. Man with too many shang-guan (output or talent) is another. Man with many qi-sha (power star) with no control is prone to violence too, not only just beating up wife.

You also need to look at wife's chart-- chart with zheng-guan and qi-sha (power stars) "mixing up" and is also "unfavorable" , she is likely to be bully by man. Personally, I think the woman's chart determines if she will be beaten or not. Certain female chart will attract specific type of man. You see it all the time by observing celebrities.

This topic can easily fill a volume--- it will be treated in detail in:
"Applied 4P: wealth & marrige" .


Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
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“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

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