Infidelity: cat edition

A series of cat photos go viral in the Chinese web.  On Nov. 11, 2016,  someone has seen two lover cats frolicking together:

The ginger male cat scratched the female tabby cat.

They kissed each other

Touched her shoulder

But the next day, Nov. 12,  another male cat showed up.....

Ginger cat's girl friend has mated with another male-- in front of him!

 

Poor Romeo was mentally and physically "collapsed". 
This is really a catastrophe.  Cats have feeling too.

The female cat must have many "peach blossom" elements in her Bazi chart.


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Meaning of year, month, day and hour pillar clashes in Bazi

The representation of 4 pillars in a Bazi chart:

Year pillar:  Parents/ older generations (also ancestral blessing)
Month pillar:  Siblings (also parents sometimes)
Day pillar:  Day-master (stem), spouse (branch)
Hour pillar:  Children

THE MEANINGS OF CLASHES BETWEEN PILLARS:

Year and month pillar clash
-- the person (Day-master, DM) is likely leaving hometown to make a living or career.  This also means DM has a challenging teen years and likely not doing well in school.
Year and day pillar clash
-- DM does not get along with parents or no blessing from ancestors.
Day pillar clashes hour pillar
-- DM jinxes wife and hurts children or has marital problem.
Day pillar clashes month pillar
-- DM jinxes parents and siblings.  This could also means DM has hidden illness or marital problem because day-branch is clashed.
Year pillar clashes with month, day and hour pillar clash
-- DM has fierce temper and is prone to untimely or violent death

If you want to know more details, you may take my "4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp” with 12 hr. video

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Feng Shui that turns a woman into a bossy wife

"Bossy" is a politically correct term for "bitch" here.  Below are Feng Shui conditions that will increase the dominance or power of women in a house.  These Feng Shui conditions are not necessarily negative IF the women are subservient to the men in a family and modify their house Feng Shui to make men less dominant.

FENG SHUI CONDITIONS THAT INCREASE WOMAN DOMINANCE

1. Kitchen is bigger than bedroom.
2. The total size of kitchen and dinning room are bigger than the living room
3. Wrong main door color:  In Feng Shui, main door direction is the "red phoenix" direction and should use "yang" or brighter color.  Back side is the "black tortoise" with "yin" or low profile color. What this means the main door facing outside should be in bright color ("yang") and the back of the door should be dark color.   If the front door is in black or darker color, the "yin-yang" is inverted and promotes "yin" or woman power in the house.
4. Right side of your house is bigger than the left side (or left side has missing corner):  Left side represents man and right side the woman of the house.  Bigger right side means the woman has more power over the man.
5. Assuming the left and right side of the house are equal in size, but the right side has more stuff like heavy furniture and activities there.  These would also increase female dominance.

Now women can blame Feng Shui for being bossy.  Men can said bad Feng Shui make them not standing up to their bossy wives.  Self-esteem of all the parties is restored.  But the best remedy is to hire a Feng Shui practitioner to fix these problems OR take my "Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video.


Ken Lai

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Your permanent "personal wealth position"

Today is your lucky day!  I am going to tell you the ultimate secret of your permanent "personal wealth position".  Unlike the wealth position of "Flying Star Feng Shui", which changes every year, your personal wealth position (PWP) stays in the same location year after year.

This paragraph is for the intellectually curious.  The rest of you can skip this.  PWP is the "lu" 禄 location of one's Bazi chart.  "Lu" is more than money.  It usually is translated as "fortune" and  includes wealth and "official salary" (important in ancient time but now it means fame and class status).  It is equivalent to the "attire" 临官 level of the "12 life stages of stem strength".

PWP locations.  Click to enlarge

It is easy to locate your permanent PWP with the following table and diagram here as long as you know the last digit of your birth year.  For example, if you were born in 1976, the last digit is "6" and you check the birth year column of the table below for the row with "6", then check the "Permanent wealth sector" column of the same row-- you find "SE3" is your PWP.  Please refer to the right diagram to identify the exact location of SE3 (look for the blue arrow.  For the example here, SE3 is the Si or snake mountain in Feng Shui).   

Important Note:  If you were born between January 1 and February 3 of the year, the last digit of your birth year is the previous year!  For example, if your birth day is between January 1 to February 3 of 1966, your last birth year digit is "5" and NOT "6".

How to "activate" your Personal Wealth Position
1.  Put your "Wealth God" statue or altar there.
2.  Put green plant or fish tank there.
3.  Put crystals there

Ken Lai

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Wealth Feng Shui with elephant trunk?

Believe it or not, some Feng Shui schools utilize elephant statues or figurines to enhance or "suck" in wealth.  The application is simple-- simply placing an elephant facing the door direction or at the house entrance location.  However,  the pointing direction of the elephant trunk is critical in this "elephant wealth Feng Shui".

Below are the different trunk pointing directions and applications:

Trunk pointing forward:
Symbolizes:  "Wealth absorbing elephant", to "suck in" the wealth of people walking in front of a house or shop.  However, if there is water in front of the premise, the trunk will blow wealth out of the house!
Suitable for:  Banks, financial agencies and jewelry stores.

Trunk pointing backward:
Symbolizes:  Also means"Wealth absorbing elephant", but to "suck in" the wealth of competition at the back.  This elephant usually is equipped with a pair of sharp tusks to counteract "mean people" (小人) and competitions of the same trade.
Suitable for:  Location with high concentration of the same trade, like a hi-tech store district; also as a remedy for wealth-losing/ leaking Feng Shui.

Trunk pointing upward:

Symbolizes:  "Wealth absorbing elephant", to "suck in" the wealth from the sky or heaven.
Suitable for:  Businesses that profit from the sky like airlines, astronomy and the like.  This elephant usually made with copper.




 Trunk pointing downward:

Symbolizes:  This is called "Water absorbing elephant".  Water symbolize wealth in Feng Shui.  This elephant is put in houses or stores with views of water like ponds, river, sea or ocean-- and face the water source to symbolize absorbing wealth continuously.
Suitable for:  Any business/ people, especially those making money from mother earth.

Ken Lai

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Easy Pet Feng Shui

10 years ago, I wrote about my neighbor's new puppy, a black labrador:

stock photo

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Kate, the puppy, becomes an old dog.  She has died of cancer last Monday.

Kate was an energetic dog.  She always greeted me with hugs and talked to me.  She had kept her promise of not peeving on my lawn too.  I write this "Easy Pet Feng Shui" to honor her life.

EASY PET FENG SHUI

This pet Feng Shui is based on elemental or energy nature of each animal groups.  It is easy to execute-- simply put the pet house or nest into "best sector" of your house or animal shelter.  For example, if the best sector is in the east, put your pet's nest/ bed in the east side of your house.  Below are some definitions for the table below.

Animal Groups
For clarity, each group is represented by one animal.  But it can also represent similar animals.  For examples: "Dog group" also represents wolf, fox and the likes.  "Cat group" also represents tiger, cougar and the likes. "Fish group" represents all aquatic animals.  "Bird group" also represents any feathered birds like turkey, rooster and the likes.

Best Sector
This is the best location for setting up your pet's sleeping quarter or nest.  It promotes good health and vitality for your pet because the energy of this location matches your pet's unique energy patterns.

Weakening Sector
This is not a location for setting up your pet's sleeping quarter or nest.  The energy here will weaken or drain the energy of your pet.

Negative Sector
This is the worst location for setting up your pet's sleeping quarter or nest.  The energy here is fighting with your pet's energy.  It will create serious health problem like cancer here.

RIP Kate the dog

Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
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“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
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“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
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10 birthdays that attract helpful people or mentors

"Birthdays" here are in terms of 60 binomials.  This also means day pillar in a birth chart.

 A Bazi chart consists of year, month, day and hour pillars.  Day pillar represents the daymaster (DM) and his/ her spouse.  For example, Geng-wu, Geng-metal represents the daymaster, Wu-fire represents the spouse.

There are 10 day pillars that can get helpful people or mentors easily, especially with the help of spouse.  They are listed as follows:

Jia-zi:  Zi-water stands for resource ("yin" 印) for Jia-wood DM.
Yi-hai:  Hai-water stands for resource ("yin" 印) for Yi-wood DM.
Bing-zi:  Zi-water represents power ("guan" 官) for Bing-fire DM
Ding-hai:  Hai-water represents power ("guan" 官) for Ding-fire DM.
Wu-zi:  Zi-water stands for wealth ("cai" 财) for Wu-earth DM.
Ji-hai:  Hai-water stands for wealth ("cai" 财) for Ji-earth DM.
Geng-wu:  Wu-fire represents power ("guan" 官)for Geng-metal DM.
Xin-si:  Si-fire represents power ("guan" 官)for Xin-metal DM.
Ren-wu:  Wu-fire stands for wealth ("cai" 财) for Ren-water DM.
Gui-si:  Si-fire stands for wealth ("cai" 财) for Gui-water DM.

Wealth ("cai" 财), power ("guan" 官)and resource ("yin" 印) are considered the three auspicious or desirable items in Bazi.  DM sits on any one of these transformation stars ("10-gods"), if favorable, means at least a helpful spouse for him/ her.

You have a one in six chances of getting one of these day pillars.

Please check the Appendix below on how to figure out your day-pillar from your birthday.



Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a person

1.  Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
3.  Click "CALCULATE" box
4.  Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
5.  The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is "Geng-shen" in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.


Ken Lai

 
© 2016 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.


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“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com