Easy Feng Shui fixes for bad luck

When life and things are great, people often think that the good life is "normal" and will last forever.   But Life is like a roller-coaster with many ups and downs. What goes up will go down someday.  

Without bad luck, there would be no good luck to contrast.  Sooner or later bad luck will catch up with anyone.

How do you know you are in a bad luck period?  Beside getting a Bazi reading, check the following list to see if you are in bad luck now:

1. Poor sleep or insomnia; nightmares or strange dreams
2. Eyelids tickling or ringing ears
3. Unstable emotion, easily irritated , throwing tantrums
4. Minor illness, pimples or swellings grow on face
5. Confusing mind and thought, unable to quiet down to think
6. Poor interpersonal relationship with relatives, friends and coworkers
7. Running into obstacles when doing anything.  Daily chores that are used to be a breeze are difficult to do well now.
8. Sudden breaking of everyday utensils, light bulbs, flooding, leaking pipes, machines or electronics.
9. Losing money and wealth without knowing the reason behind.   
10. Minor traffic accidents or car damages/ scratches
11. Your home suddenly has many flies.
12. Hit by bird pooh

If you run into 3+ of the above, you are in bad luck now.  But today is your lucky day.  You can follow the simple Feng Shui fixes below to alleviate or reduce the effect of your bad luck:

1. Do a major cleaning of your house.
2. Switch to a different bedroom to sleep
3. Change the head-pointing direction of your bed or move your bed location
4. Donate or throw away old or damaged objects like clothing, furniture and etc.
5. Re-arrange your furniture
6. Rearrange your closet and remove/demote rarely used old clothing and shoes.
7. Adjusting your sitting position at home and office (change the facing direction, make sure there is a wall at the back of your chair) or simply change the sitting location.
8. Remove any Feng Shui fountain if it has been in the same location for over a year.
9. Take a short out-of-town vacation or day trip to change your energy fields
10. Invite friends to your home for partying, to warm up the energy of your house.
11. Go to a temple or church to pray
12. Do some volunteering work helping people or animals
13. Donate money to charity
14. Feed homeless cats or dogs
15. Avoid going to cemetery, funeral and hospital.

If the above fixes do not fix your bad luck, you may have some serious problems.  You need to consult a Bazi reader and/or Feng Shui practitioner to design more personalized remedies.

Ken Lai
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Feng Shui features that attract mean people 犯小人风水

"Xiao ren" or "little people" is the Chinese term for mean people, backstabbers and gossipers -- people who make your life miserable or blocking your progress in life.

Common Feng Shui features that attract mean people are:

1. External negative energy (sha-qi) like T-junction, heaven-chopping sha, and other form sha.
2. Missing corner in home or office, especially SE or NW side.
3. Overhanging beam above your seat or bed
4. Door facing door, whether with your neighbor's door or door facing door inside your home or office
5. Window behind sofa, bed or office chair (no support or helpful mentor)
6. "Yin" plants with thorns like roses, cactus, climbing plants/ vines
7. Clutters and  garbage accumulation in your home or office
8. Sleeping or sitting in the annual 3-wood star location (2018 in NE, 2019 in south, 2020 in north).  This star stands for disharmony and mean people.

Some remedies or cures for the above are from simple to difficult.  The easy ones are simply removing or relocating the offending Feng Shui items.  For the difficult ones, please consult your Feng Shui teacher or take the following course for cures or remedies:

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video 


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Using Feng Shui to "manage" your husband 御夫风水

Originally, I want to use the word "control" instead of "manage".  But "control" sounds manipulative and politically incorrect....

Ladies!  Today is your lucky day if your husband drives you nuts or bosses you around.  The cavalry is coming to your rescue with this little taught husband management Feng Shui.  It is based on simple Form Feng Shui theory of green dragon and white tiger (not elaborated here, take my "Visual Form Feng Shui" course if you want to know more).

FENG SHUI FEATURES THAT MAKE YOUR HUSBAND DOMINANT
1.  Too many furniture is put in the left side of your house
Fix:  move some furniture to the right side of your house; make it a balance if you want an egalitarian relationship
2.  Most activities taking place in left side of your house
Fix:  arrange more activities to the right side of your house
3.  Bedroom door is in left side of bed
Fix:  move your bed so that the door is at the right side
4.  Bedroom location is close to a road with traffic
Fix:  relocate your bedroom
5.  Stove has no support mountain (back side of stove is a window)
Fix:  relocate your stove to place it with a wall at its back
6.  Husband sleeps close to window side or open side of the bed (this will increase his peach-blossom and authority)
Fix:  switching sleeping location with husband 
7.  Toilet in southwest side (SW represents woman of the house)
Fix:  stop using this toilet or at least keeping it clean

STRUCTURAL PROBLEMS FOR MALE-DOMINANT FENG SHUI
Below house features will contribute to male chauvinism to a marriage.  Avoid these features when buying a house.  If you already bought the house, consult a Feng Shui teacher or take my "Visual Form Feng Shui" course for remedies.

• Southwest side of your house is a missing corner
• Northwest side of your house has a big protrusion
• Left side of your house is much bigger than right side
• House on top of a hill (no support and makes husband more dogmatic)

"Ken, do you have "wife management Feng Shui"?  Woman can be bossy too."

Smart men can see this is a BOGO article with "wife management Feng Shui" already embedded.  Simple do the opposite of the list above, like change right back to left or northwest to southwest.

May the Auspicious Qi  be with you.

Ken Lai 

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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Auspicious and Inauspicious sleeping directions 12生肖睡觉朝向风水

We spend one-third of our life in sleeping.  It is important that our heads pointing to the direction that is beneficial to our body.  The followings are favorable and unfavorable sleeping directions based on your Chinese zodiac animal sign.  The sleeping directions here refer to the pointing direction of your head while sleeping.

RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044) 
Favorable directions:  north, west
Unfavorable directions:  northwest, southwest 

OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973,  1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045)
Favorable directions:  west, north, northeast,
Unfavorable directions:  northwest, southwest, south 

TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022,  2034, 2046)
Favorable directions:  east, south, north
Unfavorable directions:  west
 
RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023,  2035 ) 
Favorable directions:  east, south, north
Unfavorable directions:  west

DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976,  1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036)  
Favorable directions:  north, west, southeast, northeast,
Unfavorable directions:  east, northwest, south

SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013,  2025, 2037) 
Favorable directions:  east, south
Unfavorable directions:  north

HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)
Favorable directions:  east, south
Unfavorable directions:  north

RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )
Favorable directions:  south, southwest
Unfavorable directions:  northeast, northwest, north 

MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016,  2028, 2040)
Favorable directions:  west, southwest, northeast
Unfavorable directions:  south

ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981,  1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)  
Favorable directions:  west, southwest, northeast
Unfavorable directions:  south

DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970,  1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)
Favorable directions:  east, south, northwest
Unfavorable directions:  northeast, southeast

PIG  (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )
Favorable directions:  north, west
Unfavorable directions:  northwest, southwest

NOTE:  If a person was born between January 1 and February 3 of the year, his/ her animal sign would be the sign of previous year (due to the Chinese solar calendar). 

Ken Lai 

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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Bad Feng Shui seen at the door

Below is a list of inauspicious Feng Shui images that you do not want to see upon entering one's house or at the door.

1. Greet by a wall-- may cause obstacles in life and declining luck
2. See a mirror-- deflects away good energies coming into the house and absorbs negative energies into the house
3. See a toilet--  greeting guest with foul energy; attracting bickering and disharmony among family members 
4. See a stairs--  leaking energy and wealth
5. See bedroom--  attracting lust and affairs
6. See the kitchen-- causing lawsuits, wealth losses and hot temper
7. Walks under heavy beam over the door--  disunity among family members and dwindling luck
8. See the balcony through the door-- leaking qi or energy, hurting people and failure to accumulate wealth and keep people in the family
9. See 3 doors in a straight line--  "sword piercing heart sha" that hurts people and loses wealth
10. See piles of shoes/ garbage-- negative qi suppresses residents' luck; difficult life for the residents and attracting "mean people" or backstabbers.
11. See objects like knife, sword, gun, tiger, snake and etc.-- unsettling family with bloody events and lawsuits

Most of the above are under traditional Form Feng Shui area.  Consult a Feng Shui practitioner for remedy or take this course:
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

© 2017 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
"Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management" w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Introduction to Bed Feng Shui

Three imperatives of Feng Shui are: main door, master
bedroom and stove.

There are many ways to manipulate the door to
re-direct qi flow to the house-- tilt it or move it
around. We FS guys have been toying with the front
door for centuries.

There are also many ways to move the stove around to
achieve health, wealth and luck concerns. Ba Zhai or
8-mansions school is the more familiar one.

Obviously, FS guys would move the bed around like they
do with doors and stoves. How come we have not seen
much about bed Feng Shui in the west?

So, what can we do to the master bedroom to improve
the life of its occupants since one-third of their
lives are spent on the bed?

There are some familiar form FS restrictions about
bedroom, like no mirror, no lamp or fan hang above the
bed, no setting bed in front of windows, no sharp
objects under your bed, no skylight above your bed, no
double-doors for bedroom, .....

There are many ways to set up a bed to improve spousal
relationship, to improve luck, to promote fertility
and to improve health. The followings are some major
ones:

1. Ba Zhai bed-setting
This is the easiest one-- setting the bed according to
your ming gua.

2. San He bed-setting
This method is for giving birth to male baby using San
He theories based on husband's 4P.

3. "8-door addition" bed-setting
This method using Qi Men's 8 doors methodology to
improve one's luck.

4. San Yuan Qi Men bed-setting
This method uses Qi Men Dun Jia to set bed and is a
pretty complicated method.

5. 9-stars bed-setting
This method is a piece of cake for people who know
flying star method. It helps improve spousal
relationship and even solves health problems that is
caused by bed and bedroom door locations. With
misguided intention, this method can be used to
control your spouse.

6. Pillowing on "Tai Yang" (Great Male) bed-setting
This method is for giving birth of male baby by
locating the "Tai Yang" position on your bed, have
your wife laying on it and do your baby-making
procedure there. The opposite of this method is "Tai
Yin" (Great Female), which locates the "Tai Yin"
position on your bed, is for getting baby girl.

A word of caution: If your client has pregnant woman
in the house, DO NOT MOVE THEIR BED!!

Ken Lai
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